Minecraft Management for Parents (updated!)
Hereâs a âcheat sheetâ that I often give out to the parents of children who attend a camp. You might find some of it useful! Normally, we suggest no more than 90 minutes of screen time a day so it might take some careful planning on your childs part to make sure they complete their personal projects in a timely manner!
1. Be involved! Kids need parents to help them develop good judgment and critical thinking skills. Many parents âabdicateâ because they are too busy or may want to avoid confrontations. Being involved means making an effort to take the time to learn about the your computer and the game (Minecraft)â it is essential!
2. Learn the language. It is common now to use acronyms as shorthand, or refer to in-game commands, for example AFK or BRB: which means âaway from keyboardâ and âbe right backâ. Read our MCKids âcheat sheetsâ that your child may have, to help you decipher it all.
3. When it comes to gifts like laptops remind your children of their privilege of use, not ownership. You have paid for the devices and you pay for Internet service, so the use of these should not be argued.
4. Decide on a family Internet and computer use contract/agreement. This will help everyone (including adults) clearly understand what are acceptable limits/uses.
5. Be AS engaged as your child is! Ask them about what they have built, who they were playing with, and what sorts of goals they may have. But, let your child know you reserve the right to monitor their activity. Let them know that you are able to trace website visits, message content, track their timing on a game (just ask Momibelle and she can give you an idea of ONTIME on our private servers). MOST IMPORTANTLY check-up on how they are chatting with everyone. Ask them to press the âTâ key to view all conversations. Just letting them know that you can do this, often makes them think carefully about sticking to our Code of Conduct.
6. Restrict gaming and online activity after a certain hour at night. The easiest way to achieve this is to simply unplug your wireless router at that time. That way it applies to everyone in the household. No discrimination, and you are setting a good example yourself.
7. You can start lifting restrictions and time allowances as your child gets older and when they demonstrate that they are learning and building healthy on-line skills.Â
8. Kids WILL interact with âstrangersâ on public servers (but not on our private servers) and while this is not necessarily a bad thing, parents need to be there to help their children understand and navigate this new social playground. Thatâs why Momibelle does NOT recommend allowing your young child (under 10 yrs) on public servers UNLESS you are playing alongside them. This can be a fun way to learn the game, and learn more about your child!
9. If you become aware of inappropriate behaviour towards your child on a public server, take a screenshot, then log off and make a report to the server owner. If something upsetting occurs on one of our MCKids private servers take note of what, and when it happened, then contact Momibelle immediately!
10.A few other things to share with your child about gaming and their online activities:
âą NEVER pay for in-game items or privileges such as âRanksâ on public servers: this is against the Mojang End User License Agreement (itâs illegal!).
âą Tell your child to tell you about messages in chat they may have received that make them feel uncomfortable. Donât disregard their reaction to online situations as âchildâs playâ. Take your child seriously, and come up with a âgame-planâ to avoid and/or resolve conflict or misunderstandings. Do NOT toggle off their ability to reply in chat!
âą Children 13+ who want to use Discord to talk with friends should use their Minecraft username as their ID. Parents should monitor conversations until they feel they can âtrustâ their daughter/son to make the right choices while chatting with their friends.










