reality is my bitch

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𝒘𝒆𝒍𝒄𝒐𝒎𝒆 𝒕𝒐 𝒎𝒚 𝒑𝒐𝒕 𝒐𝒇 𝒔𝒕𝒆𝒘

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𝐧𝐨𝐭𝐢𝐜𝐞

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[this was actually written on a previous post, but I've decided to put it on the blog intro just in case.]

I've been inactive on tumblr for a bit too long lately, so, i suppose everyone deserves a proper explanation for it. I'll admit i haven't exactly been in the best headspace in the past year. ever since the last quarter of senior high, I've been declining with nearly everything i used to enjoy. now, with college happening, the pressure's increased. i haven't gotten around to fully focusing on shifting alone, which is a reason why i haven't been as active with tumblr as i had in 2021. there's other things in my CR i still need and want to focus on and set right. some people might be exasperated with me for being sporadic with updates. believe me, I'm irritated with myself as well. so, I'm putting this out here to say that i do plan on finishing all the drafts that i have piled up, eventually—but i have no guarantees as to when exactly i would be able to do them. [and if you've sent in a message that you've been waiting for a reply to since last year, i just want to say that i really am fucking sorry for not getting to it faster.] this was also just a reminder that no, this blog is not dead, just inconsistent. and no, I'm not putting it away any time soon, but it won't be a priority for me—not right now. that's it. stay safe, lovelies, and happy shifting ❤️❤️

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𝐢𝐧𝐭𝐫𝐨

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hello there! this is a reality shifting blog—more focused on answering asks. feel free to send in anything you'd like; whether it's a story, a question, or a simple message.

this account is purely for asks and submissions. if you want to ask about and/or see information on my DR's, go to @i-left-my-room-tidy!

as the blog title and my username suggest you have your reality, you have your rules, and your world is ʏᴏᴜʀ bitch—no matter how bad things seem to be. i encourage you call to live the life you want—so long as you don't compromise others' wellbeing(s) in comfort of your own.

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𝐩𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐨𝐧𝐚𝐥 𝐢𝐧𝐟𝐨

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ɴᴀᴍᴇ: ʏᴏᴜ ᴄᴀɴ ᴄᴀʟʟ ᴍᴇ ʟᴇɪɢʜ ᴏʀ ᴇꜱᴛʜᴇʀ.

ᴘʀᴇꜱᴇɴᴛ ᴅʀ'ꜱ:

ʜᴀʀʀʏ ᴘᴏᴛᴛᴇʀ

ɴᴀʀᴜᴛᴏ

ꜱʜɪꜰᴛᴇᴅ: ʏᴇꜱ

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𝐚𝐬𝐤 𝐫𝐮𝐥𝐞𝐬

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be specific in your request

please, i mean this. i hold no ill will against the messages i receive in my inbox, as i did mention that it's quite the free-for-all—whether it's a story, a question, or whatnot. all i ask is that you be clear about what you want. one of the main reasons i take such a long time with my posting intervals is because I've been so stuck at trying to figure out what some people need.

so, if it's advice that you're looking for, please remember to tell me what you want, so i know how to help you.

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comfort or solutions?

this is for those who have stories to share, or challenges they need aid with. do you need emotional support, a shoulder to lean on for the moment? or would you like an in-depth explanation for your situation? i can't always do both at the same time, so i need to know what you want to prioritise.

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please refrain from trauma dumping

I'll be honest; i really have no issue with those who want an outlet for their pain. if anything, if it's therapeutic for you and harmless to both yourself and those around you, i encourage it. but you have to understand that i am not your therapist, and it is not my job to offer professional advice. what i can give, i give with my best—just remember to take them all with a grain of salt.

