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*BREATHING HEAVILY*

Sometimes you’re just friends with a woman then she smiles at you and now you’re designing a shared apartment in your head

guerrillatech

sedosa

ok but......then they went and made this post so what's the difference really you're still bragging about it 🤔

morphinehomo

Hypocrite bitch

negromouthandafro

The difference is Sadé isn’t plastering the homeless folks’ faces everywhere and using their identity to uplift their social standing. The issue presented is the camera.

Some questions to ask yourself next time you’re confused while reading: What is the purpose of this post? What is the problem being highlighted? Who does it hurt? How does it hurt? What is this person saying and who are they likely saying it to?

Didn’t know a tweet calling out performative “altruism” is enough to call a random stranger a bitch but y’all aren’t good people on here.

rosarrie

baby hippo

maplebungus-deactivated20221118

bippo…….

rosarrie

ur so right

cowpokeprose

Maybe you aren’t annoying, maybe they were just annoyed. Maybe your entire personality can’t be boiled down to actions others found disruptive. Maybe peoples feelings are subjective views of you, not objective. The same way we teach kids to say “I feel angry when you do this thing” instead of “you made me angry!” maybe you should consider that people, due to their own personal beliefs about social interaction, felt annoyed in response to your actions but that that doesn’t necessarily mean you did something bad or are something bad. And while its sweet that you want to make sure people don’t have negative feelings, there’s a lot of humans in this world and we’re always going to be stepping on each others toes so maybe don’t let people feeling annoyed with you define you.

caffeinewitchcraft

Relationships get so bananas when you start deciphering the other person’s love language.

Like I thought I was just acquaintances with this person because they never told me details about themselves and we just talked movies and writing . But then they made time to have coffee with me and they showed up out of breath because they ran. Like. RAN to be on time for coffee with me?

And I was like “i don’t mind waiting” cause I never want to run

But they said they wanted every minute they could get because I’m so busy usually

Which is when it clicked that I didn’t get how much they considered me a friend because I just straight away didn’t see MY signs of affection in them and went “cool! Casual buds it is.” But now that I’m seeing their signs of affection, I feel a little silly for dismissing them like that even though I felt like we could be best bros.

Anyway, some people show affection through time or intensity or commitment and not vocally. I really have to remember that!