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Clarity For Self ~ Pick A Pile

PILE 1

PILE 1

You are a person who sees the beautiful things in life. You pay attention to the butterflies in a field full of bugs and to the stars in a night of darkness. This also allows you to see all the opportunities that are coming for you. You see all these things that can become so great. But you are also undecided about what you really want. You need to take a step forward towards something new. Choose whatever excites you the most. Whatever makes you feel the most alive. Stop thinking about what is good for you and what is not and do something. At the end of the day, it is better to do a small step than do nothing at all. You can always change your mind and come back if you need to do so. Start thinking more about yourself and less about others. Choose your destiny according to what you want and not what you should do. I know you are trying to get the best outcome and to please everyone, but that is not possible. You will remain stuck if you keep going like that, and that is not the right way. Be comfortable in doing things your way just because you wanted to do them like that. You choosing the best for yourself is not disrespectful. And you're not responsible for other people's feelings. If you follow your heart, harmony will come your way. You have been taking into consideration other people a lot lately. So it's time to balance your priorities.

PILE 2

You really like your comfort zone. It is safe. It is warm and it is easy to control. You have nothing to be scared of here. But the thing is, this space of yours is holding you back. The security that you think you thrive in is not actually that secure. This is just a thought that you have to reassure yourself that you are doing the right thing. One different step and it is easily ruined. But that is actually what you have to do. And it's been pulling you for a while and you have felt it before, but you choose to ignore it. Stop ignoring it. It's time for a rebirth. It is time for you to get out of the zone and change your ways. Childhood is finished. Your wings have grown. It is time for you to fly. Stop avoiding new challenges in the fear of losing what you're comfortable with. You will lose them, but that is what's supposed to happen. You need to lose your old things for better a new ones to come into your life. You can become so much better and have so much more if you just let yourself free. It will be uncomfortable. It will feel unsafe. And at times, you may even regret it. And considering your personality, you will most likely regret doing it. But that's not because it's bad for you, but it's because of your made-up limitations. Every time you find yourself weeping for the old, change perspective and look at the beautiful new. Find comfort in the uncomfortable.

PILE 3

We have an intellectual here, and by that I mean a person who thinks all the time. Thinking is generally a good thing, but not when you think too much about everything and anything, including your emotions. You may be the type of person who thinks of all the possible outcomes before a situation happens. Or maybe someone who thinks about their emotions instead of feeling them. Which is understandable. You just want to feel secure. But life is not as crazy as you think it is. A lot of the time, the craziness happening in your life comes from your own head. I can assure you that the outside reality is pretty simple. If you let it be that way. Let things happen for themselves and observe them instead of analyzing them. If you don't how meeting is going to end, stop making scenarios in your head. Instead be curious about what the situation can be. If you start living like that instead of overthinking, your intuition will come to the surface. And the thing is, you have a very good intuition. It has always been here, buried deep under your pile of thoughts,to the point that it's hard to distinguish between them. But it will come back once you will be curious instead of stressed about life.

PILE 4

Well, aren't you a ray of sunshine? People love you. You glow. You make everyone's day. You're the best person to have around when you need help. Which can make you a good person. But in your case can make you a little bit of a pushover. I understand that you want to be perceived like that, and that's all right. There's nothing wrong with that 'cause at the end of the day, you are one. And a promise to you. Saying what you have on your mind is not going to make you a bad person. I know you have your thoughts and your urges and you want to say all this stuff that's in your head and you just can't 'cause it may seem rude or disrespectful. Well, sometimes you need to be rude and disrespectful. Some people deserve it. And you deserve to have boundaries and for them to be respected. You setting your boundaries and asking for them not to be trespassed is not being disrespectful. So start saying what's on your mind. Start saying your thoughts about that one person, even if it may sound a little bit mean. And stop thinking about what everyone around you thinks about you. Because once you do that, there will be people who will think that you've become so bad and you've changed for the worst. And let them. Let them think you are a bad person. You are not. You know that, and that's the most important thing. Because at the end of the day, why do you keep giving all of them the love and care that you should be giving yourself?

