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Grow Some Balls

Some people are so quick to put the blame on others and point out their mistakes. But when they're put on blast, they act like they didn't do anything wrong and go dead silent. I mean, REALLY? Are you waaayyy up there on your high horse that you can't even admit that you're wrong? Are you just that full of yourself? It baffles me. It really does. People saying they're all grown and shit yet they can't fess up when they mess up. Ridiculous.

#truth #real talk #reality #life #fuckyou #fullofit #ridiculous

inspiring-pictures

Because he knows I'd choose daisies over roses any day. ☺ Thanks Babe; I love you! 😘 #valentines2017 #littlethings #blessed

#littlethings #blessed #valentines2017

Tic Tac Toe; XOXO 😘 Aiden's Valentine's Day favors this year was all DIY. From the design of the card, to the heart and flower pieces, and even the little envelope. 👍🏻 Super happy with how it turned out! 😊💕 #momlife #vdayfavors #valentines2017

#momlife #vdayfavors #valentines2017

🎉SURPRISE!!! 🎉 Early birthday celebration from my awesome TRIBE... and Mr. @harrystyles ! 😍😏 Walked in and the first thing I noticed was Harry's face. 😂☺ These ladies know me soooo well. 😁 Thank you so much a @lonelsonc @ndweakley @auriatamayo for today! Beyond blessed and thankful for having you ladies in my life! 😘😘😘 #bdaycelebrations #surprise #harrystyles #aquarius #lovelyladies #tribe #neniandmetribe #family #blessed

#harrystyles #blessed #aquarius #neniandmetribe #surprise #tribe #family #lovelyladies #bdaycelebrations

It's my birthday and I'll snap all day if I want to... 😏😂🙌🏻 #forever21baby #aquarius #februarybaby

#aquarius #februarybaby #forever21baby

People have to pretend that you're a bad person so they don't feel guilty about that things they did to you.

#truth #realize #life #fuckyou

perrfectly

There’s so much more to life than finding someone who will want you, or being sad over someone who doesn’t. There’s a lot of wonderful time to be spent discovering yourself without hoping someone will fall in love with you along the way, and it doesn’t need to be painful or empty. You need to fill yourself up with love. Not anyone else. Become a whole being on your own. Go on adventures, fall asleep in the woods with friends, wander around the city at night, sit in a coffee shop on your own, write on bathroom stalls, leave notes in library books, dress up for yourself, give to others, smile a lot. Do all things with love, but don’t romanticize life like you can’t survive without it. Live for yourself and be happy on your own. It isn’t any less beautiful, I promise.

Emery Allen (via perrfectly)

Wow. I love this.

uptional

wnq-writers

What I’ve learned in 2016 1. Friendship is a matter of convenience. It can be true and beautiful and fun and full of love until she moves to another city for college and finds 10 more people she can ‘connect’ with. 2. You don’t have to pursue a boring degree for a boring job. Yes, your passion is for things that make it harder to fetch money but you have one life. Do you really want to spend it doing something you don’t absolutely love? If you’re passionate about something, no matter what, you will excel, you will thrive. That’s the key to real success. Not some statistics stating the most lucrative jobs and industries. 3. You will exercise. You will drink more water. You will eat healthier. Not because you’re not beautiful the way you are but because your body deserves to be treated better. It literally has carries you around, has your back and actually has your heart from that first moment to your very last. 4. If they are a bitch to others what makes you think they won’t be one to you when the time comes? How people treat others is always a tell tale of how they will treat you. Pay attention. It’s better than feeling like a fool 6 years later. 5. Cook your own meals sometimes. You know just the amount of oil, salt and ingredients you want. You may not be a masterchef but you know what your stomach wants. 6. Surround yourself with happiness, inspiration and positivity and a very major part of that is social media. Who you follow is so important. Social media is supposed to be a happy and safe place for you. Choose the right people and the right works to fill your feeds because eventually those fill your mind and heart. 7. Nature is all healing. It’s the one thing in the beautiful presence of which even the most talkative person like you feels the need to shut up. Nature requires no words. It’s completeness is something to learn from. 8. Your parents live a life apart from being your parents. They have moments you’re not a part of, moments you don’t even know. They have not only had a life before you but also a life with you being there that you don’t know about. That’s okay and that’s not something to be mad about. 9. People will leave you. Always. Some in days, some in months. There are those who take decades and then there are those who never leave in physical form but withdraw all meaning and that’s when you must leave. But just because people leave their stay doesn’t become any less wonderful or important. 10. Sometimes the only person you need at 3 am is yourself. Give yourself mode credit. You can always help yourself. It may just take a little longer and be a little harder but you don’t need another person to help you. You are enough. You are strong. You will never disappoint. 11. Music of all type is necessary. Songs that make you cry and the ones that make you think and then those that make you only want to dance. 12. Draw. Everyone is an artist. And your drawings may look like those of a middle school kid but isn’t your joy just like hers? 13. Read more books. Yes, you’re older now and busier too but ‘busy ’ is an excuse and you know it. Find time for something that saved you. Find time for something that you love. 14. Lipstick is life. People may stare at you and they may get intimidated by certain shades but that’s okay, one smile and they will be at peace. 15. Click more selfies and click them without any shame. If you’re happy, if you look at yourself and feel like capturing that one moment where you feel good about yourself - go fucking ahead. Capture all your happiness, beauty and goofy-ness. But remember, they are for you and not your social media. 16. There’s literally no way you can help someone without helping yourself. And they may give you nothing in return and they may be ungrateful but who cares? They aren’t half the person you are and you can shrug it off and move on but remember unlike you, Karma never forgets. Also, karma is only a bitch if you are. The darkest moment is the very moment before sunrise. It’s a fact. So 2016 may have been your darkest time but that only means the sunlight of happiness and inspiration and love awaits you in 2017.

creatingnikki (via wnq-writers)

kushandwizdom

I wish you would stop apologizing for having a heart that feels everything so deeply. It’s a gift, wear it proudly.

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I've learned to accept this.

kushandwizdom

I’m at that age now where I only want to associate myself with grown people and grown situations. People who play mind games, attention seek, guilt trip or other manipulative things need to stay clear away from me. I don’t care about social or financial statuses, or other irrelevant attributes, I seriously couldn’t give a shit, as long as your mentality is grown, we can vibe.

myhead-vs-myheart

YAAAAASSSSS!!! Seriously over the high school bullshit.

#amen #truth