[thelovewhisperer]

You know what your problem is? You get attached, fast. And once you’re attached to someone, you do everything you can to please them and make them happy. It’s never been about what you want, it’s always everyone’s needs before your own. You give out too many chances to people, who quite frankly, do not deserve them. They take advantage of you, and you become a pushover. But you’re okay with that, because they’re in your life and that’s all you ever really wanted. And even if they screw you over, you’ll still be there for them. Because that’s you, that who you are. Once you get attached to someone, they capture your heart and they always have a place there. And that is why it’s so hard for you to let him go.

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[thelovewhisperer]

It kills me that I see you every day and I know things can never be the same. I hate not talking to you, but I know it’s the only way to get over you. You hurt me more than I deserve, and I need to learn how to be more independent. But I just.. I miss you. Not because I can’t have you, because I could. Not because you’re far away, because you’re not. Not because you hate me, because you don’t. I miss the way things used to be; the way you used to be. I miss us. Our stupid jokes, our cute moments…They were what I lived for, and now that they’re gone and probably will never come back…I’m just lost.

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[thelovewhisperer]

Do you ever get that feeling where you don’t want to talk to anybody? You don’t want to smile and you don’t want to fake being happy but at the same time you don’t know exactly what’s wrong either, there isn’t a way to explain it to someone who doesn’t already understand. If you could want anything in the world it would be to be alone. People have stopped being comforting and being alone never was. But at least when you’re alone no one constantly asks you what’s wrong and there isn’t anyone who won’t take “I don’t know” for an answer. You feel the way you do just because. You hope the feeling will pass soon and that you will be able to be yourself again, but until then all you can do is wait.

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[thesecretletter]

Some day I’ll be able to look back and re-read all the things I wrote about you, and I’ll feel nothing; nothing but fascination on how I used to be madly in love with you. As cliché as it sounds, I’ll be able to look back and smile at it. And most of all, I’ll know that I’d never regret anything. I’ll never regret you. Oh god I can never.

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[thesecretletter]

I desperately need someone to embrace me and say to me, “Everything will be alright. I’m here for you.” But I’m alone.

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[thesecretletter]

I just miss you so much I swear I can feel the pain in my heart. Like I had a stone inside. I cry my eyes out every night, and I waste time doing stupid things not to think about you during the day. But when I see you I pretend I’m so happy when the truth is I’m slowly dying for you.

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[thesecretletter]

I think the worst thing to hear about a relationship is to “give it time”. Especially as an impatient person, giving something time is the absolute worst. Staying stuck in a limbo, not being able to do anything, to change anything, being passive and just waiting freaking sucks. But if it means we can be together, I’d do it all. I would bite my tongue and say nothing while you figured stuff out. And I would be there for you when you needed me, just like how I want you to be there for me. For you, I’ll wait. You’re worth the time.

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[thesecretletter]

I never meant anything to you - I know that now. I know you used me to boost your ego, and I know you never cared. But I swear I wasn’t like the others. I loved you. I really truly loved you and it kills me every time you walk past me without a glance and act like we were nothing.

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he told me he needed time, needed to be alone. and then he said, “if I lose you because of this, I wouldn’t blame you.” and I think in that moment I already knew that he would never fight for us as hard as I would, even though the true end wasn’t until two weeks later. and now all the memories haunt me, but I know there is nothing to go back to.

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[thesecretletter]

Everyone always tells you to make your significant other your best friend. But what they don’t tell you is that when they leave, your friendship goes to. That your laughter, and memories vanish when they do. How are you supposed to recover from this when you want to tell them about telling them the small things that happen in your day? How do you recover when you want them to be there for you in your time of need? No one tells you that it’s like a hole in your chest, that you’re trying to fill it with their voice and laughter. It’s not the same. It will never be the same.

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[thesecretletter]

I want you to miss me. I want you to look for my face in the crowd. I want you to hear other people’s laugh and find out you only wanna hear mine because you find it beautiful. I want you to be able to look into other people’s eyes and realize its mine you find most captivating. I want you to smile half heartedly because you’d wish i was there with you. I want you to feel lonely inside. I want your heart to ache. I want you to feel sad whenever you think about us. I want you to feel that you can never replace me in your life. I want you to feel numb and stupid inside. I want you to feel all kinds of things; things you made me feel when you left. Things i still feel up to now. And when you do, i want the impact to be hard, so hard that it’ll break you. Oh god i hope it breaks you to a million pieces.

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[thelovewhisperer]

It’s a strange thing, how you can love somebody, how you can be all eaten up inside with needing them – and they simply don’t need you. That’s all there is to it, and neither of you can do anything about it. And they’ll be the same way with someone else, and someone else will be the same way about you and it goes on and on – this desperate need – and only once in a rare million do the same two people need each other. — Madeleine L’Engle

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[thelovewhisperer]

When people walk away from you, let them go. Your destiny is never tied to someone who leaves you. And it doesn’t mean they are bad people, it just means that their part in your story is over.

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[thesecretletter]

I don’t even feel sad anymore I’m past that point All I feel is numbness I crave anger, sadness, fucking anything Cause that would mean I was still alive Sometimes I don’t think I am Sometimes I don’t want to be

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[poetryatmost]

If only you gave yourself as many second chances as you gave him.

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If only you gave yourself as many second chances as you gave him.

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