[please have mercy 😭😭 I'm just a broke college student trying to learn philosophy; my brain's already wrecked enough as is during classes]

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𝐨𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫 𝐫𝐞𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐝𝐞𝐫𝐬

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kindly remember that this is a safe space.

i do ɴᴏᴛ tolerate: ableism, racism, sexism, homophobia, pedophilia, and transphobia. if you find yourself falling under any of those categories, get the fuck off my page.

i don't care if you're anonymous or so and so—if i see you harassing people on my page or simply making a general mess, i will block you.

additionally, if you don't like the content i make, then scroll. it's not that hard. don't waste your breath, and don't waste my time.

anti-shifters DNI.

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trigger warnings!!

there might be moments in my answers where i mention taboo or unsavoury topics. I'm saying this now if you're planning to dive through the blog some time in the future and find mentions of sensitive matters. i can be very blunt, and i can't guarantee you'll always like what I'm posting. I'm saying it again now—you're free to unfollow or simply ignore me if you feel I've overstepped or done something wrong.

also, additional warning: frequent use of vulgar language ((:

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spam likes are fine!

I've reblogged a post somewhere down the line, mentioning that I'm comfortable with spam likes. interact all you want with the blog! so long as you follow the other reminders, you should be good to go.

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do be careful with your messages

ANYONE can interact with this blog. this is supposed to be a space for reality shifters; ranging between anyone in any demographic—and that includes a mix of adults, minors, and every other person. as such, be mindful when you send in a comment or an ask. it's a matter of welcoming people while still being respectful of their boundaries.

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sporadic, now that i think about it.

please remember this, especially if you've sent in an ask, a submission, or a private message. all these should usually be answered within a week or two. if it's been more than that, and i haven't replied to your message, it would mean either of two things: I'm still editing my response or I'm currently busy.

i follow eastern standard time, just in case anyone's wondering.

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𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐤𝐬

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SIDEBLOGS:

ᴘᴇʀꜱᴏɴᴀʟ - @everyday-shenanigans

ɴᴀʀᴜᴛᴏ - @tobiramas-cumdump

ʜᴀʀʀʏ ᴘᴏᴛᴛᴇʀ - @regulus-black-supremacy

ᴇɴᴄᴀɴᴛᴏ - @bruno-madrigal-enthusiast

ᴀᴄᴇ ᴀᴛᴛᴏʀɴᴇʏ - @eat-my-objections

ᴍʏ ꜰᴀᴠᴏᴜʀɪᴛᴇ ʙᴀɴᴅꜱ - @to-all-these-fucking-dudes

[ꜱᴘᴏʀᴀᴅɪᴄ ᴜᴘᴅᴀᴛᴇꜱ ᴏɴ ᴀʟʟ]

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that which exists in the mind exists better in reality

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[my-reality-my-rules]

Ok, can you tell me details of tour warring state shift? I ask this becauae Ibwanrnto shift for that. How is Madara and Izuna like? And The insides and family dynamics of the Uchihas? Maybe Hashirama and Mito If you interacted with them? And any other curiosity of that time period?

[thanks for this ask!]

alright, disclaimer first: my warring states DR might not exactly be the best thing to freely talk about, especially with what's currently happening on other platforms regarding shifting.

there's a lot of things regarding this era in general that would be looked down upon—and i won't be making excuses for not scripting them out, because i wanted the full experience of shifting to naruto. i just wanted to put that out there.

so, with that out of the way, let's talk about my DR itself.

[you can also find a few more detailed explanations in a google doc i keep; some of my other shenanigans are written there].

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(1) MADARA AND IZUNA

i have to admit that, while I'm generally fine with Madara, i have some mixed thoughts on Izuna. overall, they're both not bad as family. i would go so far as to say that the elder is one of my closest friends, surpassed only by Hikaku. he's kind, and very indulgent with my whims. Madara likes to look out for everyone even when they don't want nor need it, is a bit obsessed with taking his duties seriously, and likely suffers from some form of burnout. thinking of him does make a bit sad, though. Tajima's still alive, and the man's been grilling him on finding a bride. problem is, HashiMada was a thing in my DR :'DDD and I'm currently the guinea pig having to deal with Madara's sulking fits. i am, frankly, honoured to be someone he trusted with that secret, but i am not equipped to deal with romance. as for Izuna? call me any day—i am down and ready to throw hands. I'm kidding (not really). where Madara's the prime elder brother material many people would probably want, Izuna's that babied brat of a cousin who spells trouble just because he can. he's not a bad person—i don't hate him. chances are, I'd actually team up with him for both stupid arguments and serious fights if it suited me. but it doesn't make him less of a nuisance to deal with. Izuna gets very sexist and classist from time to time, and...well, xenophobic (i don't even know if that's the right word, but you get what i mean). he's also very pushy and arrogant.