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What To Expect From This Year ~ PICK A PILE

PILE 1

Expect this year to be one full of luck and opportunities. You are changing scenery, travelling and making friends. Maybe it is you in your true nature, or maybe it is something you are working on, but your social life is thriving this year. Some of you are going to make international friends with that travelling. You are making meaningful connections.This is also the time when you finally invest in yourself. You are taking care of yourself, starting a new skincare routine, buying a new wardrobe. With that being said, pay attention to the relationships you make. It is good to have a social life, but be sure that those people are on the same wavelength as you. Don't take too many projects on your hand and don't accept every invitation you get just because it is an opportunity to be social. The people that you will interact with this year will play a big part in forming who you are and you values, so choose wisely and with heart.

PILE 2

This is the year when you take action. There is something that you have been working on during the past year and there has no been no results so far, probably because you did little to no action to achieve anything. Well, I am glad to tell you that it is finally happening this year. Now, let's not go inside our heads and think about that big thing that you want. That big thing won't come that easily. What you will have instead is small achievements. Don't turn away from them just because it is not what you have dreamed for, because it is these small achievements that will push you to the top. Every small step is better than nothing. Learn to appreciate your small steps. You are a little bit of an overthinker so every little "failure" seems like a catastrophe for you. Learn to tame those thoughts. They are your biggest enemy. You can do it. You have the willpower and you have it inside you.

PILE 3

Expect a lot of fun. Expect rediscovering things that make you feel happy. This year is for your passions, the things that you naturally want to put effort into and love doing. There is some inner reflection going on. It may seem confusing in the beginning, like you are walking through thick fog and you are unsure if there is an end to it. You will randomly find what you are looking for throughout this year. It is important to give it a chance, however. Once you do, it will feel like an enlightening. Like you can't believe that you were blind to it this whole time. It will come so natural to it, it would be strange to think that you didn't do it before. This one passion of yours will end up opening so many doors and so many opportunities for you. It can be your calling in life. And if it's not, it will still become a big part of you.

PILE 4

Expect deep change within yourself. It is a year that starts with confusion. Lots of thoughts and ideas, all too overwhelming to live with. You will be tired and you will struggle. This year is more about lessons than rewards. There is a toxic part of your life that you need to get rid of. It will happen whether you like it or not. But sometimes, in order to build something better, you need to destroy everything, including the comfortable zone that you are in. This destruction would be sudden and full of anxieties. It is important to accept that some things are happening for the greater good, even if they don't like that at the moment. Take the crumbles that you are left with and use them to start building something better instead of mourning the loss. That loss needs to happen. Not all things that bring discomfort are bad. Discomfort is needed so you can progress.

PILE 5

Expect small steps towards your dreams. You are putting your projects into work. You are in a period when you have to cry blood, sweat, and tears to get those future desires that you have, but you have a willpower and ambition. You are willing to do what it need to be done. Whatever you do this year will not be in vain. The work will pay off and you will start seeing results as soon as the end of this year.

PILE 6

This year is filled with useless worries for you. Your life is created by your thoughts. Well, you have a lot of them. Maybe too many of them. You think of scenarios that will never happen and come to conclusions that are not real. You take decisions either too fast or too slow. You are in fact an intelligent person, but you are so stuck in your head that live in these false beliefs that are created by yourself. You end up thinking about things and never starting them because you are unsure about everything that you could possibly do. Start living in the real world. Do things without expecting a reaction. Let people judge you, learn to stop judging yourself. This state of mentality has been going on for a while now. This is the year when you can change this. Do shadow work. Go to therapy. Challenge yourself. It is important to take a step out of your fake world.

