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Brute Force Bedwetting - A Training Guide

Materials Required:

Diapers, cloth or disposable, mattress covers, clock with multiple alarm settings, child’s wetting calender

Preparation - week before training begins:

1st the trainee must understand that from the start of training they are to be considered a bedwetter in every sense of the word. The term “Nocturnal Enuresis” should be a readily available if a nurse or doctor asks if the trainee has a medical condition. They do have a medical condition, and they should understand that now before the training really begins. This needs to be understood in all it’s permutations: there will be no place the trainee won’t be able to wet, they will have to wear protection every night. There will be embarrassing questions, and staying over with friends, and dating will be forever changed by this behavior.

2nd the trainee should start going to bed at an early time. 10pm would be ideal, but as late as 11 pm works. If the trainee works on a specific schedule adjust times so that they should get at least 8 hours of sleep nightly. They should also get in the habit of having a drink before bed.

3rd the trainee should begin sleeping in the diapers that they will be wearing most through the training. Cloth diapers are recommended. They should be comfortable sleeping in the diaper, and should practice wetting while laying in bed, finding the most comfortable positions to do so.

4th the trainee should be prepared to be honest about their wetting. There will be some aspects of the later phases where the trainee will have to self report how their night went, and the only way to establish the proper behavior is if the trainee reports honestly.

Phase 1 - The New Behavior Paradigm - 1 month duration

Take the clock and set three alarms for 1AM, 2AM and 3AM. These times are important because it allows the trainee to get a solid amount of sleep, but not enough for a full nights sleep. The clock dial should then be covered, and from now on any other clock in the room that is visible from the bed should either be removed, covered or turned away so that it isn’t visible from the bed. This is so that the trainee doesn’t adapt to a single specific time to wet, and that the only solid trigger for wetting is the alarm. Every day choose an alarm at random to set. When the trainee has gone to bed, the alarm will wake them. They will then turn off the alarm and wet, moving as little as possible, then go back to sleep. This will be repeated every night until the end of the training. What this does is establish a new behavior. That behavior is conscious wetting at night. They key point is to get the trainee to sleep, then wet, then sleep. At first the behavior will be difficult. There will be many sleepless nights, and early on there will be anticipation and insomnia. But as time passes and the trainee gets used to the schedule, they will fall into a regular sleep cycle. Later in this phase the adaptation to the nightly disruption may result in automatically return to sleep without wetting. This behavior should be punished appropriately. As long as the alarm is set the trainee should always wake wet in the morning. By the end of this phase, the trainee should be wetting every night consistently without requiring punishment. If this is not the case, repeat the phase until it is so.

Phase 2 - Maintaining Behavior Under Differing Conditions - 1 month duration

The first phase is to establish the night wetting behavior. This second phase is to establish comfort and acceptance of this new behavior. A bedwetter is a person that wets in their sleep, regardless of what they are wearing. At this point we don’t have a bedwetter, but a person that wets a diaper at the sound of an alarm. Consider the different clothing variations that the trainee might experience when sleeping. So far they’ve been wearing diapers. But maybe they have cloth and disposable diapers. What if they were wearing regular underwear? Or all these variations fully clothed, or completely nude. Once the variations are figured out, set a random schedule, and continue the use of the alarm clock-wetting routine with the added variation of the different conditions. Keep in mind that this phase requires the most cleaning, make sure that you have many extra sets of sheets and the mattress is protected. Now that the new behavior has been established it is still unfortunately a specific habit: The trainee has so far been trained to wet a diaper at night. What the trainee needs is to be comfortable wetting and being wet. This phase helps the trainee to learn to be comfortable in a wet bed, or wet clothes and still able to return to a sleeping state. If by the end of the month the trainee is still having trouble returning to a regular sleep cycle, repeat the phase until they have done so.

Phase 3 - Weening and Reward - 12 week minimum duration

At this point the trainee has spent at least two months consistently wetting at night. In the mind of the trainee two things have happened, the behavior has become a habit, and the brain has gotten used to urinating during the three hour alarm period at night. By repetition we are creating the urge to urinate during this period even thought the trainee has most likely not yet felt that urge because of the alarm. This phase is the trickiest part of the training. Up until now the trigger for wetting has been the alarm. Now we turn off the alarm. But it can’t be done all at once. So the trainee must be weened slowly off the alarm until it becomes unnecessary. Start by randomly selecting one night of the week. This will be the night the alarm won’t be activated. A random day will be chosen for the next two weeks, and ideally every two weeks the number of days per week that the alarm is inactive will increase by one until after twelve weeks the alarm is no longer necessary. Because this phase can be extremely tricky be prepared to delay progress or even return to phase 2 until the desired behavior is achieved. The child’s wetting calendar will come in handy at this point as it will be easy to track the trainee’s progress. The behavior that is desired is that on nights that the trainee doesn’t experience the alarm, they will still wet. Realistically there are three possible scenarios when the alarm is off: The trainee sleeps through the night, the trainee wakes because of the established habit of waking at this time, or the trainee doesn’t wake but still wets. If the trainee should wake, they should wet before returning to sleep.Early in this phase don’t worry if the trainee sleeps through the wetting period, however don’t progress with the weening if the trainee hasn’t wet after the first four weeks. When the trainee does wet, either by waking or sleeping, reward the behavior. Show the trainee that this is the desired behavior, and that it will be rewarded, and the trainee will have a greater incentive to continue the behavior. In this way also the mind of the trainee will be conditioned to want to wet. As the wetting behavior continues without the alarm, the trainee will require waking less and less. As it is, with the alarm activated, after so long the trainee ought not even need to stay awake, but might even be falling asleep while wetting after having experienced the situation so many times. So now with the alarm inactive the sleep wetting has a chance to occur naturally. By the seventh to eighth week, the randomized condition training begun in the second phase can end provided the trainee has shown the ability to wet in each of the conditions without the alarm. Once the trainee has been able to wet, awake or asleep, without the alarm at least 50% of the time this phase can end after at least two weeks of only one night where the alarm is activated per week.

Phase 4 - The Bedwetter and Diminishing Returns

At this point the trainee has established the ability to wet at night without the need for an alarm. As well because the alarm is no longer being used, most of the time the trainee should be wetting without waking. However this is also taking up a lot rewards. But since the trainee is now a bedwetter, they don’t need the rewards. But still we can’t just stop, so like he alarm we must ween the trainee. At the start of this phase we change the reward scheme to only reward nights where the trainee has only wet in their sleep. Do that for several weeks. Keep in mind the wetting calendar will be very handy at this point. Once the trainee has gotten used to this new reward scheme reduce the reward period from one night to two nights. After several weeks reduce it again to three nights. Every few weeks keep reducing the rewards until it takes a full week to wet. This will wen the trainee off the rewards, but it will also encourage more wetting since the mind of the trainee is conditioned to be rewarded for wetting. At this point don’t end the rewards all together, but keep it up for the next month or so in order to continue o encourage the wetting behavior. The rarity of reward will encourage greater regularity of the wetting behavior. When the trainee is wetting 75% of the time or more should the rewards end, and the training period officially end.

A Word on Punishment and Reward

Notice that when I mention punishment I said “this behavior should be punished appropriately. I am not a proponent of harsh punishments, nor do I pretend to know all the various dynamics that might come into play between trainee and trained, or even trainee by themselves. Punishment need only be as harsh as necessary to be effective, and the trainer ought to know best what is most effective punishment. No punishment should result in injury. Rewards can be tricky. As often as a trainee might wet the bed, it will be difficult to reward with stuff, because that could be expensive in the long term. I recommend sensory rewards like pleasure or even orgasm, but that implies a greater control and specific relationship on the part of the trainer. As with punishment the trainer has the best understanding of the trainee, and the nature of their relationship. Reward appropriately.

