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Things I learned in 23 years.

With this year ending, I know we all have learned some or the other lesson. However this was one of the most challenging yet a year full of lessons for me. I turn 23 next month and I thought of sharing 23 things I learned in 23 years of my life. Most of them were from this year.

People only show what they want you to know. Not every time what they show is a 100% authentic.

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Efforts

Everytime she walked next to them, She sensed distance, She did everything to save them from going away, All her efforts went down the drain. She was so scared of losing everyone, That she did everything to make them stay. They did stay a little longer, Only out of pity, Every effort she made, Pushed them away. Because every effort she put in them Made her worth a little less Because some…

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I Don't Recognize myself.

I Don’t Recognize myself.

We all are lead to a point where we tell ourselves that we don’t recognize ourselves. I have been in such situations many times. From being a girl who was good to everyone to becoming a girl who was only good to those who were good to her. I couldn’t ignore a person, no matter what they did. I was always considerate and loving. I cared about everyone equally. I couldn’t speak rudely. I was always…

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Loving My Body.

Body shaming was something I hated the most.From being called fat to being called too skinny everything sucks. What is ideal body type? I never understood. I have embraced myself for who I am. With whatever shape I am in. Doesn’t matter if you are tiny, tall, fat or thin. Your body is only yours. Why think of anybody else. I have hated comments like “Your face is round and this won’t suit you”,…

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Why Social Media Is Annoying.

Social media’s are the best place to connect but sometimes it gets annoying. Between all those messages and video calls the real talks are lost. Between all those pictures and various stories the real enjoyment is lost. We don’t enjoy life, we enjoy showing it off to other people. If I am enjoying in the moment, I won’t be making continuous stories about it. Though Social Media’s are very good at…

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Turning 20.

I turned 20 recently and turning 20 was overwhelming. Why? Because for the first time in my life it didn’t feel like just a number, it felt like actually growing up. We all grow up and it is natural but thinking according to your age is the most challenging part. A few things hit me hard when I was turning 20. First thing being: My parents. Yes. As I am growing up my parents are growing old too.…

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Who Is My Worst Enemy?

I questioned myself always. Who is my worst enemy? Was it the one who broke me apart ? Or The one who changed me a lot? Was it my own mistake? Or Was it their influence? Was it my selflessness? Or Their selfishness? I end up asking myself, Do we still talk to those who break us apart after promising us the world? Or We leave them because they are our worst enemies? Are we supposed to be kind? Or…

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How to cope up with your feelings when you break someone’s heart. We fall in and out of love every second. It can happen to anyone of us. We can love someone now and maybe fall out of love in few days, months or maybe years. What makes us do that? I have heard tales from people telling me how someone broke their heart but nobody was brave enough to tell if they broke someone’s heart. I heard…

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Old Lost Love.

Flipping through our pictures,I reach here, The day we had a huge fight, But couldn’t let go. The pictures after we patched up, How happy we look. I kept these pictures as a symbol of something great I had. I know it’s not just love that draws me towards you, It’s more than love, It’s the connection, It’s something I can’t describe But more than anything I know We are over this, We are done now,…

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Dear Future Me.

Dear Future Me, I hope 10 years from now I look back and laugh at all the uncertainties I go through. I don’t wanna set goals like, I hope you have your own house or you become rich. Instead I hope you are happy with whatever you choose to become. I hope you have some amazing people around you who bring nothing but positive vibes in your life. I hope you are content in life. I don’t want anything…

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Conditions.

She gave him a letter few months ago that had list of 10 things he had to do after they got married, she told him to read it a night before their marriage. The night had arrived, he opened her letter.The first one said, “You can never spend the night away from home, I never want to be alone” He smiled, looking at her picture , he said, “I won’t leave you alone ever” Second one said, “You have to…

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Perfection.

Low self confidence,She walked out, No self appreciation, Flaws, imperfections ? She majored them, Until one day he came in, Told her it isn’t that way, Made her believe, She was beautiful, She was worth every happiness, He built her confidence, She believed in him, Her imperfections, Became her perfections. Until one day, when he walked out, And She started hating herself, Blaming herself, For…

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Self Love

She loved them. She loved everyone. No matter what they did she couldn’t let them go away. She couldn’t be rude. Maybe that’s how she is. People didn’t deserve this much, She knew, But she didn’t give up. She loved selflessly. That was so wrong, But it felt so right to her. She killed her wishes to make others happy. She killed herself little more everyday. And even after her wishes, hopes and…

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