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Your Love Life This Yeat ~ PICK A PILE

Pick a pile

PILE 1

You have been single for a while it finally feels like you are ready for it. You are full of love and ready to give it to someone, but at the same time not just to anyone. You are someone who dates to marry. You are here to create something stable. Although you have an attractive vibe to yourself, it is rarely that the guy is the one approaching you. It is mostly you who makes the first step. But it is not like you seem to mind it. You would probably prefer if the other person moved first, but is not a need. You are confident in yourself enough to not care about such small things. The same thing will happen this year, too. You are the one who moves first. However, you have to be careful about who you ask out. Try getting to know the person before entering a relationship. Just because you are ready for something deep and serious, it doesn’t mean everyone is like that. You will end up disappointed. Also, relationships rarely tend to go the way we imagine them. Be ready for the hardships that come with a relationship, and be sure that the person next to you is worth it.

PILE 2

You are either in a relationship or a situationship right now and you are not sure if it worth your time. On one hand, there is yourself, who you want to give the best to. You know that you deserve a true loving relationship; you deserve the respect and love that this person does not provide for you. But on the other hand, you have your person, who you really care about it. Despite the phase that you are going through, you don’t think that this person is just a passer by in your life. You know you deserve more, but you want that more from the person that you love right now, not just anyone. But I can tell you that this can’t go on forever. You will get tired of it at some point, no matter how much love you have for the person. I can see you adressing the situation this year, because you WILL get tired, and you also don’t want to give up on them. That talk will be the final decision of your relationship. You will either both become a good couple where both people feel loved, or it will end eventually. The earlier you adress the situation, the better the conversation will go. Keeping it for later will just make the discussion turn into an argument.

PILE 3

You have been in a serious relationship for a while now. You are so comitted to it, that the next big step is the engagement. Or maybe, you are already engaged and you just need to do the wedding. The point is, you have been with this person for years. This year will open your eyes about this person. For some of you, you have been waiting for that engagement for years and it is still not happening. You are just here expecting and not receiving. This is just not the person for you. You deserve so much more. Maybe you are still satying because you have already put so much of your time into this relationship, but that is not a valid reason let yourself stay in a place that doesn’t serve you. It will be hard and you will need to learn how to be happy with yourself again, but is the better thing for you. This is the yeat that brings you justice, no matter how it looks in the present moment.

PILE 4

This is the year when a cycle is ending. If you are in a relationship, it is a toxic one. You feel unloved, or maybe you don’t agree on things, and when you try to point it out things only get worse. Your egos are playing a big part in your fights. You can’t stop arguing even when you know that you are wrong. . You don’t want to be in this relationship, why are you still here? Is it just to prove something to someone? Is that important? In this year you are putting yourself first and act towards your higher good. If you are single, this is the year when you find love. It will not be easy, but it will be happening. There are some issues you have to work through first. Pretty sure on of them is your self-esteem. You may look confident, but it is just a facade. Do you think that you are unworhty of it? Stop saying all those negative things about yourself. Allow yourself to be loved. Even if you don’t believe it, let people love you because you do deserve it. If you think it would a selfish move, so be it, be selfish. Let other people show how worthy you can be. Believe them and love yourself.

PILE 5

Is there someone you like? If not, then be ready for your new crush. But don’t think too far. It is someone you know, probably work with. You see them in a different light. And maybe you don’t have feelings for them yet, but there is still something there. Don’t be afraid to act on it. Be the active one in this relationship, your person will like it. It is something that will make them fall for you. It may feel hard at times, like there is too much pressure on you, but you will be okay. You will get your love.

PILE 6

I don’t see a relationship happening for you, but I am also not sure if you are ready for one. You would first need to get rid of all of your overthinking when it comes to your love life. Which, I see happening, but you are not stopping here. Maybe you are too afraid of being intimate with someone. However, once you get to be physically intimate, there is still the emotional intimacy that you are still afraid of. You don’t go into anything serious. You aren’t doing anything to get into one, either. You are just someone who will go nowhere further than one-night stands this year. You are not becoming a hermit. You do get around, but everything is no strings attached.

