Wedding  Invitation Etiquette
I wanted to give some insight to wedding invitations. Many brides struggle with, when do I send them out? Do I need to send Save the Dates? How important are your invitations? Let's start with the troubling Save the Dates. These have not always been around, they are a new trend. Bride's always ask me if they need to send out a save the date and I always answer. How many guests do you have coming from out of town? If it is a very small amount I don't think it is a necessary expense especially for the tight budget brides. Save the Dates are intended to give lots of notice to those out of town guests to make travel arrangements and take the time off work etc. If you are getting Married in Coquitlam and your friend's mother lives in Maple Ridge, it is not necessary to send her a Save the Date 6 Months to a year before the wedding. If you choose to send Save the Dates you should send them out at least 6 Months prior to the wedding. Any later than that they lose their purpose completely. Wedding Invitations should go out 3-6 months before the wedding. I know brides are excited to get their invitations out early and give everyone lots of notice but if you send them out too early they get lost, forgotten, and RSVP's do not come back. You need to send them so the date is fresh in mind and guests deal with them right away. Â Always include a Must RSVP By date. This is very important as you need to tell your caterer and finalize numbers at least 2 weeks before your wedding, but it also gives the guest a timeline to send them back quickly. It also gives you grounds to call the guest after that cutoff date and demand a yes or a no. Invitations do give a preview of what to expect at your wedding. They set the tone for the type of evening. Traditional, Casual, Glamorous, Rustic. Make sure you are happy with your invitation as you are the one who is going to have it as a keepsake. Â Here are some samples of wording for your invitations!
Traditional - Bride's Parents Hosting
Request the honour of your presence at the marriage of their daughter
son of Mr. & Mrs. William Davis
Saturday, the twentieth of April
two thousand and seventeen
three o'clock in the afternoon
request the pleasure of your company at the celebration of their marriage
Saturday, the twentieth of April
two thousand and seventeen
three o'clock in the afternoon
 Both Sets of Parents Hosting
Mr. and Mrs. William Davis
request the pleasure of your company at the marriage of their children
Saturday, the twentieth of April
two thousand and seventeen
three o'clock in the afternoon
 Bride and Groom Hosting with Parents
together with their parents
Mr. and Mrs. William Davis
request the pleasure of your company
at the celebration of their marriage
Saturday, the twentieth of April
two thousand and seventeen
three o'clock in the afternoon