Embracing the Ephemeral

Nur Rosyiidah, SG. Beauty in Simplicity, Strength in Quiet.

[islam-reflections]

“Nothing will be heavier on the Day of Resurrection in the scale of a believer than good manners. Allah hates one who utters foul or coarse language.”

— Tirmidhi

[chibird]

Storms will come whether we want them to or not. But we can control what we do on rainy days! We’ll make it through them, one warm cup of tea at a time.

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[al-firdaus]

How can my heart not love You, O my Lord, when You are not in need of my worship, yet You shower me with blessings because i do. You are al-Shakur, rewarding my few deeds with limitless happiness, even though You are the One who gifted me the ability to carry out those very deeds.

[abdulhaqq-faaris-blog]

The Best Wealth

Thawban (رضي الله عنه) reported: When the verses about gold and silver were revealed, they said, “What kind of wealth should we acquire?” 

Umar (رضي الله عنه) said: “I will learn it for you.” He rode on his camel until he caught up to the Prophet and I followed him. 

Umar (رضي الله عنه) said: “O Messenger of Allah, what kind of wealth should we acquire?”

The Prophet (ﷺ) said, “You should acquire a grateful heart, a tongue of remembrance, and a believing wife to help you in the matters of the Hereafter.”

[Sunan Ibn Majah 1856]

[mawjooda-deactivated20230326]

Slow down. It will all fall into place, I promise. Breathe and focus on what’s important right now. Remember Allah, remember your purpose and what’s meant for you will come running to you.

[lifeafterpsychiatry]

Your impact on other people is bigger than you think. Someone still giggles when they think of that funny thing you said. Someone still smiles when they think of the compliment you gave them. Someone silently admires you. The advice you give has made a difference for people. The support and love you’ve offered others has made someone’s day. Your input and opinions have made someone think twice. You’re not insignificant and forgotten. Your existence makes a positive difference, whether you see it or not.

[flowersofjannah]

@minas-ramblings​ 🌼

[recovering-and-healing]

“the world is heavy  but your bones  (just a cubic inch) can hold 19,000 lbs ounce for ounce they are stronger than steel atom for atom you are more precious than diamond and stars have died so that you may live you need to remember these things when you say that you are weak and worthless” Live Life Happy

[eternal-liness]

Communication is everything. Always always tell people exactly how you feel, where you’re at in life, what you need assurance of, what questions you need answered. Communicate everything because anything and everything can be misinterpreted

[tsamthepoet]

Alhamdulillah Alhamdulillah Alhamdulillah, no matter what happens.

[myvelvetpetals]

Always. Always. Always.

[emotionalwords]

[quotelr]

[the-inspiring-quotes]

[yours-sincerelyy-deactivated202]

'It is written’.

[onlinecounsellingcollege]

The Successful Person …

1. Makes time for themselves

2. Takes on new challenges

3. Can take a break from their work

4. Sets realistic goals

5. Perseveres when things are hard

6. Enforces healthy boundaries

7. Doesn’t beat themselves up

8. Doesn’t get bogged down with guilt

9. Thinks of others and their needs

10. Lives a life of gratitude.

[onlinecounsellingcollege]

“Decide that you want it more Than you are afraid of it.”

— Unknown

[espressogal]

How to take part in self affirmations, self-talk, and self love In out moments of need without it feeling fake?

here’s a list of things i would recommend for anyone who needs help with finding self-love: 

1. set boundaries. what this means is act on what you need and not entirely on what you want. if you feel like you’re in a situation where you’re being held back by things creating a negative environment for you and you don’t know how to let go, ask yourself, “do i need this in my life?” if the answer is no, understand that it’s time to let go and take the measures necessary for that. 

2. stop comparing yourself. a lot of our insecurities derive from comparison to other people in situations vastly different from ours. know that everyone grew up differently, had different experiences, and live in different environments than you. you are not only a sum of your experiences, but also the drive that allows you to create new experiences. when i say this i mean, there can be two people that had the exact same terrible life, and while one of them decides to carry out the same routine that brought them to misery, the other decides to stand up and make a change in their life. so, although they both had the same experience, they are not an equal sum. 

3. tell yourself, “you did well.” this is something i personally find very calming and rewarding. during anxious situations, i try my best to avoid toxic habits and even if i fail, i realize it and tell myself i will do better next time. yes, you did well and you’re doing great. keep pushing. 

4. acknowledge that you have so so so many strengths. everybody is good at something. when you’re feeling low or insecure, you don’t have to tell yourself “fake affirmations” but rather dwell on all the amazing things about you. how you asked a question in class the other day, how you complimented that girl the other day and made her smile, how you showered even though you really didn’t feel like getting out of bed, how you got a really good mark on that test because you worked really hard. all these amazing achievements and qualities are so overlooked but that doesn’t cancel out the fact that they really mean something. 

guess what? people are so happy you exist. you’re so kind and you have made the days of many. you’re so significant in people’s lives. people think about you and smile. you’re doing amazing, sweetie, don’t give up <3 

[espressogal]

How to take part in self affirmations, self-talk, and self love In out moments of need without it feeling fake?

here’s a list of things i would recommend for anyone who needs help with finding self-love: 

1. set boundaries. what this means is act on what you need and not entirely on what you want. if you feel like you’re in a situation where you’re being held back by things creating a negative environment for you and you don’t know how to let go, ask yourself, “do i need this in my life?” if the answer is no, understand that it’s time to let go and take the measures necessary for that. 

2. stop comparing yourself. a lot of our insecurities derive from comparison to other people in situations vastly different from ours. know that everyone grew up differently, had different experiences, and live in different environments than you. you are not only a sum of your experiences, but also the drive that allows you to create new experiences. when i say this i mean, there can be two people that had the exact same terrible life, and while one of them decides to carry out the same routine that brought them to misery, the other decides to stand up and make a change in their life. so, although they both had the same experience, they are not an equal sum. 

3. tell yourself, “you did well.” this is something i personally find very calming and rewarding. during anxious situations, i try my best to avoid toxic habits and even if i fail, i realize it and tell myself i will do better next time. yes, you did well and you’re doing great. keep pushing. 

4. acknowledge that you have so so so many strengths. everybody is good at something. when you’re feeling low or insecure, you don’t have to tell yourself “fake affirmations” but rather dwell on all the amazing things about you. how you asked a question in class the other day, how you complimented that girl the other day and made her smile, how you showered even though you really didn’t feel like getting out of bed, how you got a really good mark on that test because you worked really hard. all these amazing achievements and qualities are so overlooked but that doesn’t cancel out the fact that they really mean something. 

guess what? people are so happy you exist. you’re so kind and you have made the days of many. you’re so significant in people’s lives. people think about you and smile. you’re doing amazing, sweetie, don’t give up <3