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You cannot advocate for marginalized minorities' rights from the position that bigotry is weird.
Fucking untangle your view of weird vs normal from the values you're trying to criticize.
So many of you view "weird" either as a synonym for sexually predatory and socially disruptive or as a meaningless frivolous thing people call their hobbies.
But "weird" is a marginalized, and marginalizing, label. You can't ping pong it back at fascists. No more than you can insist that fascists are the ones actually gay, or actually autistic.
@invisiblebadword I don't really think insulting fascists is productive for anything, tbh. It gives you some relief by allowing you to experience catharsis, and that's what it's good for, but it doesn't actually do anything positive socially.
I say this as someone who loves insulting people when I'm angry. I just don't really care about it sounding smart or stinging really badly, because I'm doing it for my emotional self regulation, not because I hope the sense of embarrassment will pressure them into developing ethics - that doesn't happen.
You cannot advocate for marginalized minorities' rights from the position that bigotry is weird.
Fucking untangle your view of weird vs normal from the values you're trying to criticize.
So many of you view "weird" either as a synonym for sexually predatory and socially disruptive or as a meaningless frivolous thing people call their hobbies.
But "weird" is a marginalized, and marginalizing, label. You can't ping pong it back at fascists. No more than you can insist that fascists are the ones actually gay, or actually autistic.
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I think people should be more considerate of how they compliment people. Because just to be blunt, a lot of people are selfish when it comes to other people’s beauty. Physical appearance is such a sensitive topic, and yet they feel fine commenting on your appearance purely because they enjoy looking at you and want you to continue being nice to look at.
You don’t know what that person is insecure about. Not everyone wants to look like whatever you think is peak beauty.
Like if it’s something they likely put a lot of effort into, it’ll probably make them happy to get a compliment. But don’t just go around saying “omg your body tea” “you’re so skinnnyyyyy” “you honestly look like a rabbit with your overbite it’s so cute!!”
Across 40 years of trans alignment
Summary: the trans alignment system ("transfeminine", "transmasculine", "transneutral", and other such terms) changed the way it is used over time, responding to the trans community's shifts from transition focus onto identity focus. Differences in understanding create conflicts, where some try to apply these terms to others based on what they believe to be objective criteria. Inclusion of more perspectives makes it clear that these terms cannot be decided objectively and applied to people by outsiders.
41 year ago, in 1985, an essayist Jane Nance wrote the following words: "What am I? …How about 'transvestite'? Maybe 'transsexual'? Or perhaps 'transfeminine'?"
These words begin a short article titled "TRANSFEMININE!!!", and this is the earliest recording of this word known to us.
In this text, Nance talks about feeling out of place with the existing trans terminology, finding it too action-focused. Her internal sense of self is that of a woman, but she is mostly closeted and expresses her gender rarely. According to her words, "transvestite" means someone whose primary focus is crossdressing rather than internal feelings, "transsexual" means someone who has undergone surgeries, and "transgenderist" means someone who lives as a member of their desired gender socially. To resolve this label conflict for herself, she proposes "transfeminine", defining it as "a male who feels like a female, strictly undefined in relation to any issue of an operation".
21 year later, in 2006, a community organizer S. Leigh Thompson was involved in a discussion over the definition of the word "transmasculine", which had existed prior, but was not used widely or defined clearly. In the resulting text "What’s in a Word?: Crafting Transmasculine", he goes over some problems he faced as an organizer: uniting people with different genders and transition paths, giving them something tangible to go by when their identity or body changes. He believes "transmasculine" can be a solution to this problem and defines it as "any person who was assigned female at birth but feels that is an incomplete or incorrect description of their gender".
10 years later, in 2016, we can find the earliest recorded definition for "transneutral". It was published by a flag maker and collector under username Pride-Flags. Their definition says: "Transneutral is a term used to describe transgender people who were assigned male or female at birth, but identify with neutral gendered feelings to a greater extent than with femininity or masculinity. They usually are nonbinary but could be trans men or trans women."
10 years more, and we're in the present. These terms are at the center of definition and inclusion controversies. I do not hope to resolve the controversies right this instant, but I feel like looking at how these words evolved over time might help us understand where we're coming from and where we're going. If you look at them projected onto a time scale, there is a pattern.
Jane Nance wrote her essay in a time where being trans was understood as a much more physical act. She struggled against the limiting nature of this physicality and wanted words that would center her sense of self over her lifestyle. Unlike her, Thompson came from an era of growing identity prominence, and his writing was an attempt to restore the physicality, by referencing AGAB as a kind of an objective material fact. Pride-Flags centered identity again - but not due to fear of conflation with transition types, since transition does not even come up in their definition. They were simply more interested in exploring gender identities as feelings, a model more relevant to 2016 and to 2026 both. We are going from labels that must be externally observed and confirmed to labels that hold most relevance to us personally.
