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spiderdaddychi

Go on puppy, show dad's friends that dripping little pussy....

harshpreceptor

Well trained cunt

cuckqueanwatcher

Humiliation

I found out I liked humiliation when I had a not very nice man in my life. He had tied me naked to the bed spread eagle, very vulnerable and open. He wanted the lights on and I explained I had an ingrown hair just so he knows. No biggie but he turned the light on looked at it. Called me disgusting and went to finish himself in the bathroom while I cried on the bed unable to cover myself feeling so shameful, but so turned on. My feelings were really hurt but my pussy was so wet. I realized I love this shit. Degrade me and make me feel pathetic. I love it!

pleaseshootinsideme-deactivated

My ideal daddy

· Calls me nasty degrading names.

· Expects me to be kneeling at the door when he comes home.

· Will push himself inside my pussy at any point without any warning.

· Expects me to be waiting at the side of the bed when he wakes up so I can take his cock in my mouth for his piss or cum.

· Will tell me to pull my panties open so he can come in them and make me walk around all day feeling his cum against my pussy.

· Will start fucking me while I’m asleep.

· Uses all my holes as he sees fit.

· Shoots his load over my face while I sleep and over my food before I eat.

· Sometimes puts me in a cage.

· Doesn’t care about my pleasure.

· Breeds me over and over.

· Degrades me casually throughout the day.

· Let’s me suck on his cock while he’s busy and completely ignores me.

kristikunt3

Daddy, Master, Sir, Owner

farrelljohn

uronlyh0les

Edge all morning with your panties on, then put them on your whore face and edge to the smell of your desperation.

violetcontent

softsapphicsiren

the thing about being with me is… you don’t get to cum. i’m a slut for denial and i want to know you can hold out for me. i want you desperate and begging to cum, and i want to see the tears well up when i say “no.” i want you to go to bed with your panties soaked through and a pillow between your legs so you can hump it in your sleep while you dream of me. i want you to wrack your brain trying to figure out how to be good for me, good enough that i’ll finally let you, and i want you to come up short every time, hard as you try. i want you to get so frustrated you just do it yourself, even though it’s not even half as good as the one i’d give you, and i want to punish you for it. and you’ll put up with all of it because there is nothing, nothing like my fingers inside of you and my lips on your neck, and you know it. you’ll wait and suffer for hours, for days, for weeks even, just for the chance that i’ll decide you’ve been good and put my mouth between your thighs. don’t worry, though. even on the nights when you do get to cum, i’ll have you groveling and weepy and so fucking desperate you’ll think you’re going insane. and then, and only then, i’ll make you cum so hard you feel it for hours. maybe even twice, so you think you got lucky. but it’s only because i’m planning on making you wait even longer this time… and i want you to know exactly what you’re missing.

thatonedumbwhore

a list of things i want to happen (or happen again)

•lock me in a chastity belt for an unknown amount of time

•never let me wear clothes at home

•force me to eat meals from a dog bowl on the ground (bonus if my hands are tied behind my back)

•throat fuck me until i puke (bonus if You make me lick it up afterwards)

•only allow me to cum when i hump Your leg

•starve me for weeks (bonus if You make me cook for You while i’m starving)

•never allow me to take my butt plug out

•use me as toilet paper

•loan me to Your friends (bonus if they have instructions to not touch my cunt)

•put a gag in my mouth and rub Your cock all over my face... i will go crazy if i can’t suck it

•don’t allow me to sleep on the bed

•don’t allow me to take warm baths

•give me tedious tasks i would hate such as writing lines or kneeling for hours

•wash my mouth out with soap

•beat me until i’m crying (bonus if You feed me my tears)

•shove Your cock in my mouth anytime i try to say something intelligent (bonus if You laugh at me)

•cum on the ground and watch me eagerly lick it up

•order me not to talk all day then send me to the grocery store. i’ll be so embarrassed not being able to communicate with anyone

•burn all of my bras and panties in front of me

•send me to the bar dressed like a whore and tell me i’m not allowed to say “no” to anyone

•make me become a cuckquean

•find a cuckcake who’s as mean to me as You are

•charge people $1 to piss in my mouth, maybe i can make You some money

•keep me chained up in a dark room when not in use (bonus if it’s for days at a time)

