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my friend has described age play as "role playing pedophilia" and its troubling me. im having trouble coming up with an intellectual response because 1) im a dumb baby and 2) im pretty new to the community and still struggle with shame sometimes even with the support i receive. is there anything i can say to them that would also make me feel less guilty..? even though i dont really need to feel guilty in the first place. sorry if this is too heavy

Absolutely not too heavy, I kinda love this kinda stuff. Too many hours arguing with conservatives on Facebook lmao.

In general when I'm hit with this argument, I don't even bother to try too hard, convincing someone that something they will never understand with nuance is just a losing battle. The bottom line is that ageplay requires adults, no matter anything that you throw at it, actions between two adults will never be pedophilia. It does not matter how you look at it and their reasoning, pedophilia requires a child and ageplay does not involve a child.

Though if you think you can reason with this person, I would offer some viewpoints:

1. If this person happens to be kinky ask them if they feel d/s is roleplaying abuse or sexual slavery. If roleplaying immoral things is wrong then like 95% of kink is immoral.

2. Ageplay normally doesn't actually really involve acting like a real child or a real caregiver. Like I will tell a partner "if you're gonna act like a child I'm gonna spank you and put you in a diaper". A little may ask to be touched but a child who wears diapers and drinks out of a bottle barely can create full sentences, not say dirty things. You don't say that to a child because they're a child, ageplay for a lot of people is about power play not like the actual reality of doing awful things to a child.

3. This is more from a specific point of view. But being very adult like in your real life is often a plus in ageplay than a minus. I don't think anyone can look at any of my partners and think "oh this guy likes children", my partners are very much adults in both appearance and intelligence and that's sooooo very hot. If I was a pedophile I think it would be the other way around.

4. People everywhere have always liked the taboo, moms reading smut, dads taking their kids out of school to go to a movie, normies devouring gay porn, rocking out to songs about doing drugs, rooting for the victim to brutally murder their abuser. If you aren't attracted to the taboo then you are simply not human, ours just happens to come in the version that happens to be super weird and outlandish.

I would suggest not falling into the "some people do it to cope with their abuse" because while it's perfectly valid to be that person. It tends to remove the logic from the situation and make ageplay an emotional thing which is not the right move. Doing things out of emotion does not make them valid. It also ostracizes people without trauma or the caregivers.

thecollectibles

Stylized eucalyptus bark by Jose河西西

deepgreentreez-deactivated20250

Reblog If you Want Gross Kinky Asks And Confessions In Your Inbox

darlinglilmia

"Fuck you my child is completely fine"

Really? Fine? Your child, who gave up their potty training and adult lifestyle for the first person to treat them with parental love and care? Your child, who will never regain their potty training, emotional regulation, and attention span?

Your child, who lives life happily as someone else's little baby, playing toys in their living room with their crayon scribbles hanging on their fridge?

.... yeah you're right they're completely fine

mzsquishreturns

🥺

prettyandpadded

In need of assistance

scatteredtstorm

Where’d all my stars go? Now if I only knew how to change this thing… 🤔🧐

prettyandpadded

Just a potty training drop out <3

hockeynhandcuffss-deactivated20

I just want to add something to the thing I just reblogged. I try my best to not comment on vanilla posts because I don't know who could stumble onto here.

I had never touched a boob till I was 18 and now I run a semi popular kink blog

I had failed out of college at 20 but now I am a successful software engineer.

I did not work a full 40 hour job until 25.

Just last year I was calling out of work because I was too depressed to get out of bed.

I don't reblog those kinds of things to just offer support. I reblog them because I know you can live life at your own pace, I lived it. Be kind to yourself please. I am rooting for you.

spiritual-vibrations

hockeynhandcuffss-deactivated20

this is a threat. put on the sailor moon outfit or ill tell everyone that i know youre actually a huge softy and a sweetheart and not scary at all >:-) 🌷🌷

Here I'll give y'all a deal. If someone donates ten dollars to a charity organization of their choosing (as long as it's not right leaning, like no conversion therapy bullshit) I'll put on the sailor moon outfit

mzsquishreturns

You heard 'em! Support people that support people!

salemthepuppylover

I have said it SO MANY TIMES and I will SAY IT AGAIN.

AS A DOM. YOU DESERVE CARE TOO.

aftercare is often times sub-focused, and while that’s always great, it’s often seen as “only subs need aftercare because they’re the ones that took the brunt of the acts.” and as a disabled dom, that’s absolutely not true.

dom drop is very real. I often experience it as guilt for hurting someone, or being “too aggressive,” as trans women are often seen. especially for doms that take care of subs, pretty please take the time to take care of yourself too!!

and for all the subs out there, if you’re able, please please please go get your dom some water or a snack. even if neither of you can walk, it’s imperative that you *talk to each other.* in my past, even the smallest things made me feel so much better. I’m going to list off some great things to say to your dropped dom here (feel free to add in reblogs!!)

“I’m okay. You didn’t hurt me too much.”

“Thank you for doing (self care act) for me, do you need anything?”

“I liked everything you did.”

“everything was within my boundaries.”

“you did great, (name/nickname).”

“do you need anything?”

“would you like (self care act)?”

“can I help (task: clean up, get water, etc.)”

just doing something like talking, showing physical affection, kisses, comfort, etc, is so so so important, and everyone deserves it!

and to all my fellow doms out there, don’t feel guilty for asking for help! if you need it, ask for it! your partner is there to show you love and care too!

Watching scary shows, good thing I double diapered myself... as you can tell I got scared a couple times. (I wouldn't mind this level of thickness 24/7. You know... in case I get scared. 🥴)