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ATTENTION:

This blog is not a pro anything blog but prorecovery, I DO NOT promote ed's or ed habits, if you can PLEASE get help and recover, and if you don't have one, DON'T get one, the cons outweigh the pros. This blog is SOLELY to help me not feel so alone, and to help me express feelings, and not feel belittled by those feelings like people in real life make me feel. If you need someone to help you recover or find help, you can always hmu

Stay safe loves 💕

lichmadeofbone

You know what? I hate anti-ana/mia people.

No, this won't be an anti-recovery statement. I'm just pissed at the amount of articles I run across talking about the "online anorexia cult seducing children". Because you know what? The problem did not start with your kid being online, the problem started with YOU. People with a healthy self image do not spontaneously struggle with disordered eating.

If you've ever made a demeaning comment about someone's - anyone's! - body, you can shut right the fuck up about how horrified you are at people starving themselves. You're a perpetrator in this. Your words are an affirmation of things that already echo in our thoughts.

There is no anorexia cult seducing youths to starve themselves. You planted the seed, buddy. Can these communities be toxic? Hell yeah, they can be. Can these communities be a breeding ground for negative interaction? Hell yeah, they can be. You put a bunch of vulnerable people in one place, it's gonna take a lot to get positivity out of them. But it isn't the fault of other people in your offspring's ana group chat that your offspring wants shelter and people to understand them. YOU were supposed to provide that, YOU were supposed to teach healthy relationships with self image, and you fucking failed. So you can shut the fuck up about how upset and disgusted you are.

Every time you comment on your daughter's clothing, every time you misgender your son, every time you expect your child to obey and be unquestioning, you are planting seeds and watering them. You are the one that made your daughter realize clothes might fit better if she skips a few meals. You are the one that made your son desperate enough to starve himself so that he could have lanugo. You are the one that exhibited a lack of consent in boundaries, creating a snowball towards the conclusion that being skinny might be the only thing your kid can be in control of in their life.

Quit being horrified. Quit being disgusted. Shut the fuck up or change how you treat people. You don't get to sit back and be shocked at the damage you did and act like it was someone else. Or, if you don't have the dignity to not be horrified and disgusted, at least don't blame other people because you were a shitty fucking parent.

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greelin

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don't forget you're here forever

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what the fawk 😐

sexyalchemist

hey besties friendly reminder to drink water, feed your lab rats, turn off your evil nuclear generator, change out of your dirty lab coat, go for a walk and take care of yourself <3