This blog is 18+. MDNI
I was MattDomMain, until Tumblr decided I was a little too much for polite society.
So. New try.
Middle-aged, married, and polyamorous Dom in Northern Europe. Most likely too old for you. Or the perfect age.
I have been dominant for 20+ years. Long enough to know that dominance is not volume. It is not performance. It is not trying to sound dangerous.
Real control is quieter than that.
Somewhere between caretaker, trainer and tamer, I suppose. Daddy Dom when that language fits. Sir when it does not need explaining.
Always kinky.
Tender sadist is probably the cleanest description, even if there is nothing very clean about it.
I like obedience. I like self-awareness. I like softness. I like needy. I like women who know there is something darker in them, even if they cannot quite name it yet.
I like the slow part.
The part before anything happens.
The asking. The noticing. The little shift in tone. The moment someone realizes they are being read more carefully than they expected.
Get the fuck out if you are a racist, fascist, Nazi, TERF, bigot, MAGA, or anything that would gladly sit at a table with them. Popper's Paradox is not confusing to me.
This blog is fantasy. Words, mood, hunger, tension, bad ideas kept safely behind glass.
If anything from here ever became real, with me, with you, in the same room, it would be discussed properly. Clearly. Honestly. Based in RACK. Risk-aware. Consensual. No guessing. No pressure. No stupid games dressed up as dominance.
I believe in consent. I believe in aftercare. I believe in honesty. I believe in communication. I can be very gentle.
That does not mean I am safe to want. You can find a few stories at @mattdomwrites