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What you should leave behing and blindly go into? ~ PICK A PILE

PILE 1

You are stuck on a rigid path that you have followed your whole life. And the reason you are stuck here is because it is secure. Everything is planned out perfectly and goes by the book. It is a sure way to success. But is it what you really want? Of course, you do want success, but your soul will never stop wondering about the what ifs. And you also know that trying other paths means giving up on the security that you have right now. You can’t balance both of them. It is okay for you to venture around. It is scary, since despite your curiosity, you are not quite sure about what you actually want. On the same page, you don’t see those things quite as they are, they are still a dream to you and we all like to put rose colored glasses on our dreams. But the cards also push you to jump into the uknown. It will be a situation of trial and failure, but it will also be the way to the happiest version of yourself. All these trials will open your eyes to your true and self and make you revalue everything that you have known.

PILE 2

You have been having financial problems recently. You do have enough money to go by, but it is just that. Your job provides you just enough to survive. Despite the fact that you would want more, you are scared of leaving what you have right now. This job is easy for you, you know everyhting about it that there is to know, and if you were to go for something bigger, you would either have to work way harder or put yourself financially at risk (some of you would like to open their own business), which to be fair, it doesn’t sound that appealing. But you will be stuck here forever if you don’t do anything. Go for the risk. I am not promising you fields with flowers, but it needs to be done if you want to have more than just enough. It will be hard. You will sometimes feel overworked and some days you will feel stuck, almost regreting your decisions. But this is what it need to be done to achieve that greater future. This is the first step to you succcess. Go for it.

PILE 3

I know that our generation is all about doing what feels right to you, but that message is not for you. You have been doing what you want your whole life. And yes, you sometimes are right about what you are doing, but that’s it. Only sometimes. You are self-sabotaging at this point. Your actions are going against your higher self. And the only reason behind your actions is “it is what I wanted”. Well, I am sorry to break it to you, but what you want is not always what you need. You will never go further just by doing what you feel like doing. Start doing the uncomfortable and the unwanted. If you don’t know something, learn it. It is never too late for that. If the thing looks boring, find the motivation to do it. Learn some discipline. Learn to listen to your head in raport to your heart.

PILE 4

Your life is great, you are living the dream. You are doing what you want, you are accomplishing each of your wishes. It seems that you are also travelling a lot. You have seen many things and have been to all kinds of different places. Although this life is great for you, maybe it is time to start settling down. I am not saying that you should leave everything behind and stay in one place. But there will be a point in your life when you will just want to relax at your place in your own comfort zone. You should start investing into that place. All the things that you are doing now are great, but they are not forever. And again, I am not saying you will give them up, but you will want them less at one point. Having a settlement already yours will be perfect for when that time comes.

PILE 5

You have been going through a path of transformation lately. And this may be because it feels like nothing is going right for you and it has been stressing you out. You work for something, you put all of your sweat into it and when you are about to receive all your rewards, everything ends up getting ruined, as if the universe keeps giving you lessons to toughen you up. But have you ever wondered if maybe you are trying to take too much control over the situation. Learn to let go of the things that you can’t control (especially if you have a lot of 8 house placements in your birth chart). You will only get your rewards when you will let things that are meant for you happen to you. Surrender, learn to trust the universe. Know that it will always have your back and will always lead you to your best future, no matter how the present looks. Don’t force things to move your way. Move with the things.

