Things You Can Do With and For Your Little Boy
-Wake him up for school/work/breakfast (Waking up to Mommy kisses is better than waking up to a noisy jump out of your skin alarm clock).
-Know his health problems, issues and allergies.
-Make sure he takes his medicine.
-Draw him a bubble bath, lots of bubbles. LOTS of bubbles.
-Help him with any studying or classwork he may have. Midterms and finals suck.
-Set up a rewards system with stickers or fake money to “cash in” for special things or an outing.
-Know his favorite characters and cartoons. (This includes Pokemon!)
-Watch said favorite cartoons with him.
-Let him crawl in your lap and snuggle.
-Snuggle him any and everywhere you can.
-Build a blanket fort with him.
-Print out coloring pages/ buy coloring books for him (Littles need variety!)
-Talk to him. Ask him about his feelings, his day, all that.
-Lay out his clothes for him.
-Set up a bedtime that you BOTH can adhere to, no little should be going to bed alone if it’s preventable.
-Let him know that he can wake you up anytime during the night whether he can’t sleep, has a nightmare or just wakes up earlier than you.
-Let him cry. It doesn’t matter if you don’t always understand his feelings and emotions, it matters that you be there for him when he needs it.
-Spray his pillow with your perfume while you’re gone for the day.
-Make/pack his lunch how he likes it so he eats well when you’re working/adulting.
-Pick him up. Littles love rides!
- Know his stuffies, his blankies and his binkies.
-Keep his sippies clean and full.
-Make him a physical little space where he can burrow up in when he’s in his mental little space. (under the table with pillows and stuffies, in the corner or a whole bedroom decorated in things he likes)
-Keep him company when he’s sick. Watch his favorite movie with him and make him soup with fun shapes.
-Let them be little! The world is hard on everyone. He comes to you for refuge. Remind him why he picked you to be her Mommy out of all the other Mommies in the world.
-Love him. Whether he is whiny, bratty, or downright all out bitchy. Love him. He loves you when you’re the same way. Yes, Mommies can be bitches.
As you can see, there are plenty of things to do with your little boy that doesn’t require sex. Being intimate with your little is important, but sex isn’t the only intimacy out there.
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