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will wet with or without MY DIAPER!

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🔞⚠️ Ultra-detailed diaper training guide :

the goal: to become permanently dependent on diapers forever.

here are the headlines from my training plan

I) 🧠 MENTAL PREPARATION : (Acceptance, letting go, submission)

Before you start diaper training, it is crucial that you accept your kink, eliminate all guilt and let go.

1.1 / Accepting Your kink :

understands that your attraction to diapers is legitimate and personal. It’s not “bad” or “abnormal”.

identifies your mental blocks: shame, fear of judgment, self-sabotage

repeat positive affirmations to yourself: “I deserve to be in a diaper / diapers are my true nature”

find support like my blog, ( so if you link to that you can subscribe because my blog will allow you to achieve your goal, that's the goal )

1.2 / Letting go and submission :

wearing diapers all the time is mostly mental... people often come to me and say: "I want to be incontinent to be dependent" except that this is false and unhealthy... mentally, you have to accept that diapers are is your new reality (and it's a lot of work that takes time but once done is even less reversible than incontinence, but don't worry I'm here to help you)

abandon the idea of ​​choice, it is not a choice... in fact you have the impression that it is a choice, but if you dig into your psychological functioning you will understand that it is a need...

practice submission, (well self-discipline if you are alone): in a relationship, if your wife is dominant and Ok, you're lucky it will be easier for you, but my advice also applies to single, except that instead of someone else dominating you, it's you who must discipline yourself. There must be strict rules, with punishments if you don't follow your diaper training correctly. I'll leave the creativity to you for the punishments but they don't have to be very pleasant.

II) 🕰 PERMANENT WEARING OF DIAPERS :

objective : no longer wear underwear apart from diapers + (it's better but you don't have to) no longer see the toilet as an option.

🗓 ACTION PLAN :

✅️ throw ALL your underwear in the trash, only keep the diapers

✅️ put a diaper on after each time you change (it seems logical, but some times you will be tempted not to wear one again, so always wear a diaper, it's your rule and it's easy to follow)

✅️ always sleep in a diaper

✅️ organize your stocks: you must always have a huge stock of diapers at home...

✅️ (even without aiming for incontinence, I recommend it): prepare yourself mentally: “the toilet is no longer an option for me”

Solution for difficulties :

❌️ WANT TO REMOVE THE DIAPER: you can make your diaper difficult to remove (like by putting velcro on the fasteners)

❌️ SHAME OR DISCOMFORT: remember that you need diapers, that they are necessary.

III ) [💦💩] RE-EDUCATE YOUR BODY FOR INCONTINENCE :

I DO NOT RECOMMEND THIS STEP, INCONTINENCE IS A HANDICAP IT IS NOT A GAME, I RATHER RECOMMEND LEARNING TO OWN YOUR NEEDS IN YOUR DIAPERS WITHOUT INCONTINENCE, but for those who really have the need to become incontinent here is the tutorial:

objective: to learn to remember and automate the use of the diaper.

3.1 / Urinary: loss of control :

🗓 💦 ACTION PLAN :

✅️ Drink plenty of water to force frequent elimination

✅️ as soon as you feel pressure released immediately: NEVER HOLD BACK

✅️ practice urinating in all positions, including lying down, to break the reflexes of holding back

✅️ at night drink before sleeping and urinate as soon as you wake up.

3.2 / FECAL : if I had to choose I would prefer this

🗓💩 ACTION PLAN :

✅️ eat foods rich in fiber, take mild laxatives from time to time to relax your intestines (don't overdo it)

✅️ as soon as you feel the urge, push yourself directly into your diaper without going to the bathroom, even if it's just for a fart

✅️ get used to never delaying elimination

✅️ uses plugs that stretch the anus daily for long periods, such as the balloon plug or the hollow plug, do daily sessions of 4 to 5 hours dilated.

IV ) 👥️ TOTAL DEPENDENCE ON DIAPERS SOCIALY :

the social aspect is quite important, to really sign your life forever it is important to take this point into account. the social and public part alone deserves an entire book... besides, I would love to write a book on learning about diapers... but that's for the future!

here are my tips for the social aspect:

✅️ accept the outside gaze: if someone guesses or sees your diaper, accept it or ignore it

✅️ expose yourself little by little: outings with a diaper more or less visible under your clothes:

✅️ you can tell a certain person you really trust that you are now in a diaper and that it is forever (without explaining why) and if someone asks you questions then you tell them that you need one and you can't do otherwise...

V) 🪷 CONCLUSION :

SO, as I say these are just certain points of my plan to address in diaper training in order to become completely dependent on diapers.

If you want to go deeper into certain steps, let me know in the questions!

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How I Became A Chronic Bedwetter

So I just want to make a quick disclaimer at the start. This post is telling you how I, personally, started wetting the bed every night. To my knowledge, nobody else has tried doing this method, and even the people I have shared this with previously who wanted to do it never actually went through with it, so I’m pretty sure I’m the only one who has done this. I tailored this method completely to myself and can’t tell you that this will work for everyone because nobody else has ever tried it. 

Some of you may have originally seen this method on a Wordpress site I made back in 2016, as I uploaded it there originally and it got about 500 views, but because of so many requests, I decided to rewrite it and post it here on Tumblr : )

Scary ominous warning at the start, I absolutely detested the experience of doing this method, and even to this day, I remember how much it fucking sucked. I’m not telling you to do this, this is just what I did and what has made me a permanent, relentless bedwetter for the past almost four years.

In my strong belief, everything about each kind of untraining is hugely mental in nature. There are physical elements to it, like muscle degradation, but like 80% of untraining is essentially just retraining our body and our subconscious mind into accepting and embracing incontinence.

What I did to start bedwetting was kind of prey on and take advantage of my subconscious in a way. 

For a period of about a month straight, and I do mean a month, I drank a lot of water before bed and then went to sleep without a diaper on. As you can probably imagine, all that water before bed caused me to wake up in the middle of the night with a pretty strong urge to go to the bathroom (if you are not a light sleeper, this wouldn’t work). What I did was, instead of wetting myself as soon as I woke up like other guides mention (which would have been a bit unpleasant anyway as I wasn’t wearing diapers), I made myself get up and walk to the bathroom to use the toilet instead, every single night. 

I’ll tell you right now, doing this for an entire month was literally one of the worst experiences I’ve ever had in my entire life. I was constantly losing sleep and was constantly tired every day because of how interrupted my rest was, but I guess the reason I stuck with it was because I was pretty fucking hardcore about wanting to be a bedwetter at the time.

Finally, after all that, the end of the month came, and I introduced diapers to my probably completely exhausted and unhappy subconscious as an easy out to its current predicament. For those unaware, our subconscious mind will pretty much do anything it can to avoid pain or discomfort, and it will do everything it can to use as little energy as possible in running the body.

On that first night after the month of hell, I wore diapers to bed.

Like before, I drank a lot of water before going to sleep, and also like before, my body woke me up with a very full bladder. What was different this time though is that instead of making myself get up and walk all the way to the bathroom to use the toilet, I just let my bladder go and very happily wet my diaper while still laying in bed, before going back to sleep. 

The next night I did the same thing again. I drank a lot before going to sleep, and I wore a diaper to bed. This time though, I didn’t wake up during the night at all. I awoke actually feeling pretty refreshed for once, which in itself was a relief because I’d gone so long waking up exhausted, but that wasn’t the only thing that had happened. My diaper was completely soaked when I woke up.