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(2) MITO AND HASHIRAMA

to be honest, i have more experience dealing with Tobirama more than either Hashirama or Mito. hell, even my interactions with Tōka are more significant compared to the couple. for the most part, my contacts with the elder brother happen only because of my (pseudo?) acquaintanceship with the younger. Tobirama and I often use the same routes when travelling between smaller villages, especially on solo missions and in neutral spaces. here's the thing: while I've met and talked with Hashirama in passing, all of those times happened only during times I've scripted, but not shifted for. these are events where we're required to interact with each other. think of: the daimyō's clan rep summons, battlefield warfare, semi-joint missions, and the like. he's very open and friendly, and almost always willing to compromise—there's no doubt about that. but I'm also very wary of him. listen, he's a nice person, but I'll just be honest and say this: i don't trust him, not the slightest bit. my opinion on Mito isn't any more different. it's not that i dislike her, but neither do i actively like her. it's a neutral feeling, i suppose. I've seen her more than I do Hashirama [ok wait short break—by every god that exists, she's actually really fucking gorgeous]—but, like Hashirama, i don't know her enough to formulate any substantial thoughts about her. just that she's associated with the senju, and her clan is allied with them, so that makes her a threat by nature. i won't lie—the time I've spent with the uchiha has influenced me by a large margin. it's not going away anytime soon. and even then, a part of me already acknowledged that both aren't people i want to fully deal with. with tobirama, it's easier, because we have this mutual regard for one another. i interact with the man from time to time, and we're at least familiar. his family is a different story.

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(3) OTHER CURIOSITIES

hmm...there's actually a lot of things I'm interested in, in my DR. i suppose by 'curiosities', you meant some kind of non-canon aspect of it? I'm trying to keep this entry short, so I'll just list two things here. I'll just add more details to the DR journal later on. well, there's this group called the Soldiers in White. i wouldn't go so far as to call them vigilantes, although they skid near that boundary. they're an organisation made of clan defectors; and, as far as I'm aware, their main objective is to promote the intermingling of the average clan members with 'common blood', and it's done in an act of science. they're a pretty radical group in my DR, so they're catching a lot of controversy. there's also the bi-annual clan rep summons, announced at the daimyō's convenience. there's no set date for it. it's basically this nationwide (and by that i mean only Fire Country) gathering for all clans, and it's done so His Royal Highness gets an update on what's been going on with his vassals. i don't attend the actual bureaucratic meetings, but there's an open festival available for three days straight. it's a fun event, and I've gone to it twice while shifting.

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that's it, so far.

most of what I've written down about my Naruto DR is actually in the journal itself, so, if you're interested, just check that out. i listed some more intricate details there; like my schedule, or how I met my cousins for the first time (aka the canon characters), mission anecdotes, clan dynamics, and the like.

also, yeah, i definitely recommend shifting for the founders! i haven't seen much others going there, just the usual konoha 12. it'd be nice to chat about it with someone :DDD

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list of sites and apps i recommend for designing your DR shenanigans

part 3 - social media

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LIST INCLUDES:

FakeDetail

Tweetgen

TwiNote

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FakeDetail.com

WHAT: The Fake Mail Generator is a site that enables you to circumvent email affirmations by giving you a one time email address to utilize. Next time a site requests your email address, give them a Fake Mail Generator address and stay away from the spam that is certain to follow. Wherever on the Internet to get to web assets, you have to give your email, yet it is risky in light of the fact that fraudsters begin sending you huge amounts of spam and request your own data. Rather, you can utilize the phony email generator and be sheltered. [lifted from the official FakeDetail website]

PROS: has three options for viewing (desktop, tablet, mobile), and caters to both android and ios formats. offers faking for several social media platforms. images also extend for as long as needed (i.e. for phone screenshots).

