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[myladytara]

"কি অদ্ভুত এক নিয়ম, এখানে মানুষ মানুষের শূন্য জীবনে আসে, তাকে আরও বেশি একা করে দেয়ার জন্য।"

— সে বসে একা।🎥

Translates to-

"What a strange rule, here people come into people's empty life only to make him more alone."

[myladytara]

“It’s okay to be alone from the start. You’d be used to it. But being alone after being with someone isn’t something I want to experience again.”

📽️ Our Beloved Summer

[thoughtkick]

“If you knew how hard it was, and how long it took, to rebuild my little universe of peace and happiness then you would understand why I’m so picky about who I allow in my life.”

— Weird People

[inkpressedpetals]

[thoughtkick]

“I just want someone to be truly happy because of me. Someone who is happy to see me, happy to hear me, happy to know me.”

— Unknown

[myladytara]

- The act of seeing is no small thing. To see something is to be possessed by it.Sometimes it carries off a part of you,sometimes It's your whole soul.

Kya pta kb, Kahan, Kya akhari ho!

[mournfulroses]

Trista Mateer, from a poem featured in her collection titled The Dogs I Have Kissed

[myladytara]

I know you don't love me anymore....

[myladytara]

What if I did take a risk,

And told him what I truly feel?

What if I didn't let him wait,

And I treated him well?

Will he still leave?

What if I chosed to stay,

Rather than giving him peace?

What if I looked for a way,

Rather than giving him space?

Will he still chose to walk away?

[myladytara]

ইংরেজিতে একটা কথা আছে 'You only live once'। ল্যাটিনে আছে 'Carpe Diem' অর্থাৎ ভবিষ্যতের কথা চিন্তা না করে এখনকার মুহুর্ত ভালো করে বেঁচে থাকো। হিন্দি দুইটা মুভির নাম আছে 'কাল হো না হো' আর 'জিন্দেগী না মিলেগি দোবারা'। জেমসের গান আছে 'হতেও পারে এই দেখা শেষ দেখা, হতেও পারে এই গানই শেষ গান'। সবগুলা একই বার্তা দেয় কালকে কী হবে কেউ জানে না, ভবিষ্যতে কী আসবে কেউ বলতে পারবে না।

কাউকে কিছু বলার থাকলে সেটা বলে দেন, ভালোবাসলে জানায়ে দেন, কিছু করতে চাইলে করে ফেলেন। প্রতিটা মুহূর্ত সুন্দরভাবে বেঁচে থাকতে শেখো.

[myladytara]

পাওলো কোয়েহলোর একটা খুবই বিখ্যাত উক্তি আছে, "When you want something, all the universe conspires in helping you to achieve it"

বিখ্যাত লেখকদের বিখ্যাত কিছু মিথ্যে কথা থাকে। আমার মনে হয় এটা পাওলো কোয়েহলোর সবচেয়ে বড় মিথ্যে কথা। আদতে তুমি পৃথিবীতে সবচেয়ে বেশী যে জিনিসটা চাইবে, সেই জিনিসটাই কোনোদিন তোমার হবে না। তার বদলে হয়তো আকাশের চাঁদটাও তোমার ব্যক্তিগত হয়ে যেতে পারে। কিন্তু, পুরোটা জীবন দিয়ে তুমি যা চাইবে, সেটাই পাওয়ার নয়...

[myladytara]

She told me she “wasn’t ready for a relationship”…

while wearing the bracelet I bought her for her birthday.

We weren’t official,

but we did everything couples do.

Late-night phone calls.

Good morning texts.

Inside jokes.

Shared playlists.

Even talked about baby names once—

half-joking, but it still meant something to me.

Her birthday came.

I got her a simple gold bracelet.

Had it engraved:

“You are enough.”

She cried when I gave it to her.

Said no one had ever made her feel that seen.

Said I was “rare.”

Two weeks later?

She sat me down and said:

“I’m just not in the right place for something serious.”

Said I was “amazing,”

but she needed “space to figure herself out.”

The bracelet was still on her wrist.

That’s when I realized:

She didn’t want love.

She wanted what love feels like.

The attention.

The effort.

The warmth.

But not the accountability that comes with actually reciprocating it.

Avoidants don’t just run.

They romanticize their exit.

Make it sound deep.

Spiritual.

Like they’re protecting you

from the very intimacy they pulled you into.

And if you’re not careful—

you’ll mistake their avoidance

for emotional depth.