This was the turnaround point in my nighttime incontinence. I had put my body and mind through hell for an entire month, before showing them both that there was a much easier way to deal with the problem than waking me up. 

From that day onwards, I started waking up wet more and more. I was still having dry nights here and there to start with, but as my body kept learning and kept finding no problem in making me wet while still asleep, it kept happening again and again. 

Over the course of months after that day, my body got fully in the habit of making me a complete bedwetter, because why would it ever wake me up when it was so much easier to just make me wet myself in my sleep? I went from three to four wet nights a week to it being incredibly strange to wake up dry even once or twice a month. I even had to get thicker, more absorbent diapers because my body just stopped holding anything back, and it wasn’t uncommon at the time to wake up in a leaking diaper in the morning. 

So, that’s how I became a chronic bedwetter almost four years ago. I don’t think I would really recommend my method because it was just so bad dealing with all the sleep deprivation, but I can’t argue with the results that it has given me. Becoming a bedwetter was one of the best decisions I’ve ever made in my entire life, and I’ve never once regretted it in all this time, even on the mornings where I wake up in a wet patch because my diaper has failed. There’s just something about it that is so insanely special to me, and unlike making yourself incontinent during the day, which I wouldn’t recommend to everyone, I would recommend becoming a bedwetter to anyone who has the interest. It’s really not that big of a deal to have to wear diapers to bed every night, and the happiness and satisfaction I get from waking up in a completely soaked diaper in the morning is just totally unmatched. 

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Beta Male Submission: Redefining Masculinity Through Caregiving and Dependency

Introduction:

(A fun and very fictional work of entertainment rethinking how diaper boys can fit into society in a way that benefits everyone. I hope you enjoy)

In a world dominated by shifting gender roles and evolving social expectations, the modern male is often caught in a liminal space between traditional ideals of masculinity and the realties of contemporary society. The pressures to succeed romantically, sexually, and socially have intensified, particularly through the lens of social media and popular culture, where height, sexual experience, and independence are often viewed as essential markers of manhood. However, many men, due to factors such as virginity past a the mid 20's, a lack of romantic experience, lack of ambition, lack of height, or continued dependence on their parents, struggle to meet these standards. These men, often and accurately, labeled as "beta males," are left feeling marginalized within the modern dating and social landscape.

This essay explores a provocative solution: the embrace of beta male status through submission. By adopting symbolic acts such as wearing diapers and maintaining virginity, while being encouraged to masturbate (appropriately given their submissive status), these men can find fulfillment in a submissive role that highlights their place within the social hierarchy. Furthermore, by compensating women emotionally, socially, and financially, beta males can strengthen this power dynamic and embrace a role that is beneficial for both themselves and society. The argument dismantles the traditional alpha-beta dichotomy and suggests a reimagined role for beta males that emphasises dependency, psychological submission, and mutual benefit in caregiving relationships.

Section 1: The Traditional Male Archetype vs. Beta Male Reality

This section will discuss the traditional ideals of masculinity, how societal standards have been reinforced by media, and why many men fail to meet these expectations, setting the stage for why submission becomes a logical solution.

The Traditional Male Archetype vs. Beta Male Reality:

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The traditional concept of masculinity has long been associated with dominance, sexual experience, independence, and financial success. Popular culture and social media reinforce these ideals, celebrating the "alpha male" as a figure of strength, confidence, and leadership. From viral memes to aspirational social media posts, alpha traits are glorified as the pinnacle of male success, creating an environment where women are often seen as gravitating towards partners who can assert their dominance.

Yet, this ideal leaves a significant portion of men feeling inadequate. Men under a certain height—particularly those below 5'7"—often face biases in the dating world, as height is frequently associated with masculinity and desirability. Additionally, men who are virgins into their late 20s or early 30s, who have never had a girlfriend, or who still live with their parents beyond a socially accepted age, are often viewed as failing to meet essential milestones of adulthood.

Rather than continuing to chase unattainable ideals, these men could instead embrace a different form of masculinity by accepting their role as beta males. This acceptance allows them to step away from the pressures of traditional competition and focus on a more fulfilling role defined by submission, emotional support, and caregiving. Beta males offer society an alternative to the competitive, dominance-driven narrative of male success, suggesting that there is value in humility, dependency, and service.

Expanded Criteria for Submission

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Here, we introduce the new expanded criteria for why beta males should be placed in submissive roles, beyond virginity and lack of romantic experience.

While virginity, lack of romantic experience, height, and living with parents are common indicators of beta male status, additional criteria can further justify the need for submission. These include:

Financial Dependence: Men who remain financially dependent on others well into adulthood, whether on parents or partners, demonstrate an inability to fulfill traditional masculine responsibilities. Such dependence underscores their need for caregiving rather than autonomy.

Low Ambition or Motivation: Men who lack drive, either in their careers or personal growth, fail to meet societal expectations of leadership and progression. Placing these men in submissive roles highlights their passive nature and the need for external structure and guidance.

Inability to Make Decisions or Lead: Men who exhibit indecisiveness or passivity in daily life, constantly deferring decisions to others, are not suited for dominant roles. Submission allows them to function in a structured environment where decisions are made for them, reinforcing their need for caregiving.

Over-dependence on Technology or Escapism: Men who retreat into gaming, technology, or other forms of escapism to avoid real-world responsibilities further demonstrate their inability to function independently. Submission places them in an environment where they are guided and cared for, mirroring their need for structure.

Neglect of Health or Physical Fitness: Men who fail to take care of their physical health may also be more suited for submission. If they cannot manage their own well-being, they signal a need for others to take on a caregiving role in their lives.

Social Ineptitude or Awkwardness: Men who struggle to navigate social relationships due to awkwardness, anxiety, or a lack of social skills often fail to thrive in romantic or social contexts. Placing them in a subordinate role eliminates the need for competitive social interactions and allows them to find fulfillment through structured caregiving relationships.

Together, these criteria suggest that beta males who exhibit any combination of these traits are more suited for submissive roles that reflect their dependency and need for guidance.

Section 2: Counterargument and Dismantling

This section will present the typical counterargument (that all men can become alpha through self-improvement) and then logically dismantle it by discussing how not all men are predisposed for alpha status and why submission is a viable alternative.

Counterargument: "All Men Can Become Alphas Through Self-Improvement":

Critics of the beta male concept may argue that any man, regardless of height, age, or romantic experience, can transform into an alpha figure through self-improvement, persistence, and personal growth. This perspective suggests that masculinity is fluid and that success—be it financial, sexual, or romantic—can be achieved with enough effort and dedication. Popular media often touts stories of transformation, where previously unsuccessful men "level up" to become dominant figures in their careers, relationships, and personal lives.

Dismantling the Counterargument:

While selfimprovement is undoubtedly important, not all men are predisposed to the traits required to become alpha males. Evolutionary psychology and social structures point to the existence of different roles within male populations—roles that do not always align with dominance and sexual prowess. The pressure to conform to alpha ideals can create frustration, anxiety, and a sense of inadequacy in men who find themselves unable to compete in traditional romantic or social arenas.

Beta males, instead, play a vital role within the social hierarchy. Just as not all males in animal species compete for dominance, not all men in human society are suited to traditional alpha roles. These men often excel in other areas, such as providing emotional support, being caregivers, or contributing to society through non-competitive means. By embracing their status and stepping away from the competitive pressures of traditional masculinity, beta males can find emotional fulfillment in service-oriented roles that align with their natural tendencies.

Rather than striving to fit a mold they cannot attain, beta males should accept their place in the social hierarchy and focus on submission and dependency as pathways to personal happiness. In this way, they contribute to a balanced societal structure where alpha and beta males fulfill complementary roles, with neither being inherently superior or inferior, but simply different in purpose.