CONS: doesn't have an undo option, so, if you make a mistake in one of the images, you have to start all over again. also has no reaction to message options in the messenger feature, nor does it allow for swear words.

PERSONAL EXAMPLE:

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Tweetgen

WHAT: The realest fake Tweet and Twitter screenshot generator. [lifted from Tweetgen's official Twitter account]

PROS: incredibly straightforward, and not much prompting is needed; you'll know what to do as soon as you see the site.

CONS: not much, although it might be somewhat confusing if you're not as familiar with Twitter's layout.

PERSONAL EXAMPLE:

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TwiNote

WHAT: It is a convenient SNS style memo pad. An SNS-style memo app that has exceeded 1 million DL! You can make notes as if you were using SNS! Notes are not shared with others and are stored within the app. [lifted from the Google Play Store]

PROS: very user-friendly! the app works like a real twitter account would, only you can edit all the details that you need.

CONS: not much, unless the ads are that much of a bother. it's also somewhat confusing to figure out how to access the edit features.

PERSONAL EXAMPLE:

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[my-reality-my-rules]

I'one of the things I'm worried about with shifting is my cats, I need my cats to be fed and looked after while I'm not here and I'm not sure on the process or wat happens while I'm not here can u maybe explain a little about that please?

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ah! when you're shifting, it's not your physical body that moves or is altered. it's your consciousness that shifts and leaves for other realities. when you do shift, your clone essentially takes over for you, until you come back. as such, even if you're off in your DR, you would still (technically) be present to be with your cats.

clones are basically—well, it's still you. nothing changes, unless you want to script anything specific for them. they'll be the ones 'in-charge' (so to speak) of your physical body. so, no, you don't need to worry about neglecting your cats; because your clone will still be there to look after them. same goes for any other bodily functions. anything you do, your clone will do. and nothing will seem out of the ordinary to anyone else.

i hope this helps! much love, and happy shifting ❤️❤️

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Have you tried anything NSFW in a dr skskskshkgdd

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alright—now those are stories for the journal lmfao. it's not that I'm uncomfortable sharing my DR experiences here, but i do tend to write long. also, some people might be uncomfortable in seeing that content here.

so, if anyone asks me for a DR story, again, I'll immediately direct them to the Google Docs i made for this purpose. here's the link.

that DR story you're looking for is entitled a few NSFW things, it's somewhere near the bottom ((:

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list of sites and apps i recommend for designing your DR shenanigans

part 2 - building a house

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LIST INCLUDES:

games:

Minecraft

The Sims 4

professional apps:

Coohom

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Coohom

WHAT: 3D visualization to realize your interior design fantasies, improving work efficiency and design quality for the best 3D presentation! [lifted from the official Coohom website]

PROS: it's very detailed, for one. the user only needs to know their dimensions and what materials they want to use. offers a wide range of things to add to the room. has a render feature; with images in perspective, panoramas, and video processes of the render itself.

CONS: it might be a bit overwhelming to first-time users, especially with the amount of controls. also requires mid to high speed internet for the experience. limited amount of render saves. also has a pro version, but that's only if you're unwilling to subscribe.

PERSONAL EXAMPLE:

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Minecraft

WHAT: Minecraft is a 3-D computer game where players can build anything. The game which has been described as like an 'online Lego' involves building blocks and creating structures across different environments and terrains. Set in a virtual world the game involves resource gathering, crafting items, building, and combat. [lifted from Webwise]

PROS: stimulating, both as a game and for problem-solving skills. due to its sandbox nature, it allows for vast amounts of creative potential, and is not limited to real-world material constraints (e.g., fantasy objects, plant life). you don't need to worry much about missing materials—it's constantly being updated, not to mention there are countless tutorials online for building certain things. also has the option for customisable avatars.

