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This is what it’s like when you get to the gates of heaven.
Lovely.
Not so much a question as more of a chance of full disclosure. You two have shared stories and explicit pictures of your Swinger's lifestyle. But isn't there also a little known darkside that Swinging isn't for everyone? Based on the number of couples that you two have met over the years, did they all make it to the other side of Happily ever After as you two have? Or should there be a few caution flags before the younger couple/fans out there explore this lifestyle. Your thoughts? Thank You.
I have been very open with the fact that the situation with M and I is very different from your typical “swinger’s lifestyle.” We have never been to a swinger party, or a swing club. We never really considered ourselves “swingers.”
Years ago I used to share pictures of M on another website (Voyeurweb). I’ve always enjoyed photography and with the advent of digital photography I became enthralled with photographing my wife nude. I also enjoyed sharing those photos with others who are interested in seeing them. I met a guy who had a stunning wife with the most perfect ass (my opinion) I had ever seen. I’m an ass man, so we chatted it up a bit on the bulletin boards at the Voyeurweb pay site (RedClouds). We would run threads with pics of our wives and talk about how hot it would be to see the two of them together. Eventually we got the two of them involved in the online fantasy. About 6 months on down the line the girls had become good friends, chatting online and texting each other almost every day. We all decided to meet up in New Orleans, party together, and see what happens. We really didn’t know what to expect but we talked over every scenario we could think of. I was more than fine with anything that went down between the two girls. My reservation came only with the husband. I told M that, if I did not like the guy, I sure as hell would not share her with him.
Well, in the end we all hit it off and the whole weekend was almost non stop 4-way sex. It was amazing! At this point M and I were more than happy with what went down, and we were content to leave it at that. We pretty much lived all of our fantasies that weekend. We knew then and there it would never be better than that.
A few months later we met with them again, and again we had the time of our lives. This time we got together at a hotel on the beach in Alabama, spent a couple of days renting a boat and enjoying the Inter-coastal, having sex on various beaches, and taking lots of photos. Then we spent a few days with them at their home.
Over the next few months we had the pleasure of meeting several other couples from VW/RC. We would take pictures of our wives together and sometimes the girls would fool around, but there was no swapping or swinging. We were good with that because, as I said, we’d already pretty much had all of our fantasies come true.
It was a good year later when we finally had the opportunity to do something else that I had fantasized about…see her with a single guy. I just really wanted to watch her have sex and not be involved at all (other than photographing it). That was a pretty amazing experience as well. It happened on her 40th birthday, and was planned almost the same way as our meet up with the other couple (through the RedClouds BB).
Over the next few months we met more couples from RC and she continued to have fun with various females while I enjoyed photographing them. She did become involved with another couple, but I was not attracted to the wife, and that caused some jealousy so we stopped hanging out with them.
There was another couple that we met up with and things were pretty hot, but there was a point where we were all involved and I stepped back to catch a breather and enjoy watching for a bit. The wife got mad, because I was no longer giving her attention, and she literally punched her husband in the ribs. Needless to say we stopped any sexual activity with them as well.
There have been other situations, both good and bad, where we have connected with couples from RC, but in the end we just felt that there was too much negativity around the whole scene. A lot of couples were just trying it out, and there is too much uncertainty in that scenario.
We have seen several of these couples separate and divorce, but it is not necessarily because of the swinging. Some run into financial trouble. Some have abuse issues. Just like any other marriage there are obstacles and issues. We are still very close friends with a couple that are active swingers and they are still very much in love and have a VERY strong relationship. In fact, they are probably the ONLY couple we will ever consider doing anything with in the future, because of that. We all enjoy each others’ company and get along great. Unfortunately, they live on the East coast so we don’t really get to see them. It has been about a year and a half since we hung out with them.
Anyway, to sum up this long read… I wouldn’t say there is a “dark side” to the lifestyle. Monogamous relationships fail too. What I would caution anyone considering it is to discuss ALL possible scenarios beforehand and be explicit with what you are comfortable with or not comfortable with. Set boundaries and be prepared to change those boundaries as you go. TALK. Be open! And if there is the slightest bit of jealousy (on either side), GET OUT!
Well put. Honest and open communication in all types of relationships is the key to longevity. It doesn't matter if they share or not it matters if they are in it together and have a strong relationship and aren't trying to replace something with their own interaction.
