Band Advice by Mike Michel
Dear Musicians,
Ā I thank you for profoundly impacting my life in a positive way and helping me understand who I am as a person. Itās so cool we have met and have shared the bliss of music together. I wish you the best on your music journey this coming year!
Ā I was recently asked to contribute some random thoughts and advice about group collaboration in a local music blog and hereās what I came up with.Ā Iāve expanded it a bit here and these are just my humble opinions. Everyone is on their own music path and has the brain and soul power to successfully obtain whatever music situation they want, whether it be super part time, part time or full time. Any music dream or goal takes extreme patience, constant internal introspection, and consistent hard work at your craft.Ā Introverted or extroverted it doesnāt matter, working on social skills over time and multiple experiences is crucial if we want to present our music in public. Dropping the ego, and reaching out to other musicians, & supporting other musicians is crucial as well. Going to see live music for inspiration is job #1 and simply the best way to meet fellow music lovers or potential bandmates, collaborators or music business people. You live in one of the twelve super fertile music zones in the United States and with the internet age at your hands, itās easier than itās ever been in all of our lifetimes to play music with other people. Quite frankly, there arenāt a ton of excuses not to go for it. Playing music is one part psychology for sure and overcoming any inner blockages will only liberate you even more and help you enjoy the moment in our music making. Release your reverence for the almighty sound vibration!
BAND & SOLO ARTIST ADVICE
Bands & solo artists make fatal decisions based solely on wanting to be known. Itās a normal human trait musicians should work hard to bypass. I was guilty of this in my early 20ās. Most music entities that are special or become part of the public conscience on any level started as simple pure spark nurtured by innocence, great songs and their primal love of music. We are all human beings and all band members are far from perfect, but traditionally successful collaborations are in synch as much as possible on their most fundamental long term goals and intentions for playing music as a unit. When something is pure and good, bands actually donāt have to work 24/7. Mystical things seem to happen fast and naturally to bands that are on track with their collective music soul. I truly believe that. Audiences overall seem to like what you are doing. Of course you canāt please everyone, but youāll sense that the majority of fans dig what you are doing. Youāll touch the listeners whether itās a Friday night party band helping people forget about their problems, or an introspective original music group that inspires people to solve their problems. Both have value. If you keep hitting consistent brick walls with your band or personal music path, you have to drop your ego, be objective and ask why things arenāt working. Itās painful but you have to look at your deepest layers. I mean the deepest layers. The internal kinks, fears and belief system contradictions can be hidden. Something has to be adjusted, worked on or terminated. An artistās internal drive to be ātraditionally successfulā can completely overshadow the reality of their music situation, ability, and self-awareness level. Being highly driven is very different from actually believing in yourself. Knowing or believing comes with a sense of calm, confidence, and an intuitive senseā youāre on track.ā
My best advice is to always remember the first day you got an instrument, or heard the most powerful song that got you into music and never loose that feeling! Thatās your guide, roadmap, or ā happy placeā to help you find whatever your definition ofĀ āmusic successā is. Not to mention, these primal memories aid your recovery if you have a challenging day, rehearsal, recording session or gig.Ā Those were your purist music moments and they help remind you why you play music. Keep it real, and donāt forget to balance out the seriousness of craft with the seriousness of fun. Gigs fly by fast and if you didnāt enjoy some of the art process that got you to that gig, then youāll have one thin scrapbook to look at. I get that weāre all different as some folks are loose & some uptight. Iām generally wound up a bit and have high standards like most but I finally, after 20 years of playing music professionally, get the clichĆ© ā enjoying the ride.ā Yes be conscious of the ride.Ā
EVERY bandās main challenge is communicating regularly with other band members. This is key and really hard sometimes as all musicians are quirky human beings who are sensitive deep down. You wouldnāt be playing or pursuing music otherwise if you didnāt have artistic sensitivity. If certain band members canāt communicate like adults (continually) and are void of civility or honesty, Iād think about leaving that band or ask that person to leave no matter how good the music is. Arenāt you looking for something long-term verses short term? A music family? Community? A relatively painless creative place to internally excel? Arenāt you getting enough weird shit throw at you during the day at work, school, or at home? Why would you want somebody to throw a wrench into your sacred music turf? If they canāt listen to what you have to say and your seeing a high unawareness level with them, then I would rethink your relationship with that band member. Thereās truly not too many life lessons to learn here after a while, as someone with these traits is simply internally challenged and not ready yet to collaborate in a healthy manner and may never be able to do so. Iād move on and channel some of your energy from your frustrations into finding the right team. You arenāt alone with any of these group personality predicaments and having the openness, belief, and resilience to find another collaborator is where you should focus your mental energy. You will find another collaborator over time. Itās best to sort through your personal intentions and goals aka āget your cards on the tableā as soon as you can with fellow collaborators. Weāre all adults here and time is most precious to all of us. With any relationship it takes an ongoing process to really know someone, but in my mid-adulthood I donāt have any time to waste so I try to respectfully tell people my deal ASAP once I find the music weāre creating has potential and feels natural.
Last thought for the night, never forget about the people you play for. Donāt play at them. Youāre not above the audience. Donāt pull an āOasisā ( the band Oasis) on your fans. You play for them. The energy you receive from them is a gift to keep on writing, playing, & trying. You are just part of a bigger picture. Music is deep, primal, communal, and hits us on a cellular level. I think of music as an entity and Iām just a part of it, as music needs you to help spread itās amazing power. Itās worth the sacrifice as you are giving something back to the world, not just taking from it. How many times during the day at school, home or work do you get to express yourself to the fullest degree without filters?Ā Not many right, but playing, performing, and recording music allows you that freedom of self-expression full time. That is the greatest gift that music gives us, freedom!
I always tell people playing in bands or playing music solo feels like your celebrating Halloween all the time. You tap into your creative mind, your youthful imagination, which eliminates lifeās daily fears and anxieties. You react, create, emote, take risks, overcome obstacles, put forth effort, feel inspired, and hopefully at the end of a good rehearsal, gig, or recording, youāre totally exhausted in a beautiful way. Donāt stop playing music. Itās worth the investment now as you could be 90 and still be playing music, feeling itās bliss, seeing itās positive effects upon humanity, and working for one of the most powerful entities on earth.
Best Wishes & Happy Music Making
Mike Michel