Section 3: Why Compensation Solidifies the Dynamic

This section will explain how compensating women in this dynamic solidifies the power imbalance and creates a mutually beneficial relationship, while also addressing why beta males would submit to this kind of arrangement.

Why Compensation Solidifies the Dynamic:

A key aspect of this beta male dynamic is the concept of compensation—emotional, financial, and social—in exchange for the care provided by women. While beta males could theoretically take care of their own hygiene needs, the act of having women, who they once aspired to have as romantic partners, take on a parental role (e.g., changing their diapers) further deepens the psychological and social shift required for them to accept their subordinate status.

The idea of compensating women for their caregiving reinforces the power imbalance in several crucial ways:

Symbolic Reversal of Roles: In this dynamic, women who were once viewed as potential romantic or sexual partners are now placed in a caregiving role. This reversal of roles symbolizes the beta male’s acceptance of his inability to fulfill traditional masculine expectations, such as being a romantic leader or sexual conqueror. The compensation—whether it’s financial, emotional, or social—cements this exchange, with beta males acknowledging their need for care and their submission to women’s authority in the relationship.

Psychological Submission and Dependency: By allowing women to take care of their most intimate needs, beta males experience a profound psychological submission. They relinquish control over their bodies in ways that strip away any sense of traditional masculinity tied to dominance or independence. The dependency on women for caregiving—and compensating them for it—further highlights their acceptance of this new role. This arrangement prevents them from aspiring to alpha status, as their needs are met within a structured relationship that reinforces their submission.

Mutual Emotional Fulfillment: Compensation also works in favor of women, who derive emotional and social satisfaction from this arrangement. The caregiving role allows them to exercise dominance in a way that aligns with their nurturing instincts, but without the traditional expectations of romantic or sexual involvement. Women are compensated for their efforts in caregiving, creating a dynamic where both parties receive benefits: men get their emotional and psychological needs met, while women gain a sense of power and control.

Reinforcing the Power Imbalance: The act of compensating women for caregiving creates a structured relationship where the beta male is continuously reminded of his lower status. This compensation—particularly in the form of financial contributions—establishes a transactional relationship that prevents beta males from reverting to traditional masculine behaviors. They become dependent on women for care, and in return, women gain both material and emotional rewards, which ensures that the power imbalance remains intact.

This structure allows beta males to escape the presures of competing in the traditional social hierarchy. Their needs are met without having to navigate romantic relationships as equals, which removes the anxiety and frustration that often accompanies failed romantic attempts. By cementing their submission through compensation, they contribute to a more harmonious relationship dynamic where their role is clearly defined and accepted.

Section 4: The Role of Diapers and Masturbation in Submission

This section will delve into how the symbolic and practical role of diapers and controlled sexual expression (masturbation) furthers the submission dynamic.

The Role of Diapers and Masturbation in Submission:

In this beta male dynamic, diapers serve as both a symbolic and practical representation of submission and dependency. The encouragement of masturbation within the confines of their diapers adds another layer to the structure, offering sexual fulfillment while maintaining the men’s subordinate role. Together, these practices reinforce the beta male’s place in the social hierarchy and prevent any attempt to challenge or transcend their submissive status.

Diapers as Symbols of Submission: The act of wearing diapers function as a clear signal of the beta male’s acceptance of a subordinate and dependent role. Diapers are traditionally associated with infancy, vulnerability, and care. By wearing them, beta males relinquish autonomy over their bodies, accepting that they need to be cared for in a way that strips away their masculinity. This infantilization highlights their dependency on women, who are responsible for their well-being, further reinforcing the power dynamic.

Masturbation as Controlled Sexual Expression: While these beta males are kept as virgins, they are encouraged to masturbate within their diapers, which allows them a form of sexual release without entering the traditional romantic or sexual arenas. Masturbation, in this contex, is not an expression of dominance or autonomy, but rather a self-contained act that reinforces their submission. The sexual experience becomes one of control and limitation, confined within their diapers, which mirrors their controlled role in the social hierarchy.By allowing masturbation, the dynamic prevents frustration from total chastity, while still ensuring that these men do not challenge the boundaries set for them. They are sexually fulfilled in a way that is consistent with their beta status—private, non-threatening, and devoid of romantic or sexual conquest. This practice ensures that their sexuality remains subordinate to their caregiving relationship with women.

Psychological Reinforcement: The combination of wearing diapers and masturbating within them serves to further break down traditional concepts of masculinity. Beta males who engage in this behavior internalize their submission on a psychological level, understanding that their sexual expression is limited and controlled. This leads to deeper emotional acceptance of their role, as they are no longer competing for sexual dominance but are instead finding fulfillment through a self-contained, submissive act.

Together, diapers and masturbation create a system where beta males are able to release sexual tension while simultaneously reinforcing their subordinate position. This allows them to remain content within their role without overstepping the boundaries of submission, contributing to the overall stability and success of this dynamic.

Section 5: Social Benefits of the Dynamic for Women and Society

This section will explore how this dynamic benefits women and the broader society, emphasizing how the acceptance of beta roles creates social harmony. Hopefully.

Social Benefits of the Dynamic for Women and Society:

The redefinition of masculinity through beta male submission offers a range of benefits for women and society as a whole. By embracing this dynamic, both parties experience mutual fulfillment, and broader social structures are maintained, ensuring harmony in relationships and gender roles.

Empowerment and Fulfillment for Women: For women, this dynamic offers a unique form of empowerment. Traditionally, women are expected to balance nurturing roles with romantic and sexual partnerships. In this new dynamic, however, women take on caregiving roles without the pressure of romantic or sexual expectations. They receive emotional, social, and financial compensation for their efforts, creating a dynamic where they are fully in control of the relationship.Women derive satisfaction from caregiving and controlling the sexual and emotional well-being of beta males. This control allows them to exercise authority while fulfilling their nurturing instincts, which creates a powerful and rewarding relationship for them. The beta males, in turn, provide emotional loyalty, dependability, and compensation, reinforcing women’s dominance without the complications of traditional romantic involvement.

Reducing Unwanted Sexual Competition: One of the broader social benefits of this dynamic is that it reduces unwanted competition in the sexual and romantic marketplace. Beta males, by accepting their subordinate status, remove themselves from the pool of potential romantic partners. This allows alpha males to continue fulfilling traditional roles of dominance, while beta males offer companionship, support, and caregiving in non-romantic contexts.For women, this dynamic creates clarity in their relationships. They no longer have to navigate uncomfortable or unwanted romantic advances from men who are not suited to alpha roles. Instead, they gain supportive, emotionally available beta males who fulfill essential social functions without the pressure of sexual or romantic expectations. This structure benefits women by allowing them to focus their romantic energies on more suitable partners while still receiving emotional support from beta males.

Creating Social Harmony: The acceptance of beta roles also contributes to broader social harmony by clearly delineating roles and responsibilities. Alpha males continue to dominate in romantic and sexual contexts, while beta males provide emotional and practical support through caregiving and submission. This dynamic ensures that social hierarchies are maintained without conflict or competition, allowing both types of males to thrive within their respective roles.As beta males find contentment in their subordinate status, society benefits from reduced social tension. These men are no longer frustrated by unattainable expectations of traditional masculinity, and women experience the emotional and practical support of men who accept their role in the social order.

Concluding

This section will wrap up the essay, reiterating the core argument and its implications for the future of social relationships and masculinity.

To wrap things up.

As societal expectations of masculinity continue to evolve, the role of beta males becomes increasingly relevant. By embracing a submissive role—symbolized by diapers and controlled sexual expression—beta males can find emotional fulfillment and purpose without the pressures of competing for alpha status. Through financial, emotional, and social compensation, they solidify their relationships with women, who gain power, control, and emotional satisfaction from these caregiving dynamics.

