Bully-Free Zone (＾▽＾)

Bee | AroAce | NB (they/them) | Anti Anti | Fandom Rat | Very very queer. Incredibly queer. The queerest. Die mad about it.

[chewbacca]

💻🐈 [source: roshineemookaiah on tiktok]

[ronebpd]

Bpd is so strange. If your FP starts talking about how much they love a video game/t.v show/even food, you feel jealous.

I’m literally feeling jealous because my FP said they love Pringles.

[miseryrepublic]

Why are exclus just... So angry at aspec people for existing? For making "lol allos amirite" jokes??

[shigraki]

Im sorry that I choose my favs with my pussy and not my moral compass. Wish I could be as boring as the rest of you

[shigraki]

[cmirael]

It’s really great that fiction is a playground, and fictional characters are like toys. You can do what you want with them, write them the way you want, create whatever story you want. It’s all yours, have fun.

[remakingggggggg-deactivated2020]

someone could post “im autistic and not afriad to share my hyperfixations” and tumblr would be like “lmao freak pedo abuser”

[pastelbluberri-deactivated20201]

If I saw a ship I didn’t like, I would simply block the tag and move on

[pastelbluberri-deactivated20201]

rip to anti’s but I’m different

[michaelamimi]

I want antis to look at this. REALLY FUCKING LOOK AT IT!

Because of you there were children possibly missed and still abused because you HAD to report GOD FUCKING CARTOONS!!! All because cartoon porn is gtoss to YOU. All because you put the factitious lives of cartoon children above REAL children. 

Because of ever asshole who reported porn of cartoon character youve caused just THIS organzation to waste 15OK. Causing more damage. Causing less help for children. This is what we mean when we say NOBODY, but you all, cares about cartoons or considers it child pornography. Now Imagine how much man power and money of the FBI and every other CSA hotline youve wasted. Imagine every god damn child who is still suffering cause you thought cartoons matter just as much or MORE than REAL KIDS!!! This is what we mean when we say yall dont give a damn or two fucks about anyone but yourselves. Cause you decided to report people OVER CARTOONS, than to just blacklist and block. THANK YOU FOR YOUR VERY VERY UNHELPFUL SERVICE. Maybe you should delete all of youre social media and never get on the internet again until you can learn som fucking god damn decency and learn to put REAL people above cartons and learn how to actually use the internet. Sincerly a victim of CSA who is so lived, so pissed off, that she wants to give yall a good god damn kick in the ass for wasting peoples time. 

[lornagonigall]

some post: THE FOLLOWING USER IS A PEDOPHILE

me: ah what undesirable™ ship is it today

[kascaban]

THIS!!! THIS IS THE FUCKING PROBLEM!!!! THIS IS WHY THIS PETTY PEDOPHILIA POINTING GAME IS SUCH A FUCKING ISSUE AND PROBABLY ONE OF THE MOST DANGEROUS TRENDS OUT THERE.

THERE ARE REAL ACTUAL PREDATORS ON THE INTERNET AND ON TUMBLR TOO IM SURE. BUT IS ANYONE GONNA TAKE A PEDOPHILE WARNING SERIOUSLY NOW??? ON TUMBLR.DOT.HELL WHERE ANY AND EVERYONE WHO YOU DISAGREE WITH IS “PROBABLY A PEDOPHILE!” NO!! NO THEY ARE NOT.

HONESTLY ALL THIS FUCKING BULLSHIT ABOUT TRYING TO FIGHT PEDOPHILES AND KEEP KIDS SAFE IN FANDOM SPACES GOING TO THE ABSURD LEVELS THAT IT HAS, PROBABLY HAS THE EXACT OPPOSITE EFFECT.

YOU ARE GIVING ACTUAL PREDATORS A PLACE TO HIDE. IN BETWEEN ALL THE ABSURDITY AND SHIP BULLSHIT.

YOU’RE GIVING PEDOPHILIA WARNINGS AN EYEROLL AND AN “ugh what is it now” RESPONSE.

IM MAD. IM MAD THAT PEOPLE WHO CLAIM THEY’RE TRYING TO KEEP OTHERS SAFE WOULD THROW A WORD LIKE THAT AROUND SO CARELESSLY,TO THE EXTEND THAT PEOPLE HAVE BECOME DOWNRIGHT DESENSITIEZED TO IT.

BEING ACUSED OF PEDOFILIA ON TUMBLR ISNT EVEN SERIOUS. YOU DISAGREE WITH SOMEONE ON A HEADCANON AND YOU’RE PROBABLY A PEDOPHILE. YOU SHIP SOMEONES NOTP YOU’RE PROBABLY A PEDOPILE. YOU DISAGREE WITH SOMEONES OPINION AND YOU’RE PROBABLY A PEDOPHILE.

AND DO YOU KNOW WHO, THIS BENEFITS MORE THAN ANYONE ELSE???? THAT NO ONE TAKES AN ACCUSATION LIKE THAT SERIOUSLY??????

ACTUAL FUCKING PEDOPHILES. ACTUAL FUCKING PEDOPHILES WHO NOW HAVE A MILLION AND ONE EXCUSES TO GIVE OTHERS IF THEY’RE CALLED OUT AND DISCOVERED.