•never let me read

•force me to listen to hypno files on repeat

•make me clean an entire room with my tongue (bonus if it’s a bathroom)

•never let me close my mouth (bonus if You laugh at me for drooling everywhere)

•tell me i have permission to cum then put numbing cream all over my clit (bonus if you feed me my tears after i start crying... which i definitely will)

•call me a good girl then beat the shit out of me... just because You can

•gaslight me

•make me give You all of my money

•give me 10 forced orgasms back to back after being denied for months

•force me to fuck Your dog

•give me a collar i’m never allowed to take off

•force me to cum after You tell me i don’t have permission to... punish the shit out of me for disobeying You

•never allow me to wear shoes with less than two inch heels (bonus if You also never allow me to take them off)

•ash a cigarette in my mouth (bonus if you make me hold it there for hours)

•humiliate me in public

•convince me to make a sex tape with You then blackmail me with it

•tie me up naked in the woods and leave me for days (bonus if You tell Your friends where i am)

•take me to a pet store and make me try on collars in the middle of the aisle

•piss in every drink i have

•cum in every meal i have

•make me fall in love with You then break my heart

onism-4

Think like this.

daddysgoodgirl32-deactivated202

need to try all of this asap

zany-conus

A list for a healthy and modern relationship.

It‘s your duty as her Partner and Leader to show her what she‘s good for.

training-true-sluts

102 reasons female orgasm denial is the best

Feminists have promoted orgasms as a liberation for women but it’s the exact opposite. Orgasms make women slave to their desires, always craving for immediate reward. Freeing them from this burden opens their mind to the fulfilling role of anal only sluts.

Found this here and could not agree more :

I like to be denied and I’m proud of it 🙂 I’m also a woman and a feminist so I find it a bit disappointing that looking around one only finds smut and information on denial and chastity for men. So here are my reasons for denial rights :

1. I have no moral right to enjoy the same pleasures as a Dominant man. 2. I have no right to refuse pain, discomfort or frustration from my Master. 3. Permanent Orgasm Denial is safe and sane and is therefore fully within the rights of the Master. 4. Slaves have no automatic entitlement to pleasure. 5. Whether I orgasm or not should never be my decision. 6. Dominants should have the right to orgasm whenever and however they choose. 7. I have no physical need to orgasm and therefore no right to.

Service 8. Orgasms make me unwilling to serve and obey and are therefore counterproductive. 9. Denial makes me more subservient and willing to do domestic work. 10. Denial helps me to see all forms of service as being of equal importance. 11. Denial helps me prioritize service to others above pleasure for myself. 12. Denial makes me easier to train and control. 13. Denial makes me more willing and able to quickly get up and continue serving after being used sexually. 14. Denial makes me more eager to find a Dominant to serve and submit to. 15. Denial allows me to serve fully without expectations of my own pleasure.

Downsides of Orgasms 16. Orgasms make me bossy, manipulative and self-serving. 17. Orgasms make me bratty, disobedient and demanding. 18. Orgasms make me spoiled, greedy and needful. 19. Orgasms make me selfish, lethargic and unsubmissive. 20. Denial prevents mood swings caused by fluctuating sexual arousal and the highs and lows of orgasms.

Better in Bed 21. Being aroused makes me more fun to play with. 22. Most Dominant men prefer to fuck a very aroused submissive. 23. Being very aroused makes me more eager for and responsive to sex. 24. Denial makes me a better sex slave as I am not distracted by the hope of my own orgasm. 25. Denial allows the Dominant to focus on his own pleasure during sex. 26. Denial allows the Dominant to enjoy sexual relief without the pressure of being required to perform. 27. Denial gives Dominant an additional way in which to pause and enjoy my suffering. 28. Denial makes me equally happy to be used in my arse or mouth or to be cum on. 29. Denial makes it easier to accept being used by others when a Dominant requires it. 30. Being denied ensures that I have less self-imposed limitations and expectations about play and sex. 31. Denial helps me give complete sexual control and obedience to those who Dominate me. 32. Denial ensures that I am physically ready whenever and however a Dominant wishes to use me. 33. Lack of submissive expectations about pleasure ensures that the Dominant does not feel judged, compared or rejected sexually. 34. Denial makes me see sex as a privilege and not a right. 35. Denial allows the Dominant’s sexual preferences to take full priority. 36. Denial helps me focus on the pleasure of the Dominant instead of my own physical sensations. 37. A lack of concern for my pleasure and satisfaction gives more options to those who use me. 38. Denial reminds me that my preferences are not the limit of how I can be used, sexually. 38b. Denial makes my pussy tighter, giving more pleasure to my Owner.