Valentine’s Visit to a Sex Club
Work had taken me to Las Vegas for the weekend preceding Valentine’s Day, so I made plans in advance to fly Noelle down to join me so we could spend our first Valentine’s Day together. We networked with some of my work peers at the Skyfall Lounge on the 64th Floor of the Delano Hotel. Noelle was dressed to impress, her blonde hair in stark contrast to the black romper I had bought for her birthday. She was meeting many of my friends for the first-time, since we all hailed from different cities or origin. You couldn’t wipe the smile from her face. She was rubbing elbows with luminaries in my industry, and all eyes were on her as she drank champagne and looked out at Vegas strip at dusk.
We made our apologies and our way to Mario Batali’s steakhouse, Carne Vino. The valet that opened our door watched as Noelle stepped into the taxi, then looked at me and said “You’ve already won tonight.” I smiled, said “Yes I have”, and gave him a fist bump.
They had made a mistake on our reservation, so they seated us in the wine cellar. I ordered a bottle of 2011 Silver Oak Napa Cabernet, and we dined on a decadent dinner of octopus, lobster and steak. No time to linger though, as we slipped away to the 9:30pm showing of Le Réve at the Wynn.
Noelle had never been to a Vegas show before. I think we’ve established that Noelle is absolutely sex positive, with exhibitionist and voyeuristic interests, so watching lithe bodies turn and twist and dive into the water stoked her libido.
We walked out, not really knowing what the plan would be from there. We found a taxi and hopped in. I knew that we weren’t that tired, and after visiting a strip club the night before, I knew that Noelle would like to try something a little different. I had heard about a famous sex club called “The Green Door” from a peer that was in town, so I told the taxi driver to take us there.
We paid the cover charge, affixed the necessary green bracelet, and made our way through the club. A little after 11:30pm, the club was woefully quiet. We walked through many empty rooms, finding only two other couples sitting and talking in a large room upstairs with a stripper pole. Noelle and I decided to go next door and grab a drink or two to give us a little more courage and others time to populate the club.
When we came back, Noelle was buzzed and happy. She mentioned that she wanted to dance on a pole, so I encouraged her to do so. “What do I do? How do I start?” she asked me. I told her to take off her romper. She turned and I unclasped it at the nape of her neck, then held the shoulders as she stepped out of it. She was naked except for her thong, and she skipped eagerly to the stage. Noelle danced, I sat and took a seat in front of the stage. As couples came in, they tended to stall and watch Noelle dance, whispering in each other’s ears, looking longingly at her tight body in motion.
Noelle got a little overwhelmed by the attention, so she retreated off stage and we made our way upstairs, to the large room with another pole where we had seen the only couples earlier. A black couple in white robes stopped and said they were going to the hot tub, but they wanted to smoke first. I said “Smoke what?” optimistically, and when they said “weed” I told Jill to dance her heart out and I’d be right back. I smoked a fat joint with the black couple in their car then went back upstairs to find Noelle. She was still on the stage upstairs, only now it seemed like there were 20+ people watching her. She was in her element, so I started to wonder through other rooms, when I saw my pot-smoking black friends.
She was skinny and gangly like a model, so she looked like a pile of arms and legs suspended in a sex swing. Her man had his face buried in her pussy, and the room that they were in had windows on three sides so others could watch. I went and pulled Noelle off the pole and told her to look through one of these windows. When she saw what was happening, she asked if she could go in. I grabbed her by the hand and lead her into the room. The black girl (let’s call her Katie) was getting out of the swing, and asked Noelle if she wanted to try it. Noelle nodded her head tightly, and was about to get in the swing when I told her to remove her panties. She did, and Katie helped get her comfortably suspended in the sex swing, then went in search of some lube. Not wanting there to be a delay, I got to my knees and put my mouth on her pussy, licking her from bow to stern for a few passes, ensuring lubrication wouldn’t be a concern. The black couple encourage me to stay down there, but I told Katie that I thought Noelle might more appreciate her attention.
Katie knelt in front of Noelle, between her suspended legs, and started to play with her pussy. A significant crowd had gathered at each window, but Noelle was oblivious. Katie’s delicate black fingers were strumming Noelle’s clit, and Noelle had her head arched back in ecstasy. I told Katie she might want to slow down, as I knew Noelle was likely to orgasm quickly at the current pace. Katie leaned in and put her mouth on Noelle, and Noelle’s body stretched and clenched into full orgasm, each limb stretching and pulsing as she came.
