Ideas for Supporting Your AB/DL Partner
Not into diapers or ageplay yourself, but want to make your AB/DL partner happy? Here are a few simple things you can try!
Pick out an outfit for them at bedtime so when they wake up they have to wear whatever you’ve chosen.
Use special terms of endearment. Ask what names they prefer, or simply experiment! Sometimes even a simple “good boy”, or “good baby” can make them melt.
Instead of letting them wear their special clothes or diapers whenever they want, set up a rule that they need to ask you first. It’s simple and quick - and it’s pretty fun to watch them blush and stammer trying to ask if they can put on a diaper!
Pick out a special “Little” item for them to wear. Like number one above, but this time add a onesie or diaper.
Ask them if they need to go potty - anytime, anywhere.
Casually put their pacifier in their mouth when they’re working or gaming or watching TV.
Cut up their food for them at meals.
Order for them at restaurants. Doesn’t have to be anything super childish - just that act alone can make them blush!
If your partner is padded up, give them plenty to drink. Remind them that you really wouldn’t want them to get dehydrated. Bonus points if you’re out in public and order them a giant beverage!
Pat their bum. If they’re padded, watch them melt and squirm at the sound of their own diaper. If they’re not, tease them about how strange it feels when that padding is missing!
Deliberately walk down the baby aisle with them while shopping. You don’t need to buy anything, but bonus points if you go slow and start examining the baby foods (or better yet, the diapers!).
Refer to underwear as “big boy/girl/kid pants.”
Ask if they need a sippy cup or bib if they ever happen to spill something while eating.
Get a warm washcloth and wipe their face with it after eating - even if they’re perfectly clean. Watch them melt!
Stop by the swings at the park, and if they’re empty, try them out. Heck, you’ll probably enjoy this one too!
Pat and stroke their head, especially if they like to ageplay. Littles are often very sensitive to touch when regressing, so that sensation combined with the caring and condescension it implies will likely bring them a lot of pleasure.
Give them a padded weekend; simply replace the underwear in their drawer with diapers. (Or even make them do it themselves!) Tell them they’ll get their underwear back once they’ve used those up.
Remind them how cute they are. Many age players can be intensely embarrassed of their appearance when wearing baby things, so communicating that you find them attractive can mean the world.
Encourage them to “use their words” when talking about what they want. Don’t expect them to wax eloquent on what they’re craving, though; it’s often embarrassing and hard to articulate these things. Be patient and listen.
Try talking to them in an enthusiastic, bright tone - just like you might talk to a three-year-old - and see if they like it.
Let them show you love in return. Maybe they’ll be embarrassed, or turned on, or both - but above all they’ll love you and be grateful for your acceptance. So if and when they try to return the favor by doing things for you, let them.
This is just a starter list, so feel free to add more in the comments! 😊