This model challenges traditional ideas of masculinity, offering an alternative path for men who do not meet societal expectations. In doing so, it creates social harmony, reducing competition and frustration while providing both men and women with fulfilling, structured roles. Ultimately, this redefinition of gender roles has the potential to reshape how society views relationships, caregiving, and masculinity itself.

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[dipsandlife]

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Discipline Program for Bedwetters

Note to the reader: I was sent this wonderful essay by a good friend and I felt I should share it with my fans here. I know many mommies will find it extremely useful.

The Program

B.D. (Bedwetter Discipline) is a disciplinary regime whereby a chronic adult bedwetter is returned to diapers using various techniques of humiliation, embarrassment, and creative shaming. It should be undertaken only after other methods have failed. It is assumed that medical treatment has proven unsuccessful. Responsibility for managing the problem is taken over by caregivers or their designee in a manner that emphasizes practicality and convenience while ignoring the concerns of the bedwetter. It is understood that a loss of independence, privacy and dignity is inevitable on the part of the bedwetter, however the gains of the program more than justify these insignificant embarrassments.

Types of Diapers

Although disposable diapers may be considered more convenient, for the purposes of this program, cloth diapers and plastic panties are preferable for the following reasons: 1.They allow the bedwetter to feel wetness after urination. 2. The bulk between the legs serves as a constant reminder to the bedwetter that he is wearing diapers. 3. Cloth diapers necessitate the use of accessories such as diaper pins, plastic or rubber panties, baby powder, and diaper bags. For the purposes of humiliating the bedwetter, the use of these items is more desirable. Extra diapers can be added to increase absorbency, prevent leaks, and to add bulkiness under outer clothing when out in public. In addition, cloth diapers can't easily be hidden under night clothing such as onesies or pajamas. Adult-sized cloth diapers are available in several styles; a pre-fold pin-on type is recommended (about two dozen) along with cloth baby diapers for use as liners/inserts. Adult sized plastic or rubber panties are easily obtainable, both in snap-on and pull-on styles. They are available in plain white, semi-transparent, pastel or nursery prints. Nursery print plastic panties are highly recommended and readily available also. If pastel plastic panties are to be used, pink is the preferred color. Six to ten pairs of assorted plastic panties are recommended for the initial layette.

A multi-sensory experience for the bedwetter is desirable and best served by wearing cloth diapers. Four of the five senses are acutely engaged in the process. They are:

Touch (bulk against the skin and a sense of wetness).

Sound (the crinkling of plastic or rubber panties when walking).

Sight (bulkiness, whether or not clothing is worn over the waterproof panties).

Smell (of plastic or rubber, baby powder, and a slight scent of urine eventually acquired by hand washed diapers).

Breaking the News

By the time the bedwetting adult is informed of the decision to return him to diapers (we will refer to the male gender, as most bedwetters are male), diapering supplies should already be on hand. They should include as a minimum, diapers, diaper pins, diaper bag, waterproof panties, diaper rash cream and baby powder. The bedwetter's bed should always be protected by a plastic sheet or rubber sheet. Allowing him to examine the products beforehand will reinforce the fact that the decision is firm and final; and while reasons can be discussed, it should be emphasized to the bedwetter that the decision is final and not negotiable. Allowing the bedwetter a few hours to contemplate the inevitable return to diapers may ease the transition, but that should be of no concern to the caregiver. If necessary, he should be informed that any resistance on his part will result in immediate punishment.

Reasons to wear diapers include:

To prevent wet beds and odor

To improve sleep by eliminating the necessity to change sheets during the night

To lessen disruption to the household

To reduce the volume of laundry

To emphasize the practical consequences of bedwetting

To supply incentives to attain dryness

To humiliate the bedwetter for his childish behavior

To remind the bedwetter he is acting like a big baby

The Routine

The bedwetter should be informed that he will be expected to cooperate in the following regime: At a specific time each evening, (7:00 pm recommended) he will make himself available in his room (or other designated area) for his diapering. It will be emphasized that there are absolutely no exceptions to this regimen; not even when visitors are present. Consistency is crucial. It will be explained that others will be in control of the adult bedwetter until he is ready to control urination by himself. This may include wives, girlfriends, adult babysitters, co-workers or any other designees.

Management and Punishment

It will be explained to the bedwetter that being returned to diapers is a enuresis management strategy, and that management options may include punishment at the discretion and convenience of the caregiver.

Diapering Supplies

While basic supplies will consist of the items mentioned above, other useful additions will include a changing pad, a diaper pail, and baby wipes. Ideally, the bedwetter's equipment will include a changing table. A six-foot long folding worktable is ideal for this purpose, and can be fitted with a blanket and changing pad. A shelf can easily be added between the table legs, and can be used to hold diapers and other supplies. If discretion is desired, a blanket can conceal the diapering supplies; however, it is recommended that they remain in plain sight.

Terminology

The bedwetter's diapers should be straightforwardly referred to as such, and other equipment should be referred to by name, i.e., changing table, diaper pail, diaper pins etc. It is permissible to refer to his plastic or rubber panties as 'baby panties' because of the wide use of the term in the vernacular.

Diapering

At the appointed time, the bedwetter will position himself upon the changing table. At this point he will be wearing just a T-shirt. A set of diapers will have been prepared by combining an adult diaper and one or more folded cloth baby diapers as inserts. The diaper will be powdered, and slipped under the adult's backside. Powder will be applied to his frontal diaper area, and then the diaper will be raised between his legs and tightly secured back to front with diaper pins. His plastic panties will then be slid down his legs with one hand, while holding both his ankles with the other hand. After making sure all the cloth is contained within the panties, he will then be free to remove himself from the changing table and rejoin the others in the household. If pajamas or track pants are permitted, he can then put them on, although it is recommended that his diapers and baby panties remain uncovered.

Discipline

Disciplinary authority can be accorded to each caregiver, or they can report to a central figure.

Post Diapering

The diapered adult will be expected to carry on as normally as possible prior to bedtime. He will not be allowed to 'hide', but might be asked to do chores such as hand-laundering diapers, hanging diapers and plastic panties on a clothesline, rinsing his diaper pail, etc. He will be expected to answer any questions posed by visitors in a truthful and straightforward manner. For example, "I'm wearing diapers because I wet the bed".

Teasing

There is bound to be some teasing on the part of visitors or their friends. This is inevitable and minor teasing will serve as motivation to become dry.

Babysitting

Once diapered, the bedwetter needs to be supervised by the caregiver or another adult. It is permissible, in some instances, to ask friends to undertake this task, or even someone unknown to the diapered adult, as long as professionalism is involved. Disciplinary authority is to be in accordance with the guidelines listed above under 'Discipline'.

Sanctions

Even before being returned to diapers, the bedwetter must understand that his cooperation is required and expected, and that failure on his part to submit to the process will bring severe punishment followed by forced compliance. Punishments may consist of anything from loss of privileges, to spankings. The use of a paddle, whether made of wood or lexan, is highly recommended. Most caregivers who have had to resort to spankings for non-compliance have not had to repeat the punishment. The adult bedwetter quickly learns that he is in a no-win situation. He will be spanked and diapered regardless who is present. Severe sanctions should be reserved for only the most serious infractions, i.e., non-cooperation in the diapering process, and unauthorized removal of diapers.

