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Shiny, I just started a new job and now have a beautiful blonde co-worker will long legs and large breasts. She likes to walk around and get all the male co-workers stirred-up. I don't look at her legs or cleavage and I think she is getting frustrated with me. What should I do?
You are doing wonderful. Soon she’ll get from “frustrated” to “being just comfortable” with you. Don’t worry.
Your goal is to get friend-zoned. Always keep that in mind. Blonde, long legs, large breasts. I’m sure that pretty soon, she’ll find some lousy, primitive male who only cares about these things, to fuck her badly. You want that.
Don’t worry. Just be comfortable around her. Not noticing her legs, or cleavage is only helping you towards that direction. Good luck.
And don’t forget to tell us how it goes.
You often speak about Icons and that I as a modern-male have to worship them and not only physically, but also what they stand for and their opinions. But what if two Women/Icons whom I both adore are in conflict or have opposing opinions. For example Taylor Swift and Katy Perry, who are feuding? Do I have to pick a side? Do I have to agree with both, even when they are criticizing each other? That seems a bit too complicated for my limited mind to handle. Please assist me in finding a way.
Listen, sweety.
When you see two mega-stars like the ones you mentioned, feuding, there is only one incredibly important thing for you to master. An awfully important aspect of your character that you should learn to bring to the surface when needed.
An aspect of your character that should come to you naturally in such cases:
not to have an opinion.
Listen, sweety. When two Goddesses like Katy Perry and Taylor Swift are in conflict that means they have two opposing opinions. But look at them again. Can you pick one’s opinion over the other’s?
You think you HAVE to?
Well, you DON’T, sweety.
You can listen, read, gossip about these opinions of them, but apart from it, there is one more thing that you should learn to experience:
The pure bliss of not having an opinion of your own.
The complete lack of judgment from your part.
It may sound weird at first, since all people have opinions, but in time you will have to get used to it. All you need is just to feel comfortable with yourself not having an opinion of your own. At all. Pay attention though: not having an opinion of your own, not because you don’t care about the conflict. But because you are in no position to judge two idols like them. What you need to achieve this is one thing and one thing only:
To accept that you are no one compared to them.
You may find yourself trying to pick a side, but remember: every time you do that, all you have to do is go instantly blank and just try to think of them as two icons that talk about things that are bigger than you. Try to go instantly blank and convince yourself that the things they are talking about are bigger than you. Simple as that. Just convince yourself that they are things that you are in no position to understand. That you are in no position to understand what Katy and Taylor are even talking about.
If you find it difficult to do that:
“Just try and think of yourself as being hypnotized.”
Hypnotized. Remember that.
The power of pop culture is immeasurable. If you let yourself be open to the waves of extreme idolization that society wants to unleash upon you, then you will have no way to judge either of them. Society wants to subconsciously make you a loyal follower of both of them. Either way. You already know that. You are constantly being bombarded with photos, news, interviews, gossip of both Katy and Taylor. All you have to do is let go. Let go of any kind of logical reasoning that operates inside you and everything will become clear. All you have to do is just try and let go of your reasoning abilities. That’s all you have to do. Let go of the burden to have an opinion and judge either of them.
Of the burden to have to argue in favor of the one over the other, when you can instead listen to the news about their conflict and have no idea what is that they are fighting over.
When you can just look at them and feel free to express your awe about their bodies, their dresses, their hair, their legs, their music. About everything regarding those two. When you can just daydream about them without having to pick a side. When you can just experience the hypnotizing feeling of admiring a celebrity so much, that all you care about is to how to show your absolute adoration for every inch of her body.
What do you say? Can you do this?
Shiny, masturbate watching "the thing about curves" envying all those wonderful hairs, pretty makeup, cute nails and big tits is a modern attitude?
Absolutely, sweety.
Re-adjusting your brain to envy such women instead of looking to fuck them, helps you improve your relationship with women and enables you to operate in an environment that, as a male, you would never be able to.
Look at this for example.
Let’s say that she is your manager and you are her subordinate.
What would you do?
Would you stare at her tits like a filthy animal, daydreaming about fucking them?
Or you would rather admire your manager for her looks and feel a tiny bit envy for her luck to have and display such a full cleavage?
Don’t think about it, dear.
Envy, admiration and awe are the appropriate feelings for a modern man to experience when he sees an attractive woman. You are not an ape. You acknowledge that a sexy woman is a thing of beauty and there is nothing wrong in expressing that.
This is after all, the idea behind that page.
How do you feel about that whole Amber Heard divorce thing? As a modern male the position I have should be pretty clear right? Amber is right. In every possible way. And even if the accusations she made are false, I can't help but admire her even more for being so driven and so determined to get what's hers. I find that kind of leadership and uncompromising will exciting in a Woman. All of this could have been prevented if Amber got what she wanted right away, That's a good lesson for males.
Listen, sweety.
When you are trying to pick a side when there’s a conflict like this, between a man and a woman, always try to presume which side the average man would pick.
9.5 out of 10 times the average man would pick the man’s side. No matter the inputs, no matter the information, no matter what, the average man would still empathize with the male that is to be judged.
