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Then donāt pretend, Iām well aware of what you feel about me.
āThey must not have understood their friend correctly, chose to ignore it, or their friend has lied to them because the victims of grooming often re-victimise themself as a response to sexual trauma. ā
How is this relevant? At that time I was not knowledgeable at all about grooming. But now I am, and I know Iām not a groomer.
āAdditionally, Tuner made me believe that my emotions were harmful when my cry for help about my mental health turned into an ugly fight that lasted for several days.ā
I did NOT make you believe that your emotions were harmful. You thought your emotions were harmful because you couldnāt respect my boundaries. Look at my responses, I am talking that way because you are breaking my boundaries.
And what emotion? The emotion to jack off? Seriously?
ā1) I was making threatening posts on Sketchers United about committing suicide in the summer of 2023. Tuner was someone who followed my account for a long time and reached out to me. He knew I was very vulnerable from the start.ā
Yes I reached out to you when you vulnerable to HELP you. I was 16, I didnāt even know what Chernobyl was if it werenāt for your birthday and you explaining it to me. So itās ridiculous how youāre painting me as some sort of criminal mastermind, that planned everything from the start just to draw nsfw of you.
It matters who confessed because if you had never confessed I never would have gotten with you. At the time I was a recipromantic. Meaning I only liked people who liked me back. You are very aware that I am in the aromantic spectrum.
āTuner said to keep it secret.ā
Keep our KINKS secret. What? you wanna tell the whole world what youāre into?
āThere are countless instances of grooming provided in my document.ā
You really think our sextalking was me grooming you? We both consented to it. And if I recall you were the one who continued and asked to do it even after I told you I was uncomfortable. (Proof in additional images)
āTuner, as stated before, would not let me talk about it with them. I feared that if I told anyone about it, I would have to separate from Tuner and kept quiet because I was deeply in love with them.ā
Wow, love is blind huh? Or are you really just blind? I wouldnāt let you talk about it, or rather we have talked about it, decided that I wasāt well equipped for that sort of thing, yet you still continue to want to talk about it with ME, which is breaking my boundary. And who cares if youāre scared because you were āin loveā with me.
That love wasnāt very deep anyway, because the moment you THOUGHT I was spreading lies about you, you went out and blasted the internet. Threatening to blackmail me. (Proof in docs)
Response to more of Avfiās claims:
There is no concrete evidence to prove I am innocent because this isnāt like any drama where people get to decide if youāre guilty or not. You really think people think Iām some saint? No, I am flawed, people are disgusted by my past actions and I have owned up to it. I have apologized, and people SEE that.
Youāre refusing to believe that becaue you want a public discussion. How are you now? Feeling better after arguing with your ex on the interenet for hundreds to see?
a) I understand youāre not a perfect victim, but if youāre hoping everyone on the INTERNET is going to understand that then youāre going to be in a world of hurt.
b) Cancel because what? Because I hurt your feelings? People usually cancel groomers because there is more than one victim and because they were aware that they were taking advantage of someone. I donāt check any of those, and I have, again, owned up to my mistakes.
You should really figure out what the definition of grooming is.
āNothing has been resolved, ever. He has been constantly saying over and over that the drama is "over," and it was resolved a long time ago. This is just bullshit. I never agreed. The one time that I did, it was because I still loved Tuner. I don't love them. I hate them. It's a deep loathing for them and what they did to me. The lies they told, pretending to be the victim, never actually suffering from ANY consequences of what they have done to me.ā
Nothing has been resolved, FOR YOU. You refuse to accept that things are resolved. āthe one time I did-ā So, you did accept it has been resolved at one point, but oh! Because you found out Iām a POPULAR FORSAKEN CREATOR!!! You decided that things arenāt actually resolved! Or maybe, youāre doing this because I didnāt want to get back with you, I have to give it to you though, atleast you didnāt blackmail me to get back with you. Still, itās insane that the last thing you said to me was āI love youā before posting a docs about me and labelling me a groomer.
Donāt blame me for your self harm. Get professional help. You have already made people aware of what I done, and they think what I did was wrong. The reason why people are against you now is because youāre dragging this entire thing just because you so desperately want me to get cancelled just because we broke up. Thatās not much of an excuse to get cancelled.
Genuinely, move on. Get over yourself. Stop venting on here for hundreds to see, nobody is going to help you but yourself or a professional. I donāt understand why you are extorting so much effort for nothing.
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