Something that is implied about orgasm denial that I don't often see talked about directly is that you, the denied, can't really know how intense it will be until after you've already given up that control.
What's the horniest you've ever been? The neediest? The most desperate? And how did you finally come down from that state? I'm willing to bet it was by cumming.
How would you feel if at your most needy and desperate you instead got an edge? What if, no matter how hard you tried, your ability to have that release was contingent on the whims of a sadist who just wants to see how far they can push you? What actually is your limit? And how much would you do or give up just for a shred of relief as you approach it?
The last question is a trick question, btw. By the time you're that far gone you would do or give up whatever you're told just to not cum. The constant thrumming pleasure of arousal is better than any orgasm and the real mind fuck is that you will eventually, genuinely, start to beg to be kept in that malleable fog forever ^.~
As you near the point of no return, orgasms shift from reward to punishment -- a reprieve from the endless pleasure of descent. You've experienced the draw of real helplessness and no momentary distraction can compare. The cruelest thing I could do to you now is release you.
they get it! that moment of denial, especially after a particularly intense journey to the edge, is *chef kiss*