There’s a number of reasons behind that fact, the most prevalent of which, is the socially constructed idea that was being put to people’s brains -until recently - that of male solidarity. The force that has been uniting men for ages. Would you ever see a feminine counterpart to that perception? No. Why? Because patriarchal society of the past centuries would never allow women to unite. The reason behind that is obvious. We will not discuss it extensively right now.
What is important here is to keep the fact that the vast majority of men would stand up for the male. And since men would stand up for the male that means society would stand up for the male. It has been done in the past for centuries. Society would be biased against the female and in favor of the male.
Although it is also a fact that society today is heading towards the opposite direction.
The female’s side is gradually becoming the “average person’s” side. This happens as the “average person” is gradually taking the shape of a woman instead of a man. The woman’s view of things is gradually becoming the default view of things.
Now you, as a modern man, are not thinking like the average male. You are way more modern than that.
There is no such thing for you as male solidarity. You are not afraid to be mentally attached to the female instead of the male. You feel no internal need to stand up for another male. Instead, you have a subconscious need to stand up for the female. You feel a little bit closer to her. And all this because you are not a typical male anymore. Male solidarity is a concept from which you are moving away.
Take a good look at the two of them.
With whom you feel closer to?
I’m sure you understand that I’m not talking about you.
You have explained perfectly the whole situation.
Amber is a modern woman who makes a serious accusation of abuse from her famous husband. There should be no cell of any modern man’s body, not being 100% by her side. Not fighting for her right to win this.
And let me explain:
People picking one side over the other in such situations, where we do not know who is right and who is wrong, eventually pick the one in favor of which are unconsciously biased. What follows is a certain amount of guilt: “was I right? was I wrong?” Just as in your case. Despite the fact that you made a perfect argument about whose side we should choose, later you asked: “Our position should be pretty clear, right?”
Well, in our case that guilt is exactly what HAS to be fought.
Of course you are right, sweety.
As a modern man,
you should have no guilt whatsoever for being biased in favor of Amber.
As you explained perfectly, even if the accusations she made are false (which are not - see? biased), she still has to be admired for being driven and determined. There should be no guilt about being prejudiced. You are a modern man and you are biased in favor of Amber. It should happen naturally.
Between the two, you know who is the idol.
We have to say here that it is not forbidden for someone to feel sympathy for Johnny on the grounds that he may be right.
But as a modern man he should counter-argue how easier it would have been for everyone if he could just have accepted his place and obey her every command. Wouldn’t it be easier for everyone if they had made the agreement that SHE is now in control and that he can now live by HER rules?
Of course it would.
And that way, Johnny would have been a happily-married, successful super-star living under the rules of his superior, instead of putting his name next to sad accusations of her cheating on him with Cara or her ex. He could and he should, have chosen to serve those women and keep his name intact.
It is truly a pity that it didn’t work out between those two but, as you said, it is a good lesson for males.
Hello, I am a male nurse and have been bff with a female surgical resident for 2 years now. She lives in my home, actually I live in the basement and she has the rest of the place, I keep her house, run her errands and make sure she is free to become a successful doctor. She is perceived by many to be a self absorbed bitch, but I actually see her as my Goddess. I have argued with many I work with that she is not mean just superior to the point I have been ostracized at work. Am I doing well?
Listen where is your mistake, sweety.
Apart from the fact that it is amazing that you have found such a Goddess with whom you have a wonderful relationship, you are making very important mistake on which you should focus:
You are trying to present her as "not mean.”
SO YOU HAVE TO ASK YOURSELF:
What is the REAL problem if she REALLY is mean?
Where is the REAL problem if she REALLY is self absorbed?
Let me:
NOWHERE.
“There is NO PROBLEM if she really is a self absorbed bitch who doesn’t give a fuck about anyone.”
Sweety, you should be aware of that.
Your problem is that you are trying to prove to everyone that she is NOT a bitch, while what you should really do is to start advertising every other quality she has APART FROM HER KINDNESS.
If she is a good student, advertise that. If she is smart, or anything else then advertise THAT. Do not advertise her kindness! You don’t need to! She doesn’t need to be kind. Or nice. From what I hear, she is a Goddess. A Queen. Well, that is how she is to be treated. And seen by others. She doesn’t need to be seen as a nice person. Is it bad?
Well, you should NOT care!
You should advertise everything else about her, EXCEPT for her being “a nice person.” That way you will simply help people see her as a brilliant, self absorbed bitch. You should have no problem with that. You should WANT people to see her like that! Doing so, people will gradually respect her for her profession or her abilities and they will subconsciously accept the fact that she’s “really a good doctor” despite her character.
As for you, people will know that you are the only person who admires, worships and eventually serves such a bad person. I hope you don’t have a problem with that. In fact, I hope that you gradually start being proud of that. Actually, I really hope that you grow a need to serve such a bad person. You will see how rewarding it will be to be a bad person’s servant. This is when you will see clearly your mistake of trying to change people’s opinions of her, instead of your attitude towards that idea.
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