my oikawa headcanon (that no one asked for):
a bi king who slightly prefers men
i don’t really think he got a preference for looks
but i do believe he’s kinda more attracted to ppl with dominant personality
but that doesn’t mean he won’t like a shy person!!!
if he likes you, you probably won’t realise it right away cause he’s just flirty
but after he finally gets his shit together he confesses to you
it depends on you if the confession is gonna be extravagant or lowkey
he doesn’t want to make you uncomfortable
that kind of jealous who will go up to the person who’s flirting w you and show your relationship into their face
loves attention but he also loves giving attention!!!!
when mad he’s getting really petty
probably will cry out of frustration, but never in front of the people who made him mad
he’ll storm off to find a cozy corner and just... ya know... 👊👁💧👄💧👁
yeah i also think he’s kinda physically aggressive when mad (like the slappy slappy w tobio) but wouldn’t ACTUALLY hit anyone
he’d just hit things, but not living things and never hard enough for them to break.
however if he’s in a fight with his s/o, he will hold his anger back because the last thing he wants is to scare them
he may seem like a social butterfly but he does have social anxiety. like when he feels cornered even the slightest, yeah he does not like that and will get an anxiety attack
he also got several issues about people leaving him or trying his best not being enough etc.
he also speaks fluent english bc he wanted to be more universal on social media
have GOD LIKE SINGING VOICE
AND WILL GIVE SERENADE TO YOU
CAUSE HE’S CHEESY LIKE THAT
he needs lots of reassuring words, even tho he’s well aware of his good qualities, his insecurities tend to overshadow them
he just needs his demons to be chased away for him sometimes
you’ll have to be together for a long time without big arguments
i think if there’s a bigger argument in the begging of the relationship he’ll give up on it
not because he doesn’t want to be with you
but because he’s logical and tactical
he’ll think that it’s to be doomed from that point because if y’all argue like that in the awkward phase then what’ll happen when y’all are getting comfortable?!??!!
but if he sees that you are actually trying then he will let go of those worries
after y’all are in a relationship for a longer time he’ll get more emotional than logical when it comes to you
it’s hard for him to let go of the people he cares for
so if y’all are breaking up, he’ll be a mess
very very VERY good at hiding his pain
if you’re his s/o or friend or whatever you also have to remind him to take a break sometimes, or about his knee
he believes that his knee needs to be “trained more” to be better (read: overused)
he’s dumb and careless when it comes to his physical health but an overdramatic ass when it comes to yours or other’s who he loves
sorry but even if you’re his s/o you’ll have to share the first place of his priorities with volleyball
totally would want a big ass wedding
your family is his lil volleyball team
will get the children to play sports
he’d love it to be volleyball so he could spend even more time with them
but honestly he just wants his kids to be passionate about something because he knows how good it feels
after he gets children his family becomes the number one priority and volleyball is getting on the second place
he’ll keep track of EVERY date that needs to be remembered (birthdays, anniversaries, if you get them then periods too!)
king of taking care for you if you’re on your period
or just having a rough day tbh
he’s very flirty oh my god
he’ll be all cocky and shit but the moment you flirt back slightly more suggestively he’ll be putty
a switch who likes to act dominant but when things getting really heated loves to be dominated
i don’t think he enjoys degradation all that much. he’ll do it but i think he likes praises more.
like those things are not nice, but his is somehow!!! just!!! pretty?!!!?!
not that wide but it’s pretty long
might be kinda quick, but he can go multiple rounds
like his stamina is god tire
lovely boyfriend don’t break his heart