CONS: purchased, not free. also contains in-app purchases. servers can lag. social interactions are included, if you're not into that or because of cyberbullying, but i highly doubt you need to talk to other people just to make your DR house.

PERSONAL EXAMPLE:

[NOTE: download TLauncher for desktop, and HappyMod for mobile; lmfao lemme be real with y'all and say my game's fuckin pirated]

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The Sims 4

WHAT: The Sims 4 is a social simulation game developed by Maxis and published by Electronic Arts. It is the fourth major title in The Sims series, and is the sequel to The Sims 3. [lifted from Google Search]

PROS: like minecraft, it's a game. it's meant to be stimulating and functional. the sims 4 in particular has the best graphics and details out of all the games in the series. for desktop players, they can create almost anything and everything they want for a DR house. the base game is also free.

CONS: the base game is just that—the base game. that's not to say it's not fun, but it simply doesn't offer the full experience without the extension packs. you can download custom content, but it's definitely a long process, especially if you accidentally download broken or corrupted files. it's also...incredibly tiring to play, especially if you're on some kind of limit on your game.

PERSONAL EXAMPLE:

[NOTE: you can also use The Sims for creating your DR self, family/families, S/O's, and et cetera; also, I'm using mods and custom content in my game]

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deadass wish there was a permanent delete button on tumblr bc i am genuinely cringing at that HP script details post i made

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hii , so

i have a bf in my cr …but, my relationship isnt that great ( he is very toxic sometimes ). im going to get a bit personal, so u can understand (: at the time i discovered reality shifting, which was 2 years ago , it was ALSO the year i got close with my current bf. i was very close to shifting, but i chose to enter in a relationship w him and NOT shift ( nd of course that left me really sad , cus i had a connection and still have with that dr ). but, summimg up , he was very abusive and he kindof cheated on me 3 times . after that, we took a break and i found another person who was also really toxic . then it didnt work out , n i tried shfiting again, with another dr, got really close, and then i decided to leave it to resume my relationship with that person who i took a break and is now my current bf.

i know this is like … im dumb , cus he cheated but i like him REALLY much. n thats the problem , i think that this is making it difficult for me to detach from my cr. i am not happy in my relationship , so i decided to get back AGAIN at shifting. and i pretend to have a s/o in that dr , so i dont know if i should do something about my cr situation ??? cus its blocking me from going to my dr ( im not sure about that and thats why im asking ) and also , i dont know if its considered ""cheating "" ??

i mean , that is very confusing but i do hope u understand and hopefully answer my question ಥ‿ಥ …

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first things first, I'd like to apologise for taking this long to answer your message. i know the topic you mentioned can be sensitive, and, in a sense, urgent. now, I'm not the best person to ask questions to when it comes to relationships, but i can try giving you some general advice.

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let's divide your message into parts. from what I've read, i can sort it into two topics: the CR S/O issue (and how it affected your progress with shifting), having a DR S/O.

with the CR issue, what i can tell you is this: i hope that you were able to sort things out with him, because what he did simply wasn't right. your own feelings wouldn't matter if he cheated on you anyway. it's a tough truth to learn—but the fact that he did it alone signifies that he isn't trustworthy. of course, you could take all the time you want as a break and refrain from shifting when you dealt with this issue—but just know that it shouldn't hold you back from actually shifting itself.

apologies if this question is a bit sensitive; would you call it a trauma response, pretending to have an S/O in your DR? and in doing so, does it make you feel more fulfilled or content?

you don't have to pretend you have an S/O there, because you can simply script someone in.

as a general rule of thumb—no, shifting to be with another person isn't cheating. it's a bit tricky to discuss, but the gist is that the DR individual is in another reality, and doesn't necessarily count as cheating in the conventional form. in my opinion, though, i don't think of it that way, so long as (if you're still in the relationship in your CR) your partner knows and understands what you're doing.

and my answer is yes; yes, do something about the CR situation. i can't tell you exactly what it is that you can act upon. but if you leave it to fester, you might end up making things worse for yourself. no matter that you have feelings for your boyfriend, he's committed an act of wrong against you, and you're not obligated to remain with him. him being a source of your affections doesn't mean he has the right to it, especially when he's already done something to abuse those affections.

if you feel as if this held you back from shifting, then yes, try to sort it out first.