PILE 6

It seems that you have a habit of moving from connection to connection. You find someone, you seem to click, and just before you allow things to go deeper, you leave. Are you one of those people who stop being attracted to the person as soon as the chase stops? Even if you are the one stopping the conncection most of the time, you still find foolish reasons to why you left, like “he wasn’t tall enough”, or “she watches only comedy shows”. You should put more effort if you want a genuine connection. Know that you getting a partner doesn’t mean people coming and trying to fit your standards (which are most likely there just because you are afraid of commitment and not because you actually care about those things). Getting a partner is you getting to know someone and embracing as they are just as you want them to do with you. They are a person just like you. Start looking for things that you like in them and stick to them no matter how uncomfortable it feels. This is not me saying that if you do that, you will have the perfection relationship and nothing will go wrong. It is me saying that even if something happens, accept that it wasn’t because you are unworthy. A lot of them may leave no matter how much effort you put into the realtionship. But one of them will be the perfect person for you, who is just right. And you will miss mess if you keep doing what you are doing.

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What are you stressed about? ~ PICK A PILE

Welcome to my once in a decade tarot pile reading. Choose a pile

PILE 1

There is a change, an opportunity coming into your life that you are stressing about. For some of you, this change includes having to move abroad, or the moving is the change itself. The stress level comes from the fact that this is something that you deeply want. You have wished and waited for this opportunity for so long. You have worked and invested in this moment, knowing that is something that you are meant to do. Despite everything, you worry about not being good enough for it. You made this situation seem so grand and so out of reach, that now, when it is finally here, it feels unbelievable. It is here in your hands, at your level and you still question yourself. Stop questioning and go for it. It is here for you because you deserve it. It is here because you have worked and waited for it. You are allowed to let good things happen to you. Embrace the change, move forward, take what you know, and be ready to learn the uknown.

PILE 2

You are stressed about the friendship environment that surrounds you. You have been around these people for years now. You have done everything to fit in or be good enough for them. But no matter what they do, they don’t accept the real you. They may accept a fake personality that you put on, but it drains you out, and the mask can’t stay forever on. You are judged again every time it slips. On the same side, they never take you seriously, your words don’t mean anything to them. If you are questioning about what you should do, this is an easy leave. These are not the only people in the world. There are so many people out there ready to love you for who you are. Don’t be afraid to make the first step towards them. There is nothing but familiarity that is keeping you with your current friends. However, there is a better type of comfort than familiarity. It is called security and understanding. Don’t be afraid of puting yourself first.

For some people choosing this pile, it may not be that deep. You are probably working ona group project where it feels like you do all the work and it is draining you out. You are already dreaming about all the new things you can do after you finish this project, or going back to working with your usual partners. Keep it up just a little, this thing will soon finish and you can go back to your usual routine.

PILE 3

You are stressed about whether you should keep up what you are doing. This is something you have really put your effort into, consequently you expect to get result for all the work you have done. However, you keep waiting and the rewards are still not coming You go and put even more effort, and still, no results. It is to a point where you think that it is unfair towards you. But this is the thing for you, this situation of yours is not one where you can work smarter rather than harder; you can’t go and take the easy route just because it is available. If you really want the rewards that you think you deserve, you need to do everything step by step. You have to show that you are eager to work for want you want. You have to prove that this is not some superficial thing for you. Of course you can give up any day. It is you making the decision after all. But know, that if you really want it and you think you deserve it, you need to prove it.

PILE 4

You are stressed by a sudden and unexpected change in your life. This is a thing that really stresses the shit out of you, considering your stable personality. You are someone who likes to have things under control and be aware about everything that is happening around, so this situation really took a toll on you. And I don’t think it is the usual stressed for you, it seems liked your world has been turned upside down and everything is ruining around you. I am here to tell you that it is okay. Breathe. This is the universe telling you that you are part of nature and there is nothing predictable when it comes to nature. All those mountains that you are stressed about are just hills if you learn how to let go of control. I would advise having someone to look up to and give you guidance during this period. Trust their advice and trust yourself.