The definitions mutate, responding to a different era's needs, and clash. Does your trans alignment mean anything about your transition? Does being anything other than a cis woman as someone AFAB make you inherently masculine? Is your AGAB relevant at all? There are people who say that these terms inherently depend on your AGAB, and that being trans while assigned male inherently makes you transfeminine, and being trans while assigned female inherently makes you transmasculine. In contrast to that, others create concepts like "AGAB nonconformity" and identities like "Coffee Bean transmasc" and "AFAB transfem". Deconstruction of AGAB in the trans community happens with active participation of intersex people.
I think decrease of belief in objectivity of AGAB and transitions is both necessary and inevitable. Inclusion of nonbinary and intersex voices makes it clear how nuanced and messy both these things actually are in reality, how little the full scope of trans existence resembles a sliding scale between M and F. And how the gender binary itself is a product of an extremely flawed social system, and your experience with it will depend on much more than your assigned and claimed gender (but also factors like disability, race, immigrant status, and more).
Understanding these things, some of us choose to define being transfeminine, transmasculine, and transneutral as types of gender transgressions that have to do with femininity, masculinity, and neutrality respectively, without tying them to assigned genders, the gender binary, or specific types of transition. These definitions give the people themselves control over the narrative of their life and allow them to highlight what they actually experience.
But while some things change, others stay the same. 40 years ago one woman wanted a word that would suit her life, feeling like rigid definitions leave her no options. The entire modern discourse is still a reflection of that need.
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I think it would do a lot of people some good to realize that homelessness isn’t this crazy thing that happens under very specific circumstances to very specific people.
You are not that different from the homeless people you see. You could become homeless at any time, really. You could know someone who’s homeless and not know it. You might even technically be homeless right now.
Good. ❤️
i will never stop being angry about how short attention spans are demonized. my sixth grade math teacher one time told us (my class) about how bad tiktok was because it wired us to love instant gratification (and how liking instant gratification/struggling with delayed gratification were bad things). people online are constantly using "attention span of a goldfish" and "ipad kid"(which has become synonymous with "brainrot tiktok subway surfers video idiot child) as insults, especially towards young gen z/gen alpha. having a short attention span is synonymous with being stupid (which both isnt true in the first place and frankly shouldnt matter because intelligence isnt tied to morality or kindness but insults on intelligence are a whole other can of worms). people constantly go on about how teens are so addicted to their phones and put the responsibility on the teens in question to be better people who don't want to use their phones when bored or whatever. boredom is simultaneously treated like a necessary part of everyday life that you need to overcome unassisted or else you are a failure with a dopamine addiction yet also like a symptom of withdrawal that only happens to disgusting dopamine addicts and therefore is deserved. ive come across many "attention span reset" videos online and while they probably help some people they feel soooo condescending to me (the ones ive seen have a person going on in the softest "talking to a scared animal" voice while talking about focusing on the art they're doing like this is a hypnotherapy session). executive dysfunction (in general but especially the sort where you're doing something you enjoy instead of the task that feels impossible) is just called "procrastination" and procrastination is just used as another word for "being a lazy asshole". being fidgety or having a hard time being still for long is treated like a mildly annoying quirk at best and an action deserving of not just ridicule but punishment at worst. in kids and teens, an inability to focus on schoolwork or chores is punished again and again until the parent decides that there's nothing for the child/teen to do except for the work or chore. adhd/add are constantly labeled as excuses and laziness and an unwillingness to try until you're a full grown adult getting a diagnosis and being told "i dont know why this went under the radar for so long". not only do people with adhd/add feel like failures for not being able to live up to the standards of the society we're in, but we're constantly treated like and punished for being failures by oftentimes even harsher standards and told that our symptoms are actually just symptoms of being a stupid fucking idiot dickhead asshole incapable of anything good in the world. and im so, so fucking sick of it.
Every day tumblr users get closer and closer to saying you can only be trans in a god honouring way.
Edit: my problem is with the comparison and trying to rate people's transness and who's more transgressive. If you attempt to turn this into a trans guys vs trans girls post you are missing the point.
This is what white supremacy looks like in the trans community. Genuinely.
These screenshots are literally just white supremacist, right wing talking points about conformity to the status quo being more "transgressive" than people who actually transgress social norms. It's quite literally no different than Christians, MAGA, the right wing, etc. thinking they're the ones who are actually oppressed despite engaging with ideas, values, and presentations that have actually been the ruling class status quo for centuries. It's all taken from the same self victimization playbook.
It's especially clear with the 4chan language mixed in that is just white supremacist incel shit, "gigastacy", "mog", "aura" — that's incel forum channer language that's infiltrated broader internet vernacular and it doesn't matter if the OOPs here are actually explicitly 4chan using white supremacists. They're still engaging with 4chan white supremacist language, behavior, and beliefs.