hey

i guess this is my proship sideblog now.

[niece-jemima]

just making a real quick pinned post, nothing fancy

I do NOT believe in identity policing. you tell me how you identify, you don’t tell me how you identify, whatever. it’s not my business to tell you how you’re allowed to identify, period. You know yourself better than I know you, and I hope you’ll allow me the same grace.

this is a sideblog, if you want my main, my aesthetic + goreblog, or my otherkin blog, dm me. i’m not ready to go public about being proship on my main bc my mental health is bad and i joined tumblr without realizing how serious the topic was, so i don’t know that I won’t get harassed if I go public about it

I am an adult! I am fine interacting w/ minors, but I would ask that minors keep any conversations w/ me sfw

this is a space where I will speak my mind. 

I identify as queer, please to not ask me to tag q-slur, my identity is not a slur.

I hope you’re having a fantastic day, and if you ever need a shoutout, do not hesitate to ask! I fucking love uplifting others.

will sometimes leave anon love :3c

[proselfship-culture-is]

proselfship culture is getting to say that getting surgery made me proship. there's like. way more to the story, but it's way funnier to say it like that.

….anon what?

[planetpopstarian]

I went through the same thing; I have stickler syndrome and had to get eye surgery when I was a young teenager. I have had eye surgery a couple of times, but I was afraid of going blind and getting an iv in my hand, which the liquid was cold and hurt so much I screamed.

Then I remembered my old antiship tumblr account and realized that I'm not truly an antishipper if I get off to dark fiction and against harassment over fiction and shipping, then I passed out due to the cold liquid.

So here we are, now! lol.

[proselfship-culture-is]

That makes three (3) people who realized they were proship due to surgery. I did not realize this was such a common experience

[lesbiancalebmir]

i gotta get back into the community i gotta i gotta. pls rb if ur an adult and a selfshipper who ISNT an anti

[niece-jemima]

'stolen from an anti :3'

can you PLEASE just make your own shit like ACTUALLY.

[raindropsonwhiskers]

hi don’t know if you’re aware but you reblogged a post not long ago about anime haters being red flags (which yeah absolutely agree) by user @ luzon-dove and unfortunately that person is an incest blogger. id link the post to make it easier for you to find but I can’t in an anon ask sry :(

Okay and? Based of them

[niece-jemima]

as if digging up dirt on randos online isn't a red flag lmao. sometimes i wonder about people who send messages like this

[proshippers-against-censorship]

Saw this in a proshipper community, but an Undertale horror AU fandom was getting up in arms about its creator drawing aged up art of their oc sitting on their Sans’s lap in a swimsuit on patreon.

They were calling the creator a pedo for aging up a character? The posts about it were so obnoxious, one of them was phrased along the lines of “breaking news!!! This artist was caught being a proshipper!”

Why are horror fandoms always like this? Characters literally drugged this girl, got her head chopped off by a bear trap, tricked her into cannibalism, but oh no, a swimsuit drawing of her as an adult is where they draw the line.

Because for some reason, sex is put on some arbitrary pedestal, always.

[proshipshy]

Contender for my new favorite DNI

(ID: screenshot of a tumblr intro post section that reads “If you're proship, and you know it, DNI. If you're comship, and you know it, DNI. If you're darkship, and you know it, and you really like to show it, if you ship real person fiction (RPF), DNI.”)

[tiktok-antis]

Bringing age into it doesn't defeat the point that you did a crime, also 200?! Yeah that type of money can definitely harm someone financially for a bit depending on their situation, they most likely saved that shit up just to get the luxury?? 😭 They could of probably used that for a lot of shit, like a singular grocery run (lmfao sorry)

Fact everyone in the comments were hyping it up, down playing the crime, which if you dont know SCAMING IS A CRIME especially if it's for real money, a few saying they're also going to do this tf <///3333 "Remembering the time I scammed someone for having a difference stance on fiction 😂😂😂😂😂" okay weirdo

▸ I DONT CONDONE ANY HARASSMENT TOWARDS ANYONE THAT IS POSTED TO THIS PAGE, ANTI OR NOT.