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short blog update after nearly a month

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alright. I've been inactive on tumblr for a bit too long lately, so, i suppose everyone deserves a proper explanation for it.

I'll admit i haven't exactly been in the best headspace in the past year. ever since the last quarter of senior high, I've been declining with nearly everything i used to enjoy. now, with college happening, the pressure's increased.

i haven't gotten around to fully focusing on shifting alone, which is a reason why i haven't been as active with tumblr as i had in 2021. there's other things in my CR i still need and want to focus on and set right.

some people might be exasperated with me for being sporadic with updates. believe me, I'm irritated with myself as well. so, I'm putting this out here to say that i do plan on finishing all the drafts that i have piled up, eventually—but i have no guarantees as to when exactly i would be able to do them.

[and if you've sent in a message that you've been waiting for a reply to since last year, i just want to say that i really am fucking sorry for not getting to it faster.]

this was also just a reminder that no, this blog is not dead, just inconsistent. and no, I'm not putting it away any time soon, but it won't be a priority for me—not right now.

that's it.

stay safe, lovelies, and happy shifting ❤️❤️

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Can you shift with your eyes open or do they have to be closed?

[thanks for this ask!]

both! you can do both.

there are sleeping methods, which are more popular with the shifting community, but there are also awake ones. it doesn't matter which kind you use, so long as you're comfortable with it.

personally, i use sleeping methods all of the time. they're just better for me, and i have the opportunity to dream on the chance that i don't get to shift to my DR. the last time i used an awake shifting method was...2021, actually, now that i think about it (holy shit).

also, a 'closed-eyes' method doesn't automatically mean or refer to a sleeping method, mind, but I'm pretty sure there's at least one or two like that out there.

but my earlier point stands! you can use either, or both—it's your pick.

much love, and happy shifting ❤️❤️

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Hi! Idk if you've seen it but I'm just curious, what are your thoughts on the show "Maria Clara and Ibarra" on tv if you've heard and seen it? Just asking bc I remember seeing one of your posts back then about Noli and El Fili! 😄 And the concept of the show may not be totally related to shifting but it's interesting bc you know, the main character of the show travels to the fictional world,,,, or maybe a reality where the plot is taking place. 😄

[thanks for this ask!]

initially, i was stoked about the show. it's your classic isekai plot, added with the fact that it's about an obscure fandom, and it counts as historical fiction; i had been immediately head over heels for it.

i didn't watch it immediately, however. when a show I'm interested in comes out, i try to wait until it's finished (whether it's a season or as a whole in general). AO3 trauma should be counted as a real thing; i get so frustrated whenever i see a discontinued fic and find out it's actually really good. this factored in with my hesitance to watch shows i like.

and i disagree; the plot was totally related to shifting—while it's true that you're not necessarily creating a 'new' body that disappears while shifting [looking at you, 2020 shiftok], you're still shifting to a body that exists in a certain period of time. even if it's an isekai.

😭😭😭 don't be shy just list it as an isekai-

it's been a while since this ask was sent. I'm currently answering this just as the first part of the show is ending (the last episode for Noli was airing earlier), so i might finally watch it in full.

i might(?) update on this in the other blog, though. I've yet to finish my El Noli script, and the show just gave me some hot ideas.

