https://neilgerardfox.tumblr.com/post/188855628652/die-in
Above is a few comments I felt compelled to make in relation to what I find deeply distressing and disturbing demonstrations. I know one is happening at Leinster House today.
To recap, my sister was Donna Fox. She was killed cycling to work in Dublin city on the first Tuesday of September 2016. Donna worked next door to Google in the small pharmacy Meaghers. Donna was 30 years old. She had enthusiastically campaigned for Fine Gael's marriage law, indeed been the first gay person I knew to get engaged after it was voted in.
If you knew Donna, you'd know she was the most unlikely person ever to campaign (unlike her wayward older brother😅). Donna was engaged to marry her partner Anne Marie they were due to go on holiday to Spain on the Sunday, I was to meet her in Grand Canal dock Wednesday. Wednesday never dawned for Donna, her funeral was the day before the holiday that never happened.
Why is my sister important? Why do I still three years on not only speak out regularly but get media coverage even still,...??? I'm never sure. I think it's because Donna was the "girl on the bike".
She was no activist, no agenda about her, Donna was simply a girl in the city going about her business. She was on the commute.
Donna went for a run earlier near her home in Naul area outside Balbriggan, she told me days earlier about some charity run she was doing. The papers called her a fitness fanatic, Donna was many things but a fanatic as far from her as possible, Donna was so balanced, like her Libran sign perhaps, the fit and healthy girl who could just as easily enjoy pizza. Donna had bought her new car days before, she waited til licence sorted before took it out, if only if only if only....the day before she had got the train. If only....if if if.... She drove from her home, stopping enroute when unexpectedly met Anne Marie who happened to be on road... She said goodbye to Anne Marie. She drove to Glassnevin area parking and taking the bike from the car and dinning her helmet.
In her small backpack, a gift from our sister Leanne, she had a simple packed lunch, a court told me it was salmon! A coroner no less. I'm pretty sure Karl, our family liason officer who shared my birthday oddly and became my best mate in that first lost year, told me Donna had hi vis on the bag....There was definitely her bottle of water in the bag like me she went nowhere without one, and her phone, the phone was destroyed from the smashed bottle spillage. The other items were a bundle of letters for me, from the old family house. She had texted me to say she was bringing them the day early incase she'd forget....Donna all over, thoughtful to the core.
Why am I telling you all this....
I want you as Taoiseach as head of government as the ultimate decision maker to think of your own sister Sonia... ( Hope I've name right)to think of your friend, your mam your neighbour, to not really think but get a feel .... This is a life, one of the 39 who were killed cycling since the formation of this government, as my statement above says no politician bears responsibility obviously, but you are in unique position Leo. Leo you can act.
As a former Minister for Transport, you know well the demands on funding etc, but let's be honest... Millions are annually pumped into one type of road user, we need to wake up. We MUST invest wildly, yes wildly, in Cycling right now. We must to save lives, to care for all our citizens equally on the roads. Donna was a qualified jockey and driver, a pedestrian and of course a Cyclist. I've no issues with drivers. I've an issue with our streets and roads not giving a fair duty of care to those cycling, especially seen as we keep promoting Cycling.
Taoiseach, I implore you to act. I'd be happy to meet you and talk in person, I really believe it's vital we see cycling as an urgent matter.
I'm as I said previously to you,hugely grateful to your colleagues Minister Regina Doherty, Ciaran Cannon and Mary O Connor Mitchell for behind the scenes kindness and encouragement these last three years. Your Minister for Transport Shane Ross I have got to know well and hold him in good esteem but he needs your backing, he needs your leadership on this, you must insist that the Department of Finance finally gives the money needed to spend on cycling. It's all about Infrastructure Infrastructure Infrastructure. For that we need funds, real funds not a side plate to the dinner plate. We need the full deal and we need it right away.
I've been so heartened by the new dangerous overtaking of a cyclist legislation and I know that's a huge change but we now need to focus on infrastructure. We must. I plead with you to do something. As I say I am happy to meet and discuss in person.
I'm fair minded and have worked with and met all sides in last three years, I don't believe in polorising antics, we all are brothers and sisters in the roads however we move about. That's the end of the matter, it's not an us and them.
This is the longest email I've ever sent anyone and yes probably the most chaotic too, but it's from my heart. It's a direct plea to you to give cycling infrastructure the attention it deserves.
Donna got on her bike and cycled on, she passed a primary school and came towards a junction opposite St Laurence O Toole Church, she was early for work as usual. It was broad daylight.
Then in an instant she was gone.
We can't save Donna and the young man from India who died in the last few days. But we can, with your government opening the purse, save other brothers from not been able to see their sister's body for days.... We owe that, and we can do all in our power to try and protect cyclists as best as possible.
Thank you so much for your kind letter in January by the way. It meant a lot. I look forward to hearing from you and from been of any help I can to you in changing minds within your government to radical investment in infrastructure.
Kindest regards, and thank you for wading through this !