Benefits to the Relationship 39. Denial will help me bond with my Master by establishing a constant feeling of connection, submission and control. 40. Denial ensures my faithfulness and commitment as casual partners are unlikely or unable to offer the orgasm denial that I need. 41. Permanent Orgasm Denial is an intense, rare and unique experience which will ensure a deep and powerful bond between me and those who enforce it. 42. Denial ensures a contented submissive who is not anxious about her own pleasure. 43. A happy Master is essential for a happy relationship.

Objectification 44. My sexual organs, including the clitoris, should be at the service of Dominant men at all possible times. 45. Sex is for the Dominant’s pleasure, not the slave’s. 46. It is not appropriate for a slave to lose self-control whilst serving a Dominant. 47. A slave’s body belongs to her Master and He decides how it is used. 48. My holes belong to those who use them and are for their pleasure only. 49. Serving anally and orally will help me focus on the pleasure of those who are using me. 50. My body can be used to give pleasure, enjoyment, and satisfaction to others, even when I dislike what is being done with it. 51. Denial helps me appreciate the utility, femininity, and submissiveness of my body.

Better at Taking Pain 52. Denial makes me more willing and able to take pain to please others. 53. Denial accustoms me to the reality of slavery that is physically painful or difficult. 54. Denial makes me desire pain to deal with the sexual frustration.

Altruism 55. My orgasms do not benefit anyone else and are therefore unnecessary. 56. My own pleasure is irrelevant to how much pleasure and satisfaction I can give to others. 57. Slaves are inferior to Dominants and do not deserve to orgasm. 58. Denial of orgasm is a small price to pay for the privilege of being Owned and enslaved. 59. Denial helps me to enjoy service and submission in their own right, and not just as payback for sexual pleasure. 60. Both parties working towards the Dominant’s pleasure creates harmony of purpose and avoids conflict of interest. 61. Denial helps me to appreciate the beauty, dominance, and eroticism of the male orgasm. 62. My denial pleases and arouses Dominants who enjoy this fetish. 63. Denial prevents me from favoring only the sexual and s&m activities which are likely to cause me pleasure. 64. Denial makes me more willing to try things that may not be pleasurable or desirable for me. 65. I am more useful as a slave when my enjoyment is of no concern to myself or others. 66. Denial makes me less judgmental about serving and pleasuring others. 67. Physical arousal caused by denial enables me to pleasure more men, making me more useful as a slave.

Submissive Mindstate 68. Denial helps me to see myself as a total and permanent slave. 69. Sexual frustration is a constant reminder of my submission. 70. Denial causes me to remember and focus on the non-physical and non-pleasurable aspects of submission. 71. Denial trains me to give up control of my body, even when single. 72. Denial helps me appreciate the power and privileges of Dominant males. 73. Denial shows Dominants that I am willing to serve and be obedient. 74. Orgasms are unnatural and unsubmissive for slaves.

The Pleasures of Denial 75. Sexual frustration makes me emotionally happier and more subservient. 76. Extreme arousal is fun to play with! 77. Permanent Orgasm Denial is a great reward which I should seek and hope to experience. 78. Denial is an amazing gift of arousal and control from a Dominant and should always be treasured and appreciated. 79. Denial gives me freedom from my own sexual dictates.

Denial Improves Me as a Person 80. Being denied for long periods gives me discipline and self-control. 81. Learning not to obsess about my own orgasm makes me a better, more well-rounded person. 82. Denial saves time that would be wasted on masturbation. 83. Denial prevents me from prioritizing short-term satisfaction over long-term growth and development as a submissive. 84. Denial helps me choose Dominants on the basis of giving service rather than receiving sexual pleasure. 85. Realizing that I cannot and should not have everything I want is good for my humility.