Frequency of Wetting

While each case is different, studies have shown that once returned to diapers, the average bedwetter will initially wet more often. Usually twice weekly wet beds might translate to five or even seven nights of wet diapers. The phenomenon is not completely understood (perhaps shame, perhaps security), but it is known that after approximately three months, the dryness achievement rate approaches that of untreated bedwetters, then quickly overtakes it. About 80% of adults in the Bedwetter Discipline program achieve dryness within six to nine months. The program may suspended when an adult has been dry for thirty consecutive nights, however, some caregivers prefer to extend the program, depending on the situation. For instances, many spouses who are married to sissies, often find that diapers are not only practical, but appropriate daily wear and continue their usage long after the bedwetter's behavior has improved.

It must be remembered that this program is a zero tolerance program. Any recurrence of bedwetting will require that the adult bedwetter re-enter the program. Some adult bedwetters never achieve dryness. If bedwetting continues beyond six months, then the bedwetter is to be removed from the Bedwetter Discipline program and entered into the more advanced B.H. program (Bedwetter Humiliation). Among other things, this will result in the bedwetter being diapered 24/7.

[serah-in-diapers]

How Do You Untrain Yourself?

So, untraining / diaper training / making yourself incontinent is actually extremely simple and straightforward. All it requires from you is time, patience, and a lot of diapers. That’s literally all you need to lose your control.

So first of all, you want to get in the habit of never using your muscles. That feeling where you clench to stop yourself from wetting or messing? Avoid doing that as much as you can, because that makes the muscles work and maintains their strength, while we’re wanting to weaken them as much as possible. It’s okay if you clench accidentally while you’re getting the hang of letting everything go whenever and wherever, that’s all part of learning and being patient with yourself, but you always want to avoid clenching down if you can.

The other thing you want to focus on is allowing your muscles to be open as much as possible. This is the feeling you get when you’re wetting or messing if you’re unsure, or if that’s still confusing to you, it’s the same thing you feel just after you finish voiding, before you stand back up off the toilet again and go back to clenching. It’s a very relaxed sensation, and there’s kind of this “dropping” feeling in your body when you do it. Practice doing this as much as you can, because, you guessed it, the more your body is in this state, the less it’s working and keeping your muscles strong. This will get easier and easier to do as you go until eventually, it’ll become so natural and normal that you’ll be open all the time without even thinking about it, and after a decent amount of time has passed, you won’t be able to close things at all anymore even when you try.

The very final thing you should try and do, and this isn’t necessary but I believe it speeds up the process and gets you wetting and messing with as little notice or feeling as possible if that’s what you want, is that you want to think about your voiding as little as you possibly can. To give an example of this, when you mess yourself, you don’t want to constantly be thinking like, “Oh my god I’m messing myself right now, I can’t believe I’m doing this”, or anything like that. You want to let everything become completely normalized and regular to you. If you start messing yourself, you should think of it as something that just happens sometimes, and you should remember that there’s nothing out of the ordinary about it for you, as someone who needs their diapers now. The same with wetting, just because you’re wetting yourself doesn’t mean you should let that distract you from anything you’re doing, it’s just something your body does now, but your diapers take care of it so you don’t even need to worry about that feeling.

By not clenching, by letting your muscles stay open, and wetting or messing yourself as soon as you feel the urge, you will untrain yourself. You can also train yourself to start voiding without noticing it if you’d like to by working on normalizing the behaviour, as I mentioned before. There’s no big secret to any of this, no ultimate crazy trick to it. It’s just science, and fact. 

So, there you have it, everything you need to know to untrain yourself and everything I did to get to where I am today. You don’t need any hypnosis or guides or anything like that, you just need your patience and perseverance. Doing what I’ve said here will cause your muscles to “atrophy”, which is basically saying that they’ll degrade over time to a point of being completely useless and unable to function, rendering yourself incontinent. 

The reason I took the time to write this out is to help this community, and so that you do not feel compelled to buy the $20 / $30 guide that is going around Tumblr these days. Nothing in it is new information, and you do not need it to untrain yourself, I promise you.

There are some amazing resources out there for anyone who genuinely wants to untrain themselves and wants info or advice on how to go about it, all absolutely free, and all you have to do is look. The first thing you can check out for a general overview of the process and some more in-depth tips is the 12 Month Diaper Training Program, though it isn’t perfect, and you should never use a single source for all your information. A person who I think is amazing and that I’ve referenced more than once as I’ve gone through my own untraining, is Kali, a woman who has completely untrained and in my opinion, gives out some of the best advice in the untraining community (she is very good at answering asks too). The Incontinent Desires subforum on Daily Diapers is also full of people talking about and discussing losing all of their control, with some amazing personal stories and records of success, plus plenty of shared tips for living lives in diapers 24/7. 

Please please please, check out some of these people, places, and resources for your needs, and do not reward the person here on Tumblr who took publically available information from all around the Internet and put it behind a paywall. Do not reward the person who is making people who already bought their guide pay more to them again for an “updated” version. Do not reward the person who is exploiting desperate people who just want more information for their own profit. 

You can be completely successful in your untraining with just what I’ve said here, and a little bit of research or asking those who’ve untrained about what you’re unsure about is perfectly fine as well. In my experience, people who untrain themselves are usually some of the kindest and most genuinely helpful people I have had the pleasure of talking to in the ABDL community. Most of us understand that we each can’t help feeling like we’re meant to be incontinent, and most of us are happy to support one another with the process of untraining because of this, without the need for multiple separate Patreon accounts (which are made so that people have to give money multiple times over if they want all the content instead of getting everything for one clear price), an Amazon wishlist attached to every post, and a guide that other people can only access by paying for it, more than once if they want the newest version. 

Go to the people and places that respect your desires, don’t go to the one person who doesn’t.

[destinedfordiapers]

Your ex-girlfriend was an amazing person. Your breakup was a mutual decision; you both realized that despite loving each other, neither of you were in love. You just wanted different things in life.

Your relationship was amicable after the breakup. Without the pressure of maintaining a dying relationship, you could just be friends. Which was great because you two had foolishly signed a year-long lease just 3 weeks ago. Neither of you could afford to break it or live on your own.

Four months later, your overactive bladder was getting worse and worse by the day. You've even had a few accidents when you weren't able to reach the bathroom in time. You knew you needed protection, but the thought of wearing them filled you with a deep anxiety. You would rather cut off your own arm than wear them.

But you had no choice. You ordered a case of Seni Super Quattros after doing some research. Ordering them killed your spirit. But even worse was when they arrived at your apartment. She mistakenly opened them.

One of the most embarrassing conversations in your life followed. You begrudgingly explained the situation to her. To your great surprise, she didn't laugh or insult you. She was genuinely concerned.

Twenty minutes later, you were still in the bathroom fumbling with the tapes. You'd ripped a tab off the first one. The second one ripped off when you stood up; you'd put it on too tight. The third one fell off, a result of the overcorrection from the second diaper.

You heard a knock on the door. You heard her voice, almost a whisper, "do you need help? I truly don't mind." Every part of your brain wanted to say no. But you had to admit you needed it.

What followed was one of the most awkward situations of your life. Your ex-girlfriend kneeling in front of you, helping you put on a diaper. She assured you it was no big deal, that she knew how to put on diapers.

So for the next ten minutes she kneeled there, teaching you how to best place the tabs. How to put it on tight, but not too tight. She even managed to not make you feel awkward as your diaper started growing warm.

But nothing about the situation made you feel good about yourself. The difference in both of your lives post-breakup couldn't be more different. You knew your girlfriend had started to date a new guy while you were going back to diapers. You wondered if this was one of the last time any woman would be this close to you.

"There, how does that feel?" you hear her say. You couldn't bear to say how you really felt.

"It's great," you lie.

**This one is based on a true story. Probably the origin story for my enjoyment of being humiliated for my incontinence. Now for your enjoyment.

