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I could really use some help and use a few reblogs if that isn't an issue I have surgery Thursday Nov 16 and need more of a cushion to insure I'll be okay healing up having a new pathway created to my bladder through my stomach. I'm scared and nervous and any help would be awesome. If I can help you lmk what I can do! Thank you all for your support
We Now have 30 Tee Shirt Designs! đą - Help Monet Recover with Getting A New Shirt!
https://www.bonfire.com/store/not-your-average-monet-1/
Let's see what I can't get fixed and done tomorrow! I noticed I didn't update the campaign note on some listings and will fix that tomorrow!
If you have a request please let me know!
đĽSurgery date is November 16thđĽ
Hoping to have enough money to not worry about rent for a month! We've had the two first customers love the quality of the shirts!đď¸đ
One day at time I'm getting what I need done with my doctor's appointments and getting ready for surgery. Hopefully soon I can focus on resting before like my doctors extremely "suggested" given the circumstances & then recovering! đđź
We still have lots of bookmarks I would love to sell all of soon! If you know any readers looking for a bookmark, send them over to my Instagram and see what we can't do to help! Instagram.com/NotYourAverageMonet
THANK YOU ALL FOR THE SUPPORT!
Disabled people should be allowed to exist in public. Yes, I mean all disabled people.
That includes people with tic disorders.
That includes people who smell âbadâ.
That includes people who canât help being loud.
That includes people who move âstrangelyâ.
That includes people with bulky mobility aids.
That includes people who drool.
That includes people who struggle with incontinence.
We all should get to exist, however that looks, and go out in public, use public transport, do activities outside our homes. And we should be allowed to do those things without being glared at or having ableist things said to us.
Please note this will also include disabled people who get highly distracted by sounds, are sensitive to smells and otherwise may not be compatible with the above through no fault of their own.
I need to keep reminding myself that not wanting to "push through" my pain and opting to rest instead never makes me a bad person
my advice for not going insane? try to do something every weekend. go to events, youâll love events. and not like just hang out with ur friends or go clubbing , no, make a day out of going to some local market by yourself or attend some strange convention event youâve never heard of. i cannot stress the importance of doing random events on a friday night or saturday or a sunday at r pm for mentally ill people especially if youâre depressed and have been searching for an anchor 2 tether yourself to. attend some events now
Used to do this a lot before I became physically disabled.
My mental health has definitely suffered.
This is why making all events accessible is important. We deserve to go places too, even if they are niche or strange. Our mental health matters as much as non-physically-disabled people's does.
The Other Half of the Social Model of Disability
Lots of people in fandom are aware of the Social Model of Disability, which is a direct contrast to the Medical Model of Disability. Problem is, most of those people only understand half of the Social Model.
If you don't know what I'm talking about, the "in a nutshell" version is that the medical model views disability as something that is broken and which needs to be fixed, and little or no consideration is given beyond trying to cure it (and little or no consideration is given to the needs and wishes of the person who has it). The social model of disability, on the other hand, says that the thing that disables a person is the way society treats them. So, for example, if someone is paralyzed and can't walk, what disables them from going places is buildings that are not wheelchair accessible. (Or possibly not being able to afford the right type of wheelchair.) Inaccessible spaces and support equipment you can't afford are choices society makes, not a problem with the disabled person.
People then take this to mean that the only problem with disability is the society that surrounds it, and therefore in some utopian future where capitalism is no more and neither is ableism or any other form of bigotry, all problems disabled people have will be solved.
Except that what I've just described is not actually what the social model of disability says. Or, rather, it's only half of what the social model of disability says.
The actual social model of disability begins with a distinction between impairments and disabilities. Impairments are parts of the body/brain that are nonstandard: for example, ears that do not hear (deafness), organs that don't work right (e.g. diabetes), limbs that don't work (paralysis), brain chemistry that causes distress (e.g. anxiety, depression), the list goes on. The impairment may or may not cause distress to the person who has it, depending on the type of impairment (how much pain it causes, etc.) and whether it's a lifelong thing they accept as part of themselves or something newly acquired that radically changes their life and prevents them from doing things they want to do.
And then you have the things that disable us, which are the social factors like "is there an accessible entrance," as described above.
If we ever do get a utopian world where everyone with a disability gets the support they need and all of society is designed to include people with disabilities, that doesn't mean the impairments go away. Life would be so much better for people with impairments, and it's worth working towards, but some impairments simply suck and would continue to suck no matter what.
Take my autism. A world where autism was accepted and supported would make my life so much easier ... and yet even then, my trouble sleeping and my tendency to hyperfixate on things that trigger my anxiety would still make my life worse. I don't want to be cured of my autism! That would change who I am on a fundamental level, and I like myself. My dream is not of a world where I am not autistic, but a world in which I am not penalized for being autistic and have the help I need. And even in that world, my autism will still sometimes cause me distress.
There are some impairments--conditions that come with chronic pain, chronic fatigue, etc.--where pretty much everyone with that impairment agrees that the ultimate goal is a cure. But nobody knows how long a cure will take to find (years? decades? centuries?), whereas focusing on the social things disabling you can lead to improvement in your daily life right now.
In conclusion: the social model of disability is very valuable, and much superior to the medical model on a number of levels. But: please don't forget that the social model makes a distinction between disability and impairments, and even if we reach every goal and get rid of all the social factors that disable people, some impairments will be fine and cause no distress to the people who have them, some will be a mixed bag, and some will still be major problems for the people who have them.
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