Denial as a Natural State 86. Denial is not an irregular restriction but a natural and permanent state for a slave. 87. Women have no physical need to orgasm. 88. Female orgasms are unnecessary for impregnation. 89. My orgasm serves no biological purpose. 90. Intense sexual arousal is a preferable and healthy state for adult females. 91. Denial of orgasm has been a normal state for women throughout history. 92. Sexual arousal is designed to persuade women to accept penetration from an aroused adult male. 93. Orgasms not resulting directly from insemination are unnatural and require correction. 94. My orgasm is designed to take place only after a male has ejaculated deep inside my vagina. 95. Female orgasms are designed to prevent sex from occurring after successful impregnation. 96. Female orgasms triggered by sodomy are abnormal and should be avoided. 97. Female sexual arousal is necessary to ensure breeding, unlike female orgasms. 98. Lack of sexual arousal after orgasm is an undesirable and temporary state. 99. Anal sex is a natural alternative for those wishing to avoid impregnation. 100. It is not natural for a woman to touch her sexual organs except when cleaning herself. 101. Denial causes physical arousal and lubrication prior to sex and is, therefore, natural and to be encouraged for women. 102. My arousal serves no purpose if it does not lead to impregnation.

https://www.reddit.com/r/SheLikesItRough/comments/t515fy/rocco_ravages_tori/

199 votes and 3 comments so far on Reddit

femdomfemme

Giving Aftercare to Doms

I’ve seen a lot of writing on aftercare for subs, but never seen anything about Dom drop or the kind of aftercare that D-types need. Consequently, many people assume that aftercare is only necessary for subs, and many people don’t know what kind of aftercare to ask for or provide.

It’s natural to feel guilty when you’re inflicting pain or cruelty to someone you care about. And like with everybody, a lack of adequate aftercare can be discouraging or even dangerous. Here’s some aftercare talking points I tend to like hearing from my subs that you can use as jumping off points:

Reassure your Dom that everything they said and did during the scene was wanted and consensual. Go over and discuss anything that ended up being less than pleasurable or any sore spots that they hit if not.

If the scene went smoothly, reassure them that you are capable of saying no and/or using your safe word. Reassure them that despite roleplaying a loss of control, you know that you still were able to consent during your scene.

Reassure your Dom that you aren’t actually scared of them; and reassure them that you don’t feel like you’re being taken advantage of, nor do you think that they will.

Reassure your Dom that you trust them, you know that they are a responsible dominant, and that you don’t feel afraid that they will abuse their power over you.

Reassure your Dom that they are a good person, and that they are not evil or bad for exercising restrained and consensual cruelty during a scene.

Reassure your Dom that they don’t need to feel guilty for enjoying themselves when they are dominant with you, and that you enjoy your scenes with them as much as they do.

And some other things to keep in mind regarding aftercare as a whole....

Make sure you end the conversation/evening properly. Even if the Dom doesn’t experience Dom drop immediately, it’s very easy for Doms to feel used or like pleasure machines if they feel like they’ve been left hanging.

^^ Especially if you’re sexting or doing BDSM long distance! Do not stop responding without giving closure and reassuring your Dom that you’re okay! If you disappear without saying anything, it’s very possible that your Dom will get anxious and worry that they’ve upset or hurt you.

Check in later. Aftercare doesn’t always have to take place immediately after a scene, especially if they felt like they didn’t need much aftercare afterwards or you’ve had an informal scene and decided to skip it. Dom drop can still settle in a while after a scene has ended, so don’t ever assume you’re automatically on the same page and that care won’t be needed.

Make sure to always offer regardless. Nobody should ever have to ask for aftercare! Don’t assume that your Dom is okay and needs nothing just because they’re in control during your scenes.

And finally, Doms: don’t be afraid to ask for reassurance on the specific points you worry about! Subs can’t read your mind, and they can’t always know if the aftercare they’re giving is enough unless you tell them. You will not lose your submissive’s respect by asking for aftercare as long if they are committed to engaging in conscientious kink.

Stay safe, take care of each other, and practice kink responsibly! ♡