But love doesn’t leave

just because it gets real.

So next time?

I won’t fight to stay in someone’s “almost.”

I’ll wait for someone

who doesn’t flinch

when love gets close.

[myladytara]

He knew he was leaving soon. So he moved the dishes. The ones on the top shelf. The ones Aesun could barely reach.

There was no big moment. No long talk. No goodbye speech. Just him thinking ahead. This is love in its quiet form.

He loved her in small ways.

Now he’s gone. But every time she opens that cabinet, she remembers. He made it easier for her.

Sometimes love is like that. It’s not always words. It’s not always big moves. Sometimes, it’s just a shelf. Just a little less struggle. Just a little more thought.

And maybe that’s all love ever is. Making life a little lighter for someone, even when you’re no longer there to carry it.

When Life Gives You Tangerines

[myladytara]

Happy 2 year anniversary my fictional men ♡

[myladytara]

And then, suddenly, every word felt like a love letter—soft and intentional, as if each sentence was carefully written to be kept close to the heart.

It was in the way conversations lingered, how simple phrases carried unspoken affection, and how even silence felt warm, like pages waiting to be read.

🤍

[simzart]

[myladytara]

What Every Man Should Know About Women

1. Women fall in love through a man's words, but they stay in love because of his actions.

2. When a stranger uses intimate terms like "dear," "sweetheart," or "love" towards them, they consider it a turn-off. He may think it flatters them, but they find it cheap and feel like he’s using these terms on any random woman.

3. Before saying "I love you," make sure you understand the meaning, depth, weight, and responsibility of those words.

4. She prefers to reveal herself slowly, so don't push or rush her.

5. Even if she believes in love, you need to show her why she should love you. It is your responsibility to bring her heart out from behind the walls.

6. Only if you are serious will she awaken love within herself.

7. Honesty is the key; no matter how painful or hard it is, always tell her the truth. She will love and trust you even more for it.

8. Women love attention; the moment she notices that you're no longer paying attention to her, she will feel that things between you two are changing.

9. The best gift you can give a woman is your time. You can buy expensive gifts, but if you deprive her of your presence, those expensive gifts won't mean much to her. The indicator of her love is your time.

10. There is a difference between loving and being in love. Her love for you is her personal choice; whether she falls in love with you depends on how well you treat her and how excited you make her feel.

11. Saying that you love her is one thing; showing her love is another.

When a woman loves, she truly loves.

[myladytara]

I asked her, “What’s the best gift I’ve ever given you?”

She smiled. “Peace.”

She glanced at me. “It means I don’t have to overthink. I don’t have to wonder if you love me. I don’t have to question if you’ll stay.”

Then, she kept going.

“Peace means I feel safe with you. I don’t have to beg for attention. I don’t have to fear you’ll leave after every fight. I don’t have to heal from the love I receive.”

[myladytara]

জগতে সবচেয়ে বাজে অনুভূতি হচ্ছে আপনি কারো জন্য কেমন ফিল করেন সেটা তাকে বোঝাতে না পারা।

আপনি আপনার মাকে কিছু বলতে চান। হয়তো কথাটা গলা পর্যন্ত এসে আটকে গেল। আপনার বাবার সাথে হয়তো একটা ডিপ কনভার্সেশন হতে গিয়েও হল না।

আপনি যাকে স্পেশাল ফিল করাতে চান হয়তো তাকে সেটা বোঝাতে পারলেন না। কাউকে নিয়ে যা ভাবছেন হয়তো সেই কথাটা কখনোই বলা হল না। অপর পক্ষের মানুষটা আপনার ভেতরের অনুভূতিটা কোনদিন জানলোই না।

হয়তো আপনি যা বলতে চাইলেন সে বুঝলো না। সে আপনাকে ভুল ভাবে পড়ে ফেললো। আপনার কথার মিস ইন্টারপ্রেট করে রাখলো সে। জগতের কোন শক্তিই তাকে সেটা বুঝাতে পারল না।

এই যে ক্ষেত্রবিশেষে আপনি আপনাকে আরেকজনের কাছে ভাঙতে পারেন না, এসবের কোন ব্যাখা হয় না। এক্সট্রোভার্ট, ইনট্রোভার্ট দিয়ে যাচাই করা যায় না।

জগতে যা বলা যায় না, যা প্রকাশ করা যায় না, তার ভার অনেক বেশি।