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[VXI]

[cultcieht]

[dafancyuhinspiration]

[junkfoodcinemas]

The Other Guys (2010) dir. Adam McKay

[haelxtii]

[rainekeiko]

[read-books-by-women]

Are women allowed to have any standards when it comes to dating men?

If a woman wants a man who is conventionally attractive, tall or athletic, she is shallow.

If a woman wants a man who earns good money or at least has some financial stability/gainful employment, a career or good career prospects, she is a gold-digger.

If a woman wants a man who is educated, cultivated or takes an active interest in the world around him one way or another, she is a snob.

If a woman wants a man who is not a complete porn-addict with a severe case of terminal misogyny, she is a stuck-up bitch.

If a woman wants a man who is kind, considerate and actually cares about her, she pussy-whips her boyfriend or husband.

If a women wants a man who shares values, interests or life-style choices that are important to her, she is mean and exclusionary, because why wouldn't she give men a chance she is clearly not compatible with?

Seriously, what are women allowed to look for in a male partner? Oh, wait, I know! She is supposed to want a man who is funny and makes her laugh. That is a demand no man feels threatened by, because they all think they are comedy gold.

[hypergamiss]

I love this post. This is why I started taking all of the names I get called as a women for having standards as a compliment! Call me shallow and a gold-digger all day. All I hear is that I’m not settling for less than I deserve🤷‍♀️

[2productive]

You're allowed to change your mind on things. Your opinion can evolve, your desires can change, your priorities can shift. What made you happy at one point in time doesn't have to be your focus anymore. Your attention can go to other things, new ideals can form. Things don't have to be so black and white. What is now doesn't have to be forever. It's okay if you decide to stop being a vegan 5 years from now. It's okay if you stop caring about fashion. It's okay if you sell your collection of whatever, even though you've built a big brand off of it. Not everything that you engage in must be with you for life.

[tunisian]

oh my god. most of life really is about the little things. a good haircut, a nice playlist, trying a new recipe that turns out well, a poem that hits home, a comfortable spot in the sun, spontaneous messages, a pen you enjoy writing with, tea with the right temperature to drink, buying that thing you’ve been eyeing for a while, a warm bed. yeah. im so grateful for the little enjoyments

[djglory]

[tyjrose]

Her pretty eyes and her smile warm my soul

[urlovelover]

[feelingsoftheday]

i don’t like walking on egg shells with anyone. i like good energy and easy going people.

[introverts-hideaway]

[heavenhillgirl]

[octoberbrunette]

[journalinbloom-blog]

[thirst]