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Potential benefits of hiring a prostitute for an individual man
"Great men have always preferred women of the prostitute type." - Otto Weininger
âAt least 20 percent of American men born between 1933 and 1942 had their first sexual intercourse with a prostitute.â - SuperFreakonomics
Men born in 1933-1942 were more masculine than subsequent generations, with those born pre-1933 more masculine still. I believe that the widespread frequenting of prostitutes was a factor in this.
Given the aforementioned statistic, it stands to reason that many of the greatest men in history were sexually initiated by prostitutes.
Prostitution is a trade much older than humans, observable among chimpanzees, monkeys, penguins and hummingbirds.
Sex is in the most basic tier (Physiological) of Maslowâs âHierarchy of Needsâ.
Prostitution:
Compels a man to get in and stay in physical and mental condition to perform with a relative stranger (at least initially) and be comfortable with a level of risk (financial, sexual, physical, social)
Reduces a man's perceived need to style himself excessively in the hope of meeting a woman socially, saving time, energy, money and reducing stress
Corporialises and demystifies intimacy and sex; takes it from the abstract and passive to the physical and active, which increases experience, confidence, competence, sociability, motivation, self-esteem, self-care, optimism and virility
Great potential variety of women and acts, selection according to one's preferences and means
Prostitutes can be sexual specialists in some areas and are often comfortable with a level of dominance that many women are not
Significantly separates sex from female validation and approval (though there is a feeling of validation as she is having sex with you, perhaps for a relatively trivial amount of money and she may well convincingly simulate enjoyment, or perhaps genuinely enjoy it) and gaining immediate access to sex via a transparent exchange eliminates rejection, reduces frustration, fear, anxiety, rumination, loneliness, powerlessness, fatalism and depression while increasing energy, belief and happiness, which in turn can reduce masturbation frequency and the appeal of masochistic fetishism/paraphilias
Reduces sexual and psychological dependence on an individual mate or potential mate, which can help one overcome excessive attachment ("oneitis") and a scarcity mindset (reducing desperation while boosting confidence and mood; one feels less necessity and pressure in interactions with women) and greatly mitigates the possibility of emotional damage (though "Johns" and prostitutes have formed relationships in rare cases and in many more there have been unrequited romantic feelings from the John), removes the pressure and inhibition of âwhat sex meansâ for oneâs friendship or relationship (as would be the case with a regular woman), reduces âsimpingâ tendencies, self-censorship around women and toxic resentment towards women (though it can promote a sense of guarded indifference towards them)
Lightens the weight of social norms, can help exorcise internalised guilt and greatly reduces the importance of looks and status to access sex: sex workers don't care if you may be an incel, a NEET, a Nazi, a vagrant, a violent criminal or a paedophile, as long as you're polite, discreet, hygienic, non-coercive and provide the money
Reduces resentment, suspicion and conflict between men, while increasing respect (relative to a man being involuntarily celibate), as it's proof of a man's confidence, potency and heterosexual drive (some male friends even use seeing prostitutes as a bonding excercise)
If it's known that you're sexually active with attractive women but not known that they're prostitutes, your attractiveness to regular women will increase
Reduces constraints on time, money (relative to many relationships), energy and freedom
Minimal risk of child support liability, false SA or assault accusations
Private: likely removed from friends, family and potential non-sex worker partners, which reduces anxiety, potential social blowback and concerns about oneâs reputation (it can also be easier to confide in prostitutes than it is with friends, family or a therapist)
âWhen he later admitted, âThis has been the best day of my life,â I knew Iâd done the right thing. My son is keen on a second visit, but I told him that heâll have to save up for it himself. Hopefully he will find a girlfriend one day and learn to enjoy sex in a loving relationship. Whatever happens, I will remain forever grateful to Anna for the gift of confidence she has given my son.â - mother of an autistic 21 year old
I would have been much better off mentally and physically if instead of viewing internet porn for the first time at age 11, Iâd had sex with a prostitute.
Rid yourself of the feelings of humiliation associated with explicitly paying for sex and of lingering romantic obsessions. The blinkered quest for some kind of âpureâ female validation is an obstacle to personal growth. Don't wait to be chosen, choose yourself.
you consult psychiatrists and philâŠ
when things arenât going well
and whores when they are.
the whores are there for young boyâŠ
men; to the
âJesus, buddy, what the hell were ya doinâ in there?â
âFuckinâ,â I told the gentleman and walked down the hall and down the steps and stood outside in the road and lit one of those sweet Mexican cigarettes in the moonlight.