[paddedstories]

4 Things Miss Crinkle Finds Fascinating About The ABDL Guys She Babysits

1. How some, when they’re not babies, are the most macho Alpha guys, like bodybuilders or hockey players or something, someone who never loses, that goes around smirking at everyone at the gym, flexing their muscles at any opportunity. Yeah, those losers go home and tape up their diaper with cartoon puppies over those nice lower abs. Then they pop in their paci and spend their evening watching Paw Patrol and packing their pampers. And they’re as proud of their droopy diaper dumps as they are of their ripped abs and commanding pecs. If I put them in a playpen with another big baby they would probably show off the size of their pamper load to put the other diaper boy in his place. Trust me, a stinky load is usually the only big thing these guys are packing in their pampers. As babies they’re total simps and the most whiny during discipline. Pathetic and Hilarious.

2. How some are obviously little beta boys. The ones that care way too much, who who got picked on in school. They now act and dress like indie geeks. They may be skinny but they have bodies like weak little boys with soft bellies and little boy bums. They are overly polite and pathetically anxious about offending me. I can tell right away when they’re virgins. A lot of these boys are also bedwetters. Usually they love to talk about their favorite games, movies, anime, and manga or just babble for attention. That’s why I keep a paci-gag handy. Beta diaper boys are best seen and not heard. They are often premature ejaculators, which always makes me smile and sure to adjust their diapers frequently. It always gives me a chuckle when they suddenly freeze in place and shiver with a pathetic little whimper and eyes-shut-tight squirty face.

3. I can usually sniff out a bedwetting beta boy right away, even if he doesn’t smell like baby powder and pee. Insecurity just rolls off them. Bedwetting guys have always interested me, and I have a soft spot for them. I’ve always found it so cute and helpless. Bedwetting is so revealing, so babyish and says so much about a boy without him even being aware of it. I love that they are truly diaper dependent, and will have to wake up to a wet pamper everyday, no matter how old they are or how responsible they try to act. In their deepest subconscious, where true honesty resides, they know they are helpless babies. It’s so interesting to me how many of them eventually find their wet diapers exciting. I know a lot use their wet morning diaper as a fun humpy toy like the big toddlers they are. I always wonder what moms of adult bedwetter boys who still live at home must think, hearing loud crinkling and panting every morning, lol. Guess it’s just part of #boymom life.

4. Which kind of guy do I like better? A lot depends on my mood and the type of day I'm having, but honestly, big guys with tough guy swagger are my personal favorites. It's like being in the presence of a pitbull/poodle mix. They are usually so sensitive deep down, and I like how their tough guy act is just a thin layer on top and then underneath they are such a needy bottom in denial. These guys are definitely the ones I tend to find hot. It's probably why I’m drawn to college frat guys. Just a hint that they're diaper loving bottoms is everything to me. Gives them this wounded-hero vibe, and it's definitely a major turn on.

I’ve been babysitting since I was 13 and have always loved it. I love babysitting beta diaper boys, and I find it very rewarding, but, to be honest, I see them more like asexual baby brothers who are still in diapers. They are cute, small,  and not very impressive. I’m never going to be attracted to a grown man who has a 12 year old boy body, is a total virgin, is cringey-obsessed with diapers, and is a little humpy boy who doesn’t even want to jerk off with his hand like most guys do. As far as I’m concerned, beta babies need to hump that pamper-pussy alone in their cribs because their babysitters and moms definitely deserve a real man!👨 Sorry, losers.

[finsubbybedwetter]

[mhdb77]

Very true. As someone who wets the bed around 4 nights a week it’s clear that I’m a true bedwetter. This post makes it perfectly clear if I ever trie to make excuses to myself like “it doesn’t happen every night” or make up some other silly excuse. And obviously as the childish silly bedwetter that I am, I do wear diapers to bed every night.

-I’m a bedwetter.

[dipsandlife]

Amazing AB/DL Blogs and Where to Find Them

A while ago, I answered someone who asked if I could recommend more ABDL blogs here on Tumblr. Since my post received lots of likes but is a bit outdated by now, I decided to provide another (most likely incomplete) overview for all of you diaper-weirdos out there.

All blogs are of course exclusively run by and about adults.

If your blog is not included but you wish to be added, please send me a PM and which category you would like to see your blog added to. Keep in mind you need to be a content creator, just re-blogging is not enough.

Blogs mentioned have been active within the last few months.

No blogs with mainly commercial interests.

Last edit: October 19, 2023

Let’s start with …

Girls living their best 24/7-diapered life (… or at least wear and enjoy their diapers a lot):

@onemoretime-99

@asiandiapcutie

@diaperedlexi

@misspandapants

@diaperlexi

@black-rasbaby

@babyfluffybutt

@bitsybunbun

@fetishalex1900

@soggystrawberry

@kayleeheartkins

@little-lucy-morningstar

@ashleysmessyjourney

@diaperedlilgirl

@dainty-dollette

@crowindiapers

@requincouche

@littlefroganddaddy

@fairyprincessjess

@lolita-in-the-mist

@daddyslittlesnugglebunny2

@littleprincessbug3

@sunnywittledayss

@sunnywittledays

@iamprincessbabyluna

@dominanovem

@littlesiren-song

@reagansweetsxo

@mutineer123 ( @consecratedbelle )

@daddysdreamydollie

@sweetasme

@jejes-world

@daddy-and-hislittlegirl

@littlegirlanddaddy

@akinkycouple

@werenotadulting

@cumpliantly

@josiedl

@littlehunnybee

@wildishbambinaa

@diapergirlfaye

@lolaandthensome

@kittenwears

@ma-diapercouple

@padded-princess

@cutelilbutterfy

@prinz34

@hi-its-babygirlcora

@paddedfordaddy

@littleskittle19

@laura-iwittlesissybabys-weird

@monsieur–s

@nicasnursery

Mommys who know how to make sure that their littles are properly diapered:

@badbehaviorxx

@foxiemystique ( @missfoxiemommy )

@themissvee

@bbboyandsnacktress

@begoodformommy

@bebadformommy

@mommy-wants-to-play

@mommyandme1

@babygirlandmommy496

Amazing AB/DL story writers, either as single/multi-part stories or captions:

@all4thedips

@insecurebabybutt

@boysrbabies

@paddedlittleparadise

@3yobbg-2

@helplesslyregressed

@crinklyfantasies

@quietlyhumiliated

@diapergirlstories

@wittl3sissybaby

@bby-kimmy

@mellowsadistic2

@regressionrevolution

@2sissy2christi

@dprdom

@picfab

@thediaperedathlete

@omnomnomdomcaps

@moodxxl

@nannychloetales

Tips & tricks on how to enjoy the AB/DL world (e.g. diaper training, wearing at work, …):

@kali-is-an-abdl

@serah-in-diapers

@diapertrainingashley

German community:

@windelgirl32

@littlefroganddaddy

@deletedtom

@fetishalex1900

@sunny-windel

@windelmeister1985

@prinz34

@temporarilyunavailable-404

@tamagottchy

@mamilena

@littlegirlanddaddy

[3yobbg-2]

…Updated compilation…Thanx to @dipsandlife for this fine ‘public service’!…

[babybobbysstories]

Discipline Program for Bedwetters

Note to the reader: I was sent this wonderful essay by a good friend and I felt I should share it with my fans here. I know many mommies will find it extremely useful.

