Uncool and Loving It

I'm Mono; I have Drarry brainrot and make it everyone's problem

[basiatlu]

Rocker/Punks au

[basiatlu]

[mono-chromia]

y'all ever have such a terrible night before an early shift you have to call in sick or am i just burnt out

[toorumlk]

gryffindor class of ‘98!

[glumby]

truly a tragedy . ..

[capacity2]

If I hear “I’m a people pleaser” one more time. Whole time they’re a people agitator. A people disappointer. A people exhauster.

[voidal-respite]

…

i try to please people… but i don't think i can ever make everyone happy.

but how else can i define my self worth, if not through making others happy?

[duncebento]

see how that was exhausting

[theineated]

Thought experiment to all the "people pleasers": imagine you find out everyone who calls themselves your friend is just with you out of pity and gets no enjoyment from it. You are doing the exact same shit but call it a pretty name

[crossfader-of-gender-deactivate]

Can you explain? I do this shit and I'm trying to figure it out but I don't get this one exactly.

[theineated]

I think it's best explained with the real life exaple of why I feel strongly about people pleasers. My experience with a people pleaser was that she kept hanging out with me despite not enjoying my company to the point where she exploded, blamed me for her anxiety and broke the friendship. This all happened out of the blue despite me asking multiple times to tell me if she was ok with me talking about problems in my life with her (but not exclusively because of that). Because she was a people pleaser she did not establish any boundaries to ensure my comfort and I only found out it had been hurting her all the time when she reached her limit and exploded on me. I spent quite some time after that absolutely paranoid about all my friends actually being people pleasers who hated being with me but didn't know how to say no and to this day I sometimes have to seek reassurance that my friends actually enjoy whatever activity they're doing with me and are not just agreeing to keep me happy while slowly building up their hate towards me.

The healthiest thing you can do in a relationship is say no. If my friend at any point had said "I'd rather not talk about this topic" or "I would like to stop playing this game" there would have been no problem.

Even if it had not exploded on my face and caused me psychological issues, I want to live in a world in which my friends are happy for real, not pretending to be happy for my comfort. The idea that someone I care about could be lying and stepping over their own comfort "for my sake" feels horrible.

[cbc-bb-deactivated20250802]

reblog to give your mutuals a burned cd

[trappezoider]

Wanted to draw a third, a fourth and a fifth page for this but guess not :D Ran out of steam. But luckily you all have exquisite imagination!

[mono-chromia]

I threatened in the DCC server that i was gonna return to tumblr only to start using it like twitter and im here to put my money where my mouth is........

[aeshsar]

Yes panty shot

[mallstars]

Draco Malfoy returned to Hogwarts tall and tense and in love with Neville Longbottom.

Tags: Hogwarts Eighth Year, Enemies to Friends to Lovers, Neville Longbottom & Draco Malfoy Friendship, Minor Luna Lovegood/Ginny Weasley, Jealousy, wild swimming, a whole lot of wanking, bird-watching, possessive Harry Potter, bottom Draco Malfoy, service top Harry Potter, discussion of Imperius curse used for consensual kink, Fluff and Angst, Harry finds some much-needed peace, yule ball, horny Harry Potter, Happy Ending, Vibe: mostly sweet and mellow

Read In Deep Water on AO3

[rebelside]

But seriously do you ever think that all those who died in the battle of Hogwarts probably went on the chocolate frogs’ cards . And Teddy opening one before going on the train to Hogwarts and seeing his parents smiling at him, so they were actually there to see him off on his first year.

[sfiddy]

George never opens another chocolate frog.  Ever.

[beebox-illustrations]

Just tell him, dear.

[ronweasle-blog]

a post about the subtitles on my harry potter vcd

so i found my old vcd-copy of harry potter and the chamber of secrets and… i don’t know what’s more entertaining, the movie or the subtitles.

Keep reading

[donnovien]

Do you block people in the same fandom as you just because you don't like their takes?

[lazulisong]

Besties I am forty or fifty years old and if I can avoid being annoyed by a stranger on the internet it is my bounden duty to do so.

For one thing, I have a blood pressure. For another, it's too damn easy to spread your bad mood from being slightly annoyed by knowing someone has a stupid opinion of your blorbo around and nobody needs that.

Slow the heat death of the universe. Block people who have takes you don't like.

[basiatlu]

Hey!! I've been loving your responses to prompts lately - they're soooo good ‼️ i can't get enough~ Could you do some Golden Trio fluff for the warm up doodles maybe? Harry deserves all the hugs from his best friends🤞 thank youu ly byee (*^▽^)/★*☆♪

Group hug!!

I’m glad you’ve been enjoying them!! And yes Harry deserves all the hugs he wishes for, and maybe a few more he didn’t realize he needed.

Bonus baby Golden Trio:

[refinery29]

Hari Nef is helping to normalize transwomen’s bodies and identities in a really important way that if you’re cisgender you may not have thought about

Nef goes on to explain the difference between her photoshoot with Velencoso, versus how transgender women are typically photographed in fashion editorials. “Images of trans femmes being loved rarely exist outside of pornography,” Nef wrote. “We tend to be hyper-sexualized and objectified within the cisgender gaze. Either that or we’re dehumanized as scum or (just as bad) untouchable goddesses.”

Photos: Twitter/Hari Nef

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