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2 types of men

I’m coming to the conclusion that they are two types of men in this world.

The first man is toxic and always thinking about self. This person will never own up to his word and cry when he doesn’t get his way . Being in a relationship with this person will drain you .

The second man is one that is always thinking about others. He puts his needs to the side to help someone else.

Its your choices on which man you want to give your time with .

You wisdom sis ❤️

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Physical, Mental and Emotion

Most people don’t know how important all three are when taking someone seriously . The physical connections brings on a lot of confusion on value and what it means to be seen by your person. For me I love them both but when it comes down to it , I would rather want someone who wants to hear my thoughts, without feeling attacked. Throughout the years have always gotten the physical attention but never someone the mental or even emotional connection. Ive ran into a lot of people who had their guard up , so they won’t get hurt & I just stay in hopes that they would change. & maybe they will change something is still what I hope for but not at the cost of my mental health & emotional help. TOOOOOOO many people think will I rub her butt , give her great sex is enough for a women &&&& its not . There are so many other parts that goes with being a great spouse/ partner . Like listen to your person feelings & actually giving it thought on what they’re saying . Yes, I understand that you may not always agree but there is nothing wrong with just listening . Being emotional available is a huge one. If you want sex thats cool , but if not be sure that you’re being open about how your feeling without tearing each other down & be honest . & i’m not talking about that brutal honest either . Be gentle l with each others feelings &&& I am sure that things can turn around.

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Someone is who is sure that they want to be with me & not just based off their feelings or a need that they may want fulfilled . Someone who understand that it has to be deeper than love that keeps us together . Someone who will love how I love God and not try to fight me on him but would join me , in worshipping him. Someone who is liked minded. Someone who knows how to talk to me when he is mad. Someone who sees me and isn’t threatened by my growth , mindset , and gifts. Someone who just truly knows I’m flawed .

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Here’s to not giving up on yourself and the voice/ call God has for your life.I can’t believe how much I have changed already. God has given me gifts in music & i am extremely grateful. I feel like something grand is going 2 happen && im just asking God to remove any assignment the devil would have to cancel Gods plans for me life.

A prayer -

God i come to you asking for forgiveness . I see the behavior & habits that need worked on , and I thank you now for helping me working on it through Holy Spirit. I ask that whatever spiritual delay would be no more in Jesus name. That everything for my life will go has God planned. I thank you God for knowing all things , begin the ruler for all things . Thank you for your favor that you have given me . I pray that obedience will be a fountain for me right now. That I will depend on your wisdom to guide me through this journey. I thank you for newness, grace, hope, kindness, love, joy, peace, and growth in the things of you has will in the natural . I thank you Christ that no weapon that form against my future will prosper

In Jesus Name

Amen

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May you understand that you are capable to change . Don’t be so hard on yourself for the mistakes you’ve made. Make ever effect to change and stay the course. I’m sorry that there isn’t a blueprint on how to live right, trust people, and just walk in a carefree state all the time. I’m sorry for those hard days but remind that the sun comes out tomorrow .. Walk in humility, forgiveness ness, grace and peace . May this day be a mark of your growth and your willingness to admit that you don’t have it all together but you’re not giving up on yourself.