The Advice Blog

offering people a safe place to speak their minds. Anonymously ask questions for some advice, support, etc. Personal: dark-amethyst-skies.tumblr.com

[my-anon-advice]

So, me and my boyfriend decided to take a break today till the end of summer.. I'm pretty upset about and don't know how I'm gonna do it without talking to him for 2 months.. Any advice?

Can I first ask some questions to give you a better answer? How long have you been together? It would also be helpful to understand and know why you decided to be apart for summer? It doesn't seem mutual either taking into account your pretty bummed/upset about it. If I knew a little more I could offer you better advice. I'm trying to read his intentions which is really important but it's hard to do that with little detail about the story. Xoxo

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[my-anon-advice]

So.... At work last weekend I sucked my managers dick. We've been flirting since he's been there but I never thought it would go that far and now I'm not really sure what to do.

Well, first, you should really think about your intentions. Do you see him as a potential partner or just someone to mess around with? Once you find that out and are sure of it, see if they line up with his. Ask him about his intentions and just pay attention to red flags and warning signs. Establish boundaries. Good luck!!

[my-anon-advice]

Hi, so I have been feeling very sad lately me and my best friend are drifting apart and I don't have many friends. I try to hang out with the people she hangs out with but I dont think they like me at all. I just feel so useless and I feel so alone

That really is tough sweetie. I've been exactly where you're at. The best way out of it for me personally was I first had to become content and at ease with my situation. I reminded myself everyday of positive things and ruled out any negatives. I reminded myself that life is seasonal and it's about your experiences and journey rather than the destination, mostly. Once I accepted I was alone at the time and "yes, even though this really is hard to go through right now, I'm okay and I will benefit from this in some way(s)." Once I conquered that, everything was much easier and I gained more confidence to present and introduce myself to new people, in class, in bathroom lines, and etc. And eventually I met a cool friend or two :) these things take time. Who knows, sweetie, maybe your friends needed to be out of your life for an important reason or set of. Growth will always be a challenge but accept that and be at peace with that and enjoy life :) all will be good. Xoxo

[my-anon-advice]

So I really want to become a singer, but name isn't really exactly "star material" I guess and I wanted to make a Twitter/Instagram username. My name is Autumn so can anyone think of anything that goes with that??

I personally think autumns great and unique :-)

[wasthatnotsideblog]

just gonna say this: if someone has social anxiety and they ask you something akin to ‘are you mad at me’ or ‘do you hate me’, it isn’t because they don’t trust you, it’s because their brain literally tells them that all the time

it’s not a personal slight, it’s insecurity caused by mental illness

thanks

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I reblog this everytime I see it

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[artc-mnkys]

can someone message me and tell me what this is from please and thank ya

[headers--icons-deactivated20141]

yes omg what is this from??

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[petitegoose]

Too bad I love both.

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[my-anon-advice]

I need some advice on what to do, ive been with someone for a year and afew months at first it wasnt more then a friendship i was helping him through his depression then he got feelings for me and latched onto me baring in mind he is 11 years older then me, i dont know how this all happend but i did fall in love with him for a short wile and now i want to leeve but i know its going to be messy and i might even have to get serious people involved , any idea what to do?!

Oh wow!!! Can u give me a little more background information just so I know a little more detail and the seriousness of it all, that way I can come up with a wider solution? :-)

[my-anon-advice]

Hey! So I like this guy but I'm really shy around boys but I'm really comfortable around him. I only get to see him once a week for 2 hours for an out of school class thing because we go to different schools, but we message each other every day. Until midnight, every night. I'm becoming really attached to him. D: He went on a trip to Sydney today for Footy with his team and kept messaging me the whole time. I've invited him out twice but circumstances made it difficult both times. What do I do?

Well I think it's evident he has the same feelings :-) so just rock watchya got and keep trying to make time for him and let him know how you feel :-)