All the stars are closer

She/Her - 20 - Probably currently obsessing over a game

[ruesdeluxe]

[coffee-khaleesi-deactivated2020]

When I was training to be a battered women’s advocate, my supervisor said something that really blew my mind:

“You can always assume one thing about your clients; and that is that they are doing their best. Always assume everyone is doing their best. And if they’re having a day where their best just isn’t that great, or their best doesn’t look like your best, you have to be okay with that.”

Any now whenever anyone in my life, either a friend or a client, frustrates me, disappoints me, or pisses me off, I just tell myself They are doing their best. Their best isn’t that great today, but I have days where my best isn’t that great either. 

[bogfox]

Op I’d like to thank you for sharing this. Ever since the first time I’ve read it I’ve held it in my mind and it really has helped me to be kinder to others and to myself.

[whimsical-catacombs]

why are time loops always only like 1 day long?

the real horror is a months or years long time loop. no speedrunning your torture here. you have to sit with the consequences of your actions for a loooong time before the release of knowing the consequences and actions have been erased.

but oh, all the actions and consequences are gone. those relationships you built? empty. you can never build them again without the constant guilt of knowing that it's not as real the second, third, thirtieth time when you already know all their secrets and they none of yours.

but you can't hide. you can't isolate yourself because what if this is the time the loop breaks and then what? years gone by of missed chances with people who have changed you a thousand times and now circumstances have changed. you can never build back what was washed away by your own inaction. they'll never be able to meet you like they did the first time if you don't choose to meet them the first time every time

[tankycinna]

Post Hangout Feedback Form

Was I weird?

Are you sure?

What was the weirdest thing I did? Be as detailed as possible.

How could I be less weird in the future? Be as detailed as possible.

Do you have any complaints or feedback regarding my behavior? Be as detailed as possible.

Would you be open to hanging out again in the future?

Should I give you some space after this? If yes, for how long should I avoid you?

Was I weird?

Are you absolutely sure?

I'm sorry.

[lemonpiemer]

teenage caleb used to stalk every boys that showed even the slightest bit of interest in mc and grade them like a teacher, with the same high standard he applies to himself.

caleb has shown that hes very insecure when it comes to mc and personally i have a theory that insecure ppl tend to judge others with the same standard they use on themselves, so i think it wouldnt be surprising if caleb was or maybe even still is brutally judgemental towards any men in mc’s life.

BUT ofc, he keeps it all to himself and never let anyone know this side of him like always ;)

[zanyssins]

Pookie wip

It has been a while

[art-by-ady]

You reach for your wife but find someone else 🐦‍⬛

Sylus takes snuggle time seriously. Poor Mephi 🥹

[artsyririblobbu]

he has something for u

[ravenyibi]

[ravenyibi]

[cluttershy]

[sixgrl]

[venompinks]

LISA 𓆩⟡𓆪 ANYMA — BAD ANGEL COACHELLA WEEK 2

[tokamiart]

Wanted to drop this when the event started, but I didn’t make it and now I've lost my interest in this one- Tho, I will draw him in his new outfit again because I love it!🥹🐦‍⬛💕

[neptunecity]

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[dariusinsta]

[womanfourwoman]

you don’t deserve to be confined to some bleak room playing video games for the rest of your lives. you don’t deserve to live in a world where cis people and men project their fantasies and disgust onto your bodies. you don’t deserve to merely survive. you deserve to grow. you deserve to feel your own feelings without shame. you deserve the freedom to cry out and take up space. you deserve joy