Noelle opened her eyes, only now realizing how many people had been watching her naked body fully suspended and in full orgasm. I went to her side and helped her out of the swing, and eventually, back into her romper. We walked through the club one last time, this time to the sight of many couples in some form of coitus. When they saw us, they would smile and nod at Noelle in appreciation for her demonstration.
This was our first dip into a new dimension of our sex life. We didn’t even know the name of the black girl that went down on Noelle that night, and we don’t care. She could be a sex fairy for all we know, our guide into a new and exciting lifestyle for us.
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Perceived Cliques in the Lifestyle
(By Daniel) *Background: there was a question on Reddit about cliques in the lifestyle and how difficult or discouraging it is to navigate them. This is my modified response.*
We’ve been in the Dallas scene for about 4 years, and we’ve definitely noticed the “cliques”.
Clique IS the most appropriate word, despite its perceived severity. But, there really isn’t a lifestyle appropriate word that conveys a group of people who have found their comfort zone.
The way I understand the dynamics of people around here is best summarized by classifying people into several groups.
• The first group enjoys the club-party scene. Loud, thumping music, dim sexy lighting, bumping and grinding on the dance floor with people who may be open to bumping and grinding on the couches or back rooms later. Maybe a little bit of the drug culture, but not necessarily. Very “in the moment” experience driven.
• The next group is the large house party scene. Similar in nature to the clubs, but lower volumes on the music allows people to chat a little more, “get to know” each other. Hookups happen there, but they also facilitate info exchange for scheduled play dates with more private settings.
• Another group sticks with couples dates from websites. They hook-up once, or maybe a few times, and stay with that formula.
• And another, the high society, is comfortable with their hush hush soirées and being exclusive to their socio-economic class much like another, • the blue-to-red collar group that feels comfortable celebrating their heritage around a bonfire and collection of stripper poles.
And then there are pockets of people who try all of that, and meet one or two people from each group they like. However, the club isn’t really their scene. And house parties full people they aren’t really into is a little taxing. They’re somewhere between high society and prideful simplicity. They just, are… And they find others who “are” comfortably the same. They become friends much like anyone else has friends. They hangout, go to dinners/movies/sporting events/museums/top golf/etc with their friends. Sometimes hook-up, but there isn’t any pressure to. Those pockets of people, have just found “their” people and that’s what makes them most comfortable.
There is nothing wrong with any of these groups. They have their wonderful personalities in all of them. They have their fun just as much as the next group. Sometimes they can be a bit exclusive, but that’s only because they hope to maintain their harmony and safety.
Focus on having fun with your spouse, and the right people will take notice. That’s really the key. A happy couple is irresistible to other happy couples.
Well said.
We enjoy your openness to sex and your openness to sharing so much online. Are you looking for a few good partners that you meet again and again, or are you more interested in fucking as many men as you can find who are interested in your unique lifestyle situation? Basically are you looking for quality relationships or a large quantity of partners? Thanks
Quality relationships hands down.We look for people who we click with socially as well as sexually so we can continue to chat and hang out as friends and a few other reasons. We trust them more. A person who wants to stick around and get to know us probably isn’t a scum bag who will disrespect our rules and my husband. It also simply results in more sex. Instead of finding another compatible person, we just call up one of our special friends and if they’re available…. That might be why we only have had 2 single guys, 1 girl, and one couple. But we’re really happy with that. The people we’ve met have been amazing! We meet both the single guy and girl weekly. They’re really good friends now.I have nothing against people who do one night stands, we just wanted to take it carefully from the beginning. Make sure we had a good experience. Maybe on occasion one of us might have a one night stand but it’s not our goal and not who we really are. Both my husband and I only had sex with 1 other person before marriage. We’re pretty new to hooking up.
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Happy Shower Scenery Sunday! My Hot Wife is talking dirty to me and telling me how breathtakingly sexy @feistylittleleopard is and what she wants you to do to her in and out of the shower. She’s about to need plenty of towels ; )
So do I after reading that! 😍😍😍 Happy Shower Scenery Sunday 💦💦💦
Few pictures and gifs from last nights session.
Tonight’s fun begins.
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