[my-reality-my-rules]

I was sleeping a kinda half awake u know that dozy time? Anyway a man walked up to me in my bed and said its not that hard relax and my body relaxed completely, I was nearly there

[thanks for this ask!]

that's actually kinda relatable lmao. i have a similar experience, although instead of a man, it was more just a presence.

as you've mentioned, you were nearly there. but to me, it sounds as if you already were! the man being there is a proof of that, whether or not the experience felt like a dream.

perhaps all you needed was a final push? this kind of situation varies from person to person, so I'm unsure as to what you'd exactly want (i am, admittedly, at a loss as to how to respond to your message)—but it might help in steering you in the right direction.

but i do agree with what the man had told you. while the action of shifting does have its frustrating moments, it also isn't as complicated as most of us assume it to be. it comes along like...some kind of enlightenment. the more you learn about it, the more familiar you get with it, the easier it should become to achieve that state of refinement.

the man has a point: relax.

nothing good comes out of excessive worrying. it's a bunch of what-if's that drives you crazy, which can derail your original purpose. so, take it easy. you can do it.

[my-reality-my-rules]

Hi! Have you tried to shift using the lucid dream method? I'm just curious how it usually goes :( I tried it earlier for the first time and when I was doing my reality checks and became aware that I was dreaming, I felt like I was floating and spinning. I was spinning and my whole body felt it. I was wondering why it was taking so long because I know I have to create a portal. Instead, when I stopped spinning, I only got into a scenario where I thought I finally woke up; like a dream within a dream. Actually, I've been having this kind of dreams lately - a dream within a dream whenever I try to shift.

Have a great day! 💗

[thanks for this ask!]

I've used the lucid dreaming method only a few times—and while I've yet to successfully shift into any of my DR's with it, i have had many dreams caused by it. weirdly enough, they're all related to my DR's. there are times when i have them that i become aware that I'm dreaming (and, inside the dream, state my affirmations)—but i haven't had a full conscious shift to my fandom DR's with it yet.

moving on to your question, though; what you're describing is something called a false awakening. as you've mentioned, it's a dream within a dream, where you 'wake' up but realise you're still sleeping. kinda like an inception.

the phenomenon is also counted as a form of lucid dreaming, from what I've heard, so we might be able to incorporate some other tips from that here.

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(1) the portal

i once saw this tip on reddit where the shifter makes a portal on the ground so the actual transportation itself feels more natural to them. this is a combination of two posts I've seen online—one from quora and one from reddit (if i recall correctly).

basically, don't imagine anything too incredible (for insane; a very space-esque portal, such as the one in the first avengers movie), especially if it's your first time using the method. try something small for your portal first, like a dip in the ground, or a simple door.

while they're not the most exciting things to imagine, they should be able to ground you to your dream. the point of the lucid dreaming method is to act as a gateway, not unconscious entertainment (that's my take on it at least).

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(2) intention

I'm pretty sure I've mentioned this in an old post regarding the intention method, but i suppose it could apply here as well. basically, set your intentions before you sleep, and try your best to affirm when you gain awareness in your dream.

there's a reason why mindset is always given emphasis when it comes to shifting. whether it's for a method, a manifestation, or for motivation—setting even just the smallest intentions can change the way you go about things.

when you realise you're lucid dreaming, i highly encourage that you make affirmations. not just for going to your DR (such as the classic, I am in my DR), but for getting that far into your method as well (like saying, I am proud of myself for being able to complete my chosen method). i have no idea if that made sense—but i hope it got the point across.

the more passionate you are with your endeavour, the more dedicated, the better you could hold yourself afloat. don't treat shifting as a chore because it will feel like one (I'm currently on a break as well). emotions can also play a large factor in your intentions, so keep that in mind.

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(3) extra resources

here's a link to a reddit post i found while researching. I'm not a master at lucid dreaming, so i obviously had to look to other sources that could provide some insight for the situation.

my favourite tip from the list, however, is the first post-scriptum message. dream naturally. don't force yourself, and let it come to you as it is. sometimes, the most complex situations can have the simplest solutions. obviously, there are other actions you can perform involved, but to me, this seems like one of the most important things to remember.