The Program

B.D. (Bedwetter Discipline) is a disciplinary regime whereby a chronic adult bedwetter is returned to diapers using various techniques of humiliation, embarrassment, and creative shaming. It should be undertaken only after other methods have failed. It is assumed that medical treatment has proven unsuccessful. Responsibility for managing the problem is taken over by caregivers or their designee in a manner that emphasizes practicality and convenience while ignoring the concerns of the bedwetter. It is understood that a loss of independence, privacy and dignity is inevitable on the part of the bedwetter, however the gains of the program more than justify these insignificant embarrassments.

Types of Diapers

Although disposable diapers may be considered more convenient, for the purposes of this program, cloth diapers and plastic panties are preferable for the following reasons: 1.They allow the bedwetter to feel wetness after urination. 2. The bulk between the legs serves as a constant reminder to the bedwetter that he is wearing diapers. 3. Cloth diapers necessitate the use of accessories such as diaper pins, plastic or rubber panties, baby powder, and diaper bags. For the purposes of humiliating the bedwetter, the use of these items is more desirable. Extra diapers can be added to increase absorbency, prevent leaks, and to add bulkiness under outer clothing when out in public. In addition, cloth diapers can't easily be hidden under night clothing such as onesies or pajamas. Adult-sized cloth diapers are available in several styles; a pre-fold pin-on type is recommended (about two dozen) along with cloth baby diapers for use as liners/inserts. Adult sized plastic or rubber panties are easily obtainable, both in snap-on and pull-on styles. They are available in plain white, semi-transparent, pastel or nursery prints. Nursery print plastic panties are highly recommended and readily available also. If pastel plastic panties are to be used, pink is the preferred color. Six to ten pairs of assorted plastic panties are recommended for the initial layette.

A multi-sensory experience for the bedwetter is desirable and best served by wearing cloth diapers. Four of the five senses are acutely engaged in the process. They are:

Touch (bulk against the skin and a sense of wetness).

Sound (the crinkling of plastic or rubber panties when walking).

Sight (bulkiness, whether or not clothing is worn over the waterproof panties).

Smell (of plastic or rubber, baby powder, and a slight scent of urine eventually acquired by hand washed diapers).

Breaking the News

By the time the bedwetting adult is informed of the decision to return him to diapers (we will refer to the male gender, as most bedwetters are male), diapering supplies should already be on hand. They should include as a minimum, diapers, diaper pins, diaper bag, waterproof panties, diaper rash cream and baby powder. The bedwetter's bed should always be protected by a plastic sheet or rubber sheet. Allowing him to examine the products beforehand will reinforce the fact that the decision is firm and final; and while reasons can be discussed, it should be emphasized to the bedwetter that the decision is final and not negotiable. Allowing the bedwetter a few hours to contemplate the inevitable return to diapers may ease the transition, but that should be of no concern to the caregiver. If necessary, he should be informed that any resistance on his part will result in immediate punishment.

Reasons to wear diapers include:

To prevent wet beds and odor

To improve sleep by eliminating the necessity to change sheets during the night

To lessen disruption to the household

To reduce the volume of laundry

To emphasize the practical consequences of bedwetting

To supply incentives to attain dryness

To humiliate the bedwetter for his childish behavior

To remind the bedwetter he is acting like a big baby

The Routine

The bedwetter should be informed that he will be expected to cooperate in the following regime: At a specific time each evening, (7:00 pm recommended) he will make himself available in his room (or other designated area) for his diapering. It will be emphasized that there are absolutely no exceptions to this regimen; not even when visitors are present. Consistency is crucial. It will be explained that others will be in control of the adult bedwetter until he is ready to control urination by himself. This may include wives, girlfriends, adult babysitters, co-workers or any other designees.

Management and Punishment

It will be explained to the bedwetter that being returned to diapers is a enuresis management strategy, and that management options may include punishment at the discretion and convenience of the caregiver.

Diapering Supplies

While basic supplies will consist of the items mentioned above, other useful additions will include a changing pad, a diaper pail, and baby wipes. Ideally, the bedwetter's equipment will include a changing table. A six-foot long folding worktable is ideal for this purpose, and can be fitted with a blanket and changing pad. A shelf can easily be added between the table legs, and can be used to hold diapers and other supplies. If discretion is desired, a blanket can conceal the diapering supplies; however, it is recommended that they remain in plain sight.

Terminology

The bedwetter's diapers should be straightforwardly referred to as such, and other equipment should be referred to by name, i.e., changing table, diaper pail, diaper pins etc. It is permissible to refer to his plastic or rubber panties as 'baby panties' because of the wide use of the term in the vernacular.

Diapering

At the appointed time, the bedwetter will position himself upon the changing table. At this point he will be wearing just a T-shirt. A set of diapers will have been prepared by combining an adult diaper and one or more folded cloth baby diapers as inserts. The diaper will be powdered, and slipped under the adult's backside. Powder will be applied to his frontal diaper area, and then the diaper will be raised between his legs and tightly secured back to front with diaper pins. His plastic panties will then be slid down his legs with one hand, while holding both his ankles with the other hand. After making sure all the cloth is contained within the panties, he will then be free to remove himself from the changing table and rejoin the others in the household. If pajamas or track pants are permitted, he can then put them on, although it is recommended that his diapers and baby panties remain uncovered.

Discipline

Disciplinary authority can be accorded to each caregiver, or they can report to a central figure.

Post Diapering

The diapered adult will be expected to carry on as normally as possible prior to bedtime. He will not be allowed to 'hide', but might be asked to do chores such as hand-laundering diapers, hanging diapers and plastic panties on a clothesline, rinsing his diaper pail, etc. He will be expected to answer any questions posed by visitors in a truthful and straightforward manner. For example, "I'm wearing diapers because I wet the bed".

Teasing

There is bound to be some teasing on the part of visitors or their friends. This is inevitable and minor teasing will serve as motivation to become dry.

Babysitting

Once diapered, the bedwetter needs to be supervised by the caregiver or another adult. It is permissible, in some instances, to ask friends to undertake this task, or even someone unknown to the diapered adult, as long as professionalism is involved. Disciplinary authority is to be in accordance with the guidelines listed above under 'Discipline'.

Sanctions

Even before being returned to diapers, the bedwetter must understand that his cooperation is required and expected, and that failure on his part to submit to the process will bring severe punishment followed by forced compliance. Punishments may consist of anything from loss of privileges, to spankings. The use of a paddle, whether made of wood or lexan, is highly recommended. Most caregivers who have had to resort to spankings for non-compliance have not had to repeat the punishment. The adult bedwetter quickly learns that he is in a no-win situation. He will be spanked and diapered regardless who is present. Severe sanctions should be reserved for only the most serious infractions, i.e., non-cooperation in the diapering process, and unauthorized removal of diapers.

Frequency of Wetting

While each case is different, studies have shown that once returned to diapers, the average bedwetter will initially wet more often. Usually twice weekly wet beds might translate to five or even seven nights of wet diapers. The phenomenon is not completely understood (perhaps shame, perhaps security), but it is known that after approximately three months, the dryness achievement rate approaches that of untreated bedwetters, then quickly overtakes it. About 80% of adults in the Bedwetter Discipline program achieve dryness within six to nine months. The program may suspended when an adult has been dry for thirty consecutive nights, however, some caregivers prefer to extend the program, depending on the situation. For instances, many spouses who are married to sissies, often find that diapers are not only practical, but appropriate daily wear and continue their usage long after the bedwetter's behavior has improved.

It must be remembered that this program is a zero tolerance program. Any recurrence of bedwetting will require that the adult bedwetter re-enter the program. Some adult bedwetters never achieve dryness. If bedwetting continues beyond six months, then the bedwetter is to be removed from the Bedwetter Discipline program and entered into the more advanced B.H. program (Bedwetter Humiliation). Among other things, this will result in the bedwetter being diapered 24/7.

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