Liberated and human again for a mere $3, I loved the night, Mexico and myself. - Charles Bukowski
An incel's account:
"3+ months ago I was considering roping more than ever before. The pressure from that and being a KHHV really messed up my mental, so I decided to pay out the ass for an hour with a high class escort in case I died. In a sense, I didn't want to do it. I had always planned to have my first time with my wife. Of course, at this age I'm never going to find a virgin foid to share in that experience and I'm unsure whether I'll even be married. I can't describe how gut wrenching the build-up was to meeting her. The anxiety was the worst in my life, consisting of hours worth of a pounding head, nausea, total obliviousness, some tearing up, and diarrhea. Strangely, the feeling dissipated about 30 minutes before meeting her. It was a feeling of tranquil resignation; I had accepted that my life amounted to this: my first sexual experience would be in my mid 20s with a prostitute. For good and bad, this would be with me the rest of my life. I enjoyed the sex despite everything, but as someone without friends or family, talking with her about anything and everything was just as enjoyable. I was so comfortable that I told her I'm autistic (something I never do) and she replied "What's that?" JFL.
Whilst ultimately being saddened by the whole situation, I appreciate the good that came from it. For a couple weeks, my mental state was better than ever before. My depressed libido spiked and made me cum buckets. My suicidal thoughts and sadness subsided for a time and were permanently reduced. I woke up energized instead of groggy. My mind is at ease knowing what sex is like. I know escorting is a remedy for me in the future. The experience also changed my opinion on prostitution: Some people, mostly mentally or physically disabled men, really do have sexual needs that should be fulfilled by professionals. These trucels deserve legal, state subsidised and mandated sex. I still maintain its degenerate for all others. I LIGHTLY recommend escortmaxxing at least once if you've genuinely tried and failed at attracting foids. Everyone's different, but I knew this would help me. I thank that foid, nay, dare I say woman, for all she did to help me."
Another commented:
"Yeah, there's a lot of catharsis you feel after fucking a woman. I don't understand how dudes can work for years without sex. That would be miserable. I first started seeing escorts at 23, and I still see them often. When you're really stressed seeing an escort will provide major relief and give you energy. When I'm exhausted from work I go to the massage parlor, and it's so effective that if I had another job I'd easily be able to do it because of the physical relief you get from fucking escorts."
Another escortmaxer on the forums:
Why Prostitutes are better than other foids.
"For one thing, prostitutes have up front pricing.
Even if you ever got marriedâŠâŠthere is no telling how much money it would cost you per each fuck. Gifts, dinners, datesâŠ..these things add up quick.
A hooker will just come out with a set price.
For another, you get to choose the hooker you want.
Anyone, who is an incel, will never be able to just pick their girlfriend out of a crowd.
If we ever get wives/girlfriendsâŠ..it will just be whatever foid is willing to date us.
We will just have to date that one foid, because no other foid is interested in us.
And that is a big âIFâ we find a girlfriend at all.
Thirdly, hookers are less judgmental.
They have seen hundreds of small cocks, they will still fuck you.
They have fucked many manlets, even shorter than you.
Autism doesnât mean shit to a hooker. As long as you donât hurt her, she doesnât care how crazy you are.
Just pay the money and you are in.
Fourthly, hookers canât file for child support or alimony.
If she gets pregnant, she has no idea who the father is. She fucked a hundred guys that week.
Fifthly, hookers are more open to different types of sex.
You will never hear a hooker complain that she really doesnât like giving blowjobs.
Sixthly, you can fuck as often as you have the money for.
So many men only get their girlfriends to fuck them once a week.
Took Wellbutrin for about 3 months and it did next to nothing to improve my mood so I stopped. It did, however, help me break my nicotine addiction. But now summers back and I want a little buzz...
I caved today and bought a tin of Zyns which I am regretting because once I start I can't stop shoving these stupid fucking things in my mouth and its bad for my heart and contributes to my sleeplessness
Took Wellbutrin for about 3 months and it did next to nothing to improve my mood so I stopped. It did, however, help me break my nicotine addiction. But now summers back and I want a little buzz...
I caved today and bought a tin of Zyns which I am regretting because once I start I can't stop shoving these stupid fucking things in my mouth and its bad for my heart and contributes to my sleeplessness
Reading Catcher in the Rye and I like it but it would be way more kino without the corny adolescent first person narration. But maybe I'm missing the whole point
BORING ASS DIARY POST: I'm sick of being a waitress at a restaurant. It's beneath me and my social life is starting to revolve around it which makes me feel like a fucking loser.
BORING ASS DIARY POST: I'm sick of being a waitress at a restaurant. It's beneath me and my social life is starting to revolve around it which makes me feel like a fucking loser.
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