PILE 5

You are stressed about growing up, either physically or as a person. You have so much potential in you, you can become greater and greater, but you are scared of it. You have your little habits, your usual place, and all the people you know that you are used to. You are scared to leave them all behind. You are scared of venturing into the uknown. It looks like this big thing that you don’t believe you can handle. But a little tip, nobody actually knows what they are getting into when they grow up. Of course your routines and people are comfortable and secure, but you will be stuck in a place of what you are with only dreams of what you could be. You can make those dreams reality. Yes, you will have to give up some of the things that are comfortable, but if you don’t do it, you will never get to experience the better things that will come instead of them.

PILE 6

You are stressed about losing something or someone. This person/thing is really special to you. It is either family relates or really close to be considered family. It seems that you have lost it and there is no way for them to come back. It is the most painful that there is nothing you can do about it. You can only stay and watch it go. Sadly, this is a part of the human world. There is always a dark side to all the beautiful things that we have.

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Where should you set your priorities ~ PICK A PILE

Take a deep breath and pick an image without giving it much thought.

PILE 1

PILE 1

It seems like you are in a conflict right now, either with family, with friends,or with yourself. You are trying hard to prove your point, believing that you are the one in the right. However, you have to realize that is your ego that taking over in the moment. It is the ego that is trying to prove something right now. Prioritize your calm and peace. Take a moment for yourself. Wonder if it's really worth it to put all of your energy into this. Is this really something worth arguing? And the most important one, do you really need to prove something? If you look deep inside, you will see that you already have and are everything that you need. Every answer that you could need is already inside yourself. You just have to take a moment and breathe.

PILE 2

You are experiencing a heartbreak right now. And I believe it is caused by your own thoughts. You are an overthinker. You have dreams, aspirations and ideas, but your own mind is your biggest enemy when it comes to achieving them. You don't get to start them , that you are already hurt by outcomes that didn't happen. Stop focusing on what ifs and start prioritizing the doing. That stuff from your head is not real. What is real is all that will come to you once you put everything into action. And you can't imagine how good a real result can feel. You will also notice how easy everything actually is. Those big monsters in your head are just small stones you can easily step over.

PILE 3

You seem to be enjoying your life quite a lot. You have everything that you emotionally need. Your close peoeple are always around you. Every day feels like a party. But no matter how beautiful life can be, you can't ignore your responsabilities forever. It may seem like you still have time until the real hardships start, but they are already here. And the more you ignore them now, the harder they will be in the future. So prioritize them now. Understand that stabilty doesn't come out of nowhere, it needs hard work and dedication. I know giving up on what you have right now is scary, and you will struggle. But it is a period in your life that you will have to go thorough one day or another, and it is better to start now.

PILE 4

You seem to have discovered a way to find your happiness. You may not have been in a good place for a while, but you have finally found something that will bring your love for life back. It is the time to prioritize puting it into action. You are right. This new way will bring light into your life. But be careful not to put too much energy into it. Or not all of it at least. Doing that will only bring detachment from everything good that you have right now( for some of you this is your family). Find a balance between following your new purpose and forgetting the place where you began.

PILE 5

There is a new cycle beginning in your life . This cycle can bring happiness and abundance to it. But you are not fully focusing on making it happen. You have started it, but don't seem to put an effort in continuing it. It is probably because it feels like it is too much and you don't have enough strength for it. Well, believe it or not, you can do it. If this wasn't for you, then you would have never started it in the first place. Prioritize the hardships that you have right now, and solve them as soon as possible. They will bring back rewards. It might feel like it will be killing you for a while, but it isn't anything that you can't do. Make your dream happen.

PILE 6

You have been looking for somehting new in your life. Something that excites you and brings that thrill of a new discovery. You seem to be the type of person that gets easily bored with everything, so you just jump from one thing to another any chance you get. But this will never bring you full fullfillment. You can't make a path for yourself if the only thing you ever do is start new ones. Instead, try looking back at all you have gone through in the past. Try looking for the one that feels comforting. The one that gives you joy by just having it in your life and not for the things that it brings you. Prioritize that one. This is a scary choice, but if you don't do it , you won't be able to find your place of security.