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and that's it! i know i listed only three tips above, but i didn't want to repeat things that many others have already said. i was trying to make my own observations about the method, and i hope the ones i gave were useful at least.

much love, and happy shifting ❤️❤️

[my-reality-my-rules]

if i had a nickel for every time i rode the wrong bus and ended up very far from my destination, I'd have two nickels—which isn't much, but it's weird that it's happened twice

[aphroditeapprenticee-deactivate]

one of the greatest discoveries i made in my journey for me was realizing that the 3d isn’t something separate from me. my 3d isn’t “out there”. my 3d doesn’t need to be changed.

i’m literally within myself. think of your 3d as your mind. you’re IN this 3d world. that means you’re INSIDE your own mind. you’re within yourself lol. 

your mind isn’t in your body, your body is in your mind. 

jesus said he is in father and father is in him(john 14:10). william blake said god is in us and we in him.

this is why there is nothing to change but self because self is the only thing there is. you’re within yourself. the world is truly your own simulation. you’re within the mind of god. you’re inside your own self. 

think of a blue butterfly. you don’t even have to “manifest” it. just think of it. whenever it comes to your mind, just think of a blue butterfly. you’ll somehow end up seeing a blue butterfly in the 3d even though you didn’t “manifest” it. 

why? because you’re literally within yourself. this is why it’s absurd to want to change the 3d or seek results from in the 3d. 

you’re literally inside yourself………

i hope you get what i’m trying to get across here because i want you to know that you’re NOT changing the 3d, you’re changing yourself, your consciousness. your 3d exists WITHIN you. 

[heavenlythea]

“your mind isn’t in your body, your body is in your mind. ” i love this so much, this whole post is a gem ♡

[loadreams]

Tʜɪs ɪs ᴀ ʟɪsᴛ ᴏꜰ ᴘᴏsᴛs ⵊ ʜɪɢʜʟʏ ʀᴇᴄᴏᴍᴍᴇɴᴅ ʏᴏᴜ ᴛᴏ ʀᴇᴀᴅ

ⵊ’ʟʟ ᴜᴘᴅᴀᴛᴇ ɪᴛ ᴡʜᴇɴᴇᴠᴇʀ ⵊ ꜰɪɴᴅ ᴏᴛʜᴇʀ ɢʀᴇᴀᴛ ᴘᴏsᴛs ♡︎

# Neville’s lectures by @muselogy

# proof that 3D doesn’t matter by @aphroditeapprenticee

# methods hold no power by @nakedbibi333

# limiting beliefs we believed by @sexyandhedonistic

# manifest df by @id18297

# advice for the void by @uniquelymeandmyworld

# anxiety by @lavender--fairy

# eiypo by @celestial-heartbeat

# SATS by @starliet

# revision by @sirensplayhouse

# meaning of self concept by @lavender--fairy

# ultimate guide by @itsravenbitch

# affirmations by @divineangelbee

# waiting for your desires by @venstark

# sp guide by @taeriilight

# how to live in the end by @zen-shu

# laws by @sutheworld

# conception by anon on @sparklingself blog

# states by @nakedbibi333

# manifesting with hard circumstances by @blushydior

# all is within by @vesora

# manifestation guide by @angelsinluv

# sabotaging by @gorgeouslypink

# you create the rules by @fleurlx

# you are limitless by @multiversebaddie

# doubting the law by @sexyandhedonistic

# stop “trying” by @sparklingself

# leaving the old story by @blushydior

# god state by @id18297

[inritum]

reblog and make a wish! this was removed from tumbrl due to “violating one or more of Tumblr’s Community Guidelines”, but since my wish came true the first time, I’m putting it back. :)

[my-reality-my-rules]

thanks to @honeymaltgelato for this lmao. everyone check the reblogs! i just went to the original source so it's shorter.

make a wish! I'm not saying mine on here, but let's fuckin go lovelies ❤️❤️❤️