Hi!
Welcome to my silly gross little blog. This is just going to be my space to explore my kinky side and really enjoy being more open about the things I desire in a relationship. I hope you enjoy it :)
Some things about me:
I am monogamous. This seems to be my biggest hurdle when it comes to finding a kinky partner haha. The overwhelming majority of people I’ve met that are into this stuff are some form of poly/non-monogamous. Which is great for them, it’s just not my thing.
I am a massively oral focused sub. Seriously, if I was in a relationship where the guy wanted to use my mouth 95% of the time we had sex, I would be in heaven. I adore men who love to face fuck and need to be orally worshipped 24/7. That’s the dream.
I hope to one day be in a relationship that has a sort of blanket cnc aspect to it. I love sadistic men, particularly those that get off on being sadistic in the actual sex acts. I love the thought of everything I do with a man being at least a little miserable for me. Being able to openly show that, and knowing it just turns him on even more is so liberating and attractive to me. When a man says my tears just turn him on, I fall in love with him a little more lol.
I love being degraded! Mean names being used as pet names in particular makes me happy.
I LOVE fat men!!! As the name of this blog implies lol, I adore fat men. There is genuinely nothing sexier to me than a Dom man with a huge belly making me service him however he desires. Especially when he’s super confident about it. There’s just something so powerful about a big Dom man that makes me want to worship him.
I really love men that are totally comfortable being kinda selfish in bed. At least on a surface level. Obviously, I’m enjoying it when a guy is being selfish so I’m definitely getting something out of it too. But I truly love it when a man is solely focused on his own pleasure. Often at the expense of my own. There is an ease to a man who is totally comfortable with being selfish that is wildly attractive to me. Doesn’t seem to be super common though.
I’m actually not that big on the whole bondage part of kink. It’s not a limit, but it doesn’t do a whole lot for me tbh. Being restrained for a bit might be fun, but the really intricate or extended stuff just isn’t my thing. I’m too impatient lol.
I also really like guys that can actually be nice sometimes and have real conversations with me. I may be super into being treated horribly, but there is a balance. Something serious has to have that to work imo.
And here is a non-exhaustive list of my limits:
Public stuff
Bathroom control
Video recording/pictures
Threesomes
Diapers
Diet control
Anything illegal obviously
And I guess that’s it for now! I’m hoping this will be a fun experience for me. If you have any questions, feel free to send them my way. I try to be an open book.
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