[galaxydotwav-deactivated2026051]

antis are trying really hard to make me break my "dont call the cops" rule

[animentality]

[olderthannetfic]

Yeah, that's actually kind of the problem with A Secret Third Thing discourse:

The two sides of this are "I don't like censorship or bullying" vs. "It's activism to harass people".

They can certainly both be self-righteous activists on the surface, and there are certainly hypocrites describing themselves as proshippers, but this is not a Both Sides issue. This is good values vs. security theater at best and intentional harassment for funsies at worst.

What you're saying is that people who are loudly anti-bullying are just as annoying as bullies.

Come on now!

[olderthannetfic]

What gets me the most about the "not anti not proship but secret other thing" type of posters who very much fit the proship criteria. is that they present the anti vs pro "debate" as a terminally online thing.

surely, surely antis and their conservative views turn off the moment they are not on their phone right? assuming you can police people's thoughts and desires is terminally online thing isn't it?

come the fuck on. i know these are not serious people to begin with but if you understand the nature of debate that it is about harassment and ship and let ship you can also understand that thinking sex is making everything dirty and icky and being horny for the wrong thing is punishable is not good especially in the current climate.

i don't need them to try and change the antis minds but i need them to stop being so obtuse.

also antis are not all children a lot of them are in their early 20s that's someone old enough to vote.

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The secret third thing is generally "I only want to censor [RPF, underage, my squick]" plus "I don't like bullying, but I'm too much of a wimp to ever tell any bully to stop bothering the person next to me".

They can't admit it's not a terminally online thing because then they would have a responsibility to fight back against the fascists in their midst and that's hard and scary and will get them called names.

[olderthannetfic]

watching an long-time mutual slowly getting sucked into the whole antiship thing has been kind of enlightening. it started out with posts that were like, "real-world issues and injustices are important to talk about," and it's slowly become posts about how "people shouldn't get so caught up in their fiction and fantasies that they don't acknowledge the real-world issues," and eventually, posts about, "people making fanworks about heavy/taboo topics can't expect not to be critiqued on how they handle those topics and if they don't like that people are doing that then that means they know deep down they have something to feel guilty about." it seems like a narrowing of perspective while claiming to be taking a broader view.

my hypothesis is that a lot of people like this are searching for some sort of universal principle or algorithm they can personally apply to consuming media and engaging in fandom that maximizes "good." i just don't think that's feasible.

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The world sucks. They want a sense of control. The easiest way to get that is via joining a cult.

Self help, literal religious cult with a compound, stupid-ass morality crusades: they all prey on the same things.

[devoteddummydoll]

watching a friend of mine angrily defend CNC online and then shame people with an incest kink for being gross

[the-bar-sinister]

[whumpkink]

caretaker developing romantic/sexual feelings for whumpee and feeling extremely guilty because whumpee is recovering from awful and traumatizing shit, caretaker has no right to fall in love in this situation. extra cookie points when the shit involves sexual trauma, caretaker would rather die than be feeling anything similar to attraction.

[rosieselfships]

I wanna see less selfship imagines that are like "imagine going on a date with ur f/o and getting married and having children teehee" and more imagines that are like "imagine your f/o kidnapping you and keeping you in a cage"

[rosieselfships]

Honestly I like a mix of both. I love with when theres fluff in an otherwise very fucked up scenario. I love imagining my f/o kidnapping me and keeping me in a cage and forcing me to be their partner...but they cuddle me and give me everything I want and love me.

[olderthannetfic]

I've recently started reading "I transmigrated into a fantasy world to farm and build houses" on novelbin and I'm so obsessed. It's BL isekai (vietnamese author i think), very slice-of-life and heavy on cooking and meal prep in general. Modern guy reincarnates into a villain cannon fodder character in a primitive beastman tribe and motivates them to farm to and stuff (mainly to get back to a more comfortable life for himself), which is absolutely my jam. The main couple is very slow burn and protag, while an adult in the modern age, is the equivalent of a teen in beastman years (and it's gonna be 30 years until he's considered an adult or something). The ML told him that he'll wait for him and I'm just laughing because antis would hate this.

If I had a dollar for every food-heavy story I got into lately, I would have 3 dollars, which isn't a lot but it's weird that it happened thrice (the other two are Delicious in Dungeon and Campfire Cooking in Another World)

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There are a lot of food-heavy stories.