-Stretches- It's been a while!
Hiya peeps, it's been a bit. To those still around, I do appreciate it super mucho. Life's been more-or less the same. I feel I'm in line to get Full-Time at work, so that's good. That would change A LOT for me. Much needed, for sure.
(THE FOLLOWING IS TO NO ONE IN PARTICULAR)
I'm just gonna flow startingggggg~ NOW: If you're going to be with someone, then be with them. Don't lead them on and don't stall because you want to play the field. I'm people don't mind a person that's not a virgin, or that's "experienced" in bed, but that doesn't mean they want to hang about while the other person finds out if that's what they really want. Also, if you're going to cheat on someone, then just fucking don't. Break up with them because it hurts so much less in the long run. If you're with someone, then try to understand that people have flaws. I'm pretty sure the chances of you finding your 100% match is never gonna happen. What will most likely happen is that you'll end up with someone you have a common interest with initially, but the longer you're with them the more you're able to see their flaws. If you're constantly looking outside of your relationship for a person to fill a gap that your current mate does not fill, then you'll cease to be happy. People are flawed. You're gonna bump heads haha, it's part of being with another person. Yin Yang is a good balance in relationship. You can dislike what your mate likes, but don't hold their source of enjoyment (unless harmful) against them. If you do, it'll begin to demoralize them, and then they will either shut you completely out, or hide things for fear of you being a bit of a dick. Make compromises. You're never gonna like 100% the same things, but give it a try? You may enjoy it, and if not, just say so. If there's enough communication between you, then it'll be understood. Speaking of communication, it's a really part of healthy relationships. I'm guilty of shutting down in arguments, especially if I feel I've done wrong. Don't be afraid to apologize. I feel a lot of the time that people are only looking out for themselves, so I tend to not like many, despite being trusting. (good judge of character. Those that I call friend have deserved the title). I am a people watcher. I hate when people take advantage of others. It's so stupid. People will say anything to get what they want. If a person has only been talking to you for a short amount of time, and they are just overly focused on your physical attraction, they most likely aren't a good person to talk with. Especially if you try to change the subject and they persist. They likely want into your jeans...or short...or w/e you're wearing. Don't let someone through so easily. You can tell if someone is a real friend with they way they talk to you. Surround yourself with positive people. If you feel like you're the only one talking when speaking with them, then they may be bad at talking, but chances are, they aren't really interested in YOU as a person. These thoughts were better put together when I was at work, but now that I'm off and typing them, they are all over the place. :) Anyway, I hope you enjoy my rambling. I"m off to bed. Work at 7 and it's already midnight. Until next time!~ ~Mouse Fox