THE WHOLE PEDOPHILIA RAGE ON THIS SITE IS INFURIATING AS IT IS. ITS A DISGUSTING THING TO BE CALLED WITHOUT ANY GROUNDS.  BUT WORST OF ALL ITS DOWN RIGHT FUCKING DANGEROUS.

IF YOU’VE EVER PARTICIPATED IN THIS PEDOPHILIA SMEAR CAMPAIN. IF YOU’VE EVER ACCUSED SOMEONE OF PEDOPHILIA WITHOUT HAVING EVIDENCE OF THEM TRYING TO HURT A CHILD, OR ADVOCATING PEDOHILIC BEHAVIOR. IF YOU’VE EVER ACCUSED SOMEONE OF PEDOPHILIA OVER SOME PETTY FANDOM DISAGREEMENT BECAUSE YOU THOUGHT IT WOULD SURELY GIVE YOU THE UPPER HAND. IF YOU WERE ONE OF THE PEOPLE WHO HELPED TURN “PEDOPHILIA” INTO A BUZZWORD.

YOU HAVENT MADE FANDOM A SAFE SPACE. YOU’VE MADE FANDOM INTO A SPACE WHERE ALL KINDS OF PEOPLE ARE DRIVEN OFF BASED ON HOW POPULAR THE BLOG THAT MADE THE CLAIM WAS, AND HOW MANY NOTES THE CALLOUT POST GOT.

MEANWHILE YOU’VE GIVEN ACTUAL PREDATORS THE BENEFIT OF THE DOUBT.

I HOPE YOU KNOW THAT.

TL;D-FUCKING-R DO NOT CALL PEOPLE FUCKING PEDOPHILES UNLESS YOU HAVE EVIDENCE WITH THEM TRYING TO HARM ACTUAL KIDS. PLEASE.

NOT JUST BECAUSE ITS A SHITTY FUCKING THING TO DO, BUT BECAUSE ITS FUCKING DANGEROUS.

[pikaglove]

I’ve said this before and I’ll say it again (even if my mutuals are annoyed by it)

I fucking wish the people that made pedo callout posts for fandom disagreements went this hard on the Jehovah’s witnesses for having a legit pedophile database and bullshit two witness rules that have protected pedophiles for decades! Or literally any other organization/industry that has a fucking pedophile ring!

Truth is people that do this don’t care for actual justice, they just want to silence the person they don’t like by creating a mob mentality!

[frickyesforumweapons]

[antis-delete-your-blogs-pls-thx]

I may be a cringy pro shipper but at least I didn't go to court over omegaverse tropes

[antis-delete-your-blogs-pls-thx]

@ikatella I am so sorry

You know I had to do it to em

[miseryrepublic]

what in the goddamn am i looking at

[miseryrepublic]

hetalia imagines, more like imaginations

[spinnenpfote6]

PSA To Y’all:

I can uwu baby my hot murderous misunderstood villain with the sad backstory as much as I want because he’s not real and because I understand metaphors and setting. Die mad about it.

PSA End.

[sweariwouldnt]

Greetings from my lane!

I can’t believe how easy it is to stay here. 

[freedom-of-fanfic]

‘why don’t antis just make their own archive if they hate AO3 so much?’

because fandom policers won’t feel safe enough if they just establish a safe space they control. they will only feel safe once every space is a ‘safe space’ they control. 

(wherein ‘safe space’ is ‘space that follows my social rules/makes me & my own feel safe’, not ‘a place where everyone present feels safe’.)

at heart, I think most fandom policers are afraid: afraid of being ‘wrong’ or ‘bad’. afraid of exposure to new ideas. afraid of facing the trauma of past experiences, and afraid of being hurt by new experiences. afraid to tolerate the worldviews of others; afraid to admit that more than one healthy way of reacting to the horrible things in this world exists. and fandom/fanworks are full of these things, because they come from such a diverse group of people.

the existence of anything outside their control means they could, at any moment, encounter something that makes them afraid - and being reminded that they are afraid makes them angry. but anger is a ‘bad’ emotion - unless it’s righteous anger, or justified anger. so: everything that makes them angry is a dangerous influence that must be destroyed. justification established. now it is their duty to make the world a space that’s ‘safe’ for them.

tl;dr policing fandom is an authoritarian social model, and authoritarianism is about assuaging fear by assuming absolute control.

unfortunately for them, it’s an impossible task. (unfortunately for us, it won’t stop them from trying.)

don’t donate to AO3 out of fear of antis; donate to AO3 because it’s proven a trustworthy archive that’s worth keeping running. and hey: did you know the number one way that authoritarians become less authoritarian is by experiencing the things they’re scared of? maybe keeping AO3 up will even help turn some of these folks around.

[brendaonao3]

This is your daily reminder that NO ONE asked anyone on this site or any other fandom site to be the goddamn fandom police.  If you don’t like a fic or if it has a trope that pisses you off or is “problematic”, there’s a back button or a block button you can use.  Hell, you can bitch about it to your friends or even on your blog.  But you do NOT get to attack the author.  These are real people you’re bullying.

(And yes, if you attack an author for writing something you don’t like or think has a “problematic” trope, you are a fucking bully, period. And if you ALLOW anyone to bully an author, or sit idly by while it happens, then you’re part of the problem, no exceptions.)

[snapedefense]

me: i kinda like *insert morally grey character*

fandom purity police, 0.293 seconds later: