nita's notes!

nenita she/her 24

[nitasnotes]

about me!

hi welcome to my blog! i'm nita, she/her, 24, from the u.s.

this is my return to tumblr since 2017 with a fresh new blog where i hope to share posts about music, movies, books, and all my random interests. might write some essays, reviews, or just random thoughts.

fav music <3 taylor swift, ariana grande, sza, lana del rey, lorde, charli xcx, beyonce, troye sivan, slayyyter, remi wolf, clairo, omar apollo, carly rae jepsen, kehlani, 5sos, kaytranada, arctic monkeys, the neighbourhood, cage the elephant, faye webster, rosalia, magdalena bay, kacey musgraves, steve lacy, kendrick lamar,,,, i also love 2nd/3rd gen kpop: bts, snsd, got7, exo, red velvet, f(x), exid, shinee, monsta x, 2ne1. also kr&b/khh: dean, heize, jay park, hoody, kisum

fav movies <3 clueless, lady bird, 10 things i hate about you, bodies bodies bodies, hereditary, us, marriage story, ferris bueller's day off, her, past lives, turning red, luca, monsters inc, the last black man in san francisco, eighth grade, la la land, everything everywhere all at once,,,

fav books <3 normal people, alone with you in the ether, transcendent kingdom, catcher in the rye, everything i know about love, crying in hmart, the stationery shop, mary jane, the anthropocene reviewed, martyr!, thg

other interests <3 concerts, modern and contemporary art, street fashion, rollerskating, matcha, ice cream, boba, wavy/curly hair, vinyl, graphic design, 2014, gender studies, anthropology, sexual & reproductive health, libraries, pompompurin, hello kitty

thank you for visiting! feel free to send me a message, ask/give recs, or just talk! let's be friends <3

[nitasnotes]

what I watched and read in may 2026 🌾📚🪴🎞️✨

watched:

the devil wears prada (2006) dir. david frankel

letters to juliet (2010) dir. gary winick

mother mary (2026) dir. david lowery

obsession (2025) dir. curry barker

backrooms (2026) dir. kane parsons

read:

I’m still here: black dignity in a world made for whiteness by austin channing brown

everything I never told you by celeste ng

currently watching:

nothing 🙃

currently reading:

mockingjay by suzanne collins

alone with you in the ether by olivie blake

[banana-milk-offical]

lets do a thing :3

rb with your name, orientations and gender, preferred pronouns, optionally some struggles or joy being LGBTQ has brought you, and some comfort/affirmations or whatever for the person before and after you!!!! why is this so detailed bruh. and tag peeps ig??

Hai! I'm Nyxon

I am transgender FTM, asexual, and omniromantic!

My preferred pronouns are he/they!

Being LGBTQ makes me happy. Despite being cloested, it makes me feel like what I am actually makes sense and I'm not just some weird ahh guy. I used to be a girl who was angry a lot of the time for no reason, which is ironic ngl

Whoever you are, you are valid.

HAPPY PRIDE MONTH!!!

@writer-offical @mike-wheeler-offical @dying-pen-offical @itsuwari-no-kibo-offical @fay-offical @bees-in-a-beehive-offical @deductivelogico-offical @mossnrocksnmarshwater

[dying-pen-offical]

Greetings...I am Pen! ^^

I am [sexuality has not been unlocked], asexual, and nonbinary!

My preferred pronouns are They/Them. :)

I have a bunch of friends in the LGBTQ+ society...*stares*

Person before me: *deep breath* GET GENDER-AFFIRMED NYXON! HOW HE/HIM OF YOU! THEIR SO AWESOME GUYS LOOK HE/THEY HE/THEY HE/THEY BOY BOY BOY! AHHH THEY ARE SO ACCEPTED AND SCRUMPTIOUS WOWZA! EVERYONE LOVES THEM THEM THEM RIGHT???? (I am. So sorry if this is overboard. ^^' You can burn me at the stake if you want.)

Person after me: You're so cool and amazing and I think you deserve everything you put your little LGBTQ+ friendly heart to. :)

Happy pride month everyone! Have a very safe month because I am going to run over all the homophobe-shaped speed bumps as a treat! :3c

@sacabambaspis-offical @ashelf66 @confused-cookie-blog @toaster-waffle-offical @bacone-official @britishtea-again @unlabelled-offical @genderqueer-offical + anyone else who wants to join! Yay! This was fun! ^^

[genderqueer-offical]

hey, i'm genderqueer. (no real name yet... so nicknames are very welcome)

i am genderfluid, aegosexual, and abroromantic!

[id: i am genderfluid, aegosexual, and abroromantic!]

my preferred pronouns depend on the day or situation... but i use she/her and he/him separately, or sometimes interchangeably. currently i think i'm going by he/him right now...

being queer is a very mixed experience for me. romantically, i absolutely love that i am able to feel attraction towards the beauty of every gender (albeit, sometimes at different times), however, for sexual and gender orientations, it can make me quite frustrated. because i'm afab, my gender dysphoria can be insane when i'd rather be male, which makes it irritatingly hard to be alone with my thoughts. secondly, the only reason i'm aegosexual (asexual) is due to the fact that i am not amab. when i'm feeling more male, i have a tendency to fantasize (not going to say it explicitly, but you know what i mean) and have it immediately tamped down because i don't have an amab body. it can get really fucking annoying.

person before me: hey pen, thanks for tagging me! you seem really cool and i'm very grateful that you're running over all the negativity :) have a safe and happy pride month!

person after me: though i haven't read your post, all of you experiences are valid. if you aren't already, you are going to be okay, things are going to work out, and everything you've done will very soon pay off. thank you so much for reblogging this post and sharing part of your life with us! have an absolutely gorgeous day, and an even better pride month <3

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moots vv (...and more in the reblogs)

@roxie-cozyspace @snail-offical @small-bottle-of-expired-milk @neptuenery @days-without-ai-ads-offical @do-not-u-dare @a-machine-that-yearns-for-love @costco-offical @null-the-void-monarch-offical @chickfila-offical @sapphic-offical @7-eleven-offical @raventhecrispy-offical @bacone-official @gold-offical @coffee--spill @macandcheese-offical @parentscomputer-official @itsuwari-no-kibo-offical @somebeaver-offical @hekate-offical @pipis-official @teapotsoffcialyup @3scap3fr0mr3al1ty @gruz-mothers-official @choir-offical @unshipper-offical @charlie-kirk-official @fox-offical @ham-sandwich-consumer-offical @pegz-and-rexy-offical @eraser-offical @overlord-offical @chill-lesbian2013 @international-electromatics @radioactive-bread-offical @singapore-offical @cleaning-spray-offical @gayness-offical @walmart-job-certificate-offical @star-offical @sophisticated-offical @thecatboyknight-offical @penny-offical @james-offical @deductivelogico-offical @imightbeafaerie-official-offical @recycle-official @toaster-waffle-offical @krow-offical @oppossum-offical @biwaterpup-official @evilest-offical @the-one-and-only-piper-offical

[genderqueer-offical]

@voice-actor-offical @nug-offical-deactiv @ultimatedreamer-official @h2o-official @trans-boy-thing-offical @god-the-offical @tin-cant-offical @lancer-coolguy @trans-trout-offical @perfection-official @watashiwagarydesu-offical @riley-misreads-offical @kyo-sohma-official

[tin-cant-offical]

Hello :)

I’m Russell, better known as Tin Cant

I’m aroace and transmac

My preferred pronouns are he/they

Being queer is an important part of my life. For a very long time I was confused on why I was so different from other people in school when they started dating and I felt nothing towards any of my peers. Discovering myself really turned that around and I’m really proud of who I’ve become. I now am not worried about dating as much, and in recent years I’ve begun to see myself as handsome instead of a strange girl. I still love that girl as she is a part of me, but I’m much happier where I am now, especially since I’ve finally found a name that fits my soul. It feels good when people use that name :)

Person before me: Thank you @genderqueer-offical for tagging me in this! I’ve never done one of these before so I hope I did a good job :)

Person after me: You’ve got this! I can’t wait to learn more about you especially since I don’t know a whole lot about my moots :)

moots ⬇️

@the-retired-king-of-beans @hekate-offical @askvoxofficialvoxtek @fayonette @raventhecrispy-offical @snail-offical @golden-corral-offical @normal-offical @null-the-void-monarch-offical @amnesia-offical @aftonsparv-ikea-alien-offical @eraser-offical @days-without-ai-ads-offical @chickfila-offical @maryland-officially @oppossum-offical @marshmallow-dust @gaster-wd @burning-britain-official @penny--offical @squidiot-official @costco-offical @cleaning-spray-offical @bacone-official @aluminum-canz @singapore-offical @artificially-generated-official @yearning--offical

[aftonsparv-ikea-alien-offical]

Hiya!!

I'm Rowan (or Via if you wanna be a dick, idrc) , Also known as That fuckass ikea alien!!

I am pan but still fall on the aroace spectrum (demisexual/romantic) and trans masc (^0^)>**

He/they

Being queer is something I mostly hide irl, dropping minute hints here and there. My parents are rather unsupportive of me, but my friends and my cousin aren't. It took 5 years to realize I wasn't cis after feeling wrong when I looked in the mirror. Honestly my first exposure to queer media was Steven Universe. It changed my life and is my comfort show now. I even bought the box set lol. If I hadn't seen the show I'd probably not be alive, seeing as I was told being queer was sinful my entire life.

Person before me: Thank you for tagging me @tin-cant-offical, you did amazing broseph, I loved hearing your story.

Person after me: Regardless of what little support you may have, there are millions of people, just like you. Keep going.

Mooties:

@lemonpeep2025 @nthingmoree @pond-scum-offical @walmart-job-certificate-offical @god-the-offical @squidiot-official @blue-offical @school-chromebook-official @maryland-officially @ton-618-official @itsybitsyspider-official @hollyberry-cookie-offical @unshipper-offical @eraser-offical @cleaning-spray-offical @cloudytwilightythingy @ovloppy @golden-corral-offical @smurkems @a-very-humanyes @obsesseddemonlord-offical @costco-offical @normal-offical @snail-offical @days-without-ai-ads-offical @chickfila-offical @sam-witch621 @malwareproductions @mmtmbd2306 @mangled-up-pincushion @fartdinglebutt @xaomi11 @the-greatest-taste-around @s33k-gung1rl @goldenbunny30 @sunnyponies @olliipopp @warmfuzz-ies @whistify @mymissalicorne @umbrywashere @no-one-offical @imhousingit-ohimhousingit @horror-movie-offical @crunchy-bisquit @imb0ring @imbeinggaslighted-probably @kingkit7734 @deductivelogico-offical @hekate-offical @towel-offical @crillmeister2000 @toy-chica-offical @johnnyshank @pinkiepiethesmiley @yourunusalartist @thisizkrisizkriz @frostysnowglobe @animalsz @marsislost112 @nervoswreck @fluffyautumnsblog

holy fuck thats a lot im sorry if I missed anyone😰

[cloudytwilightythingy]

greetings ^^

my [online] name is Cloudy or Twilight [no irl name privileges yet lol]

i'm aroace [quiromantic n apothisexual to be specific] and agender :]

pref: they+any neos!!

i've struggled with my humanity due to, in part, being queer. but at the end of the day, i'm glad to be the way i am ^^ i carry too much love to just focus on one person alone; i look at my partner and friends with the same love and admiration in my heart <3

person before me: tysm @aftonsparv-ikea-alien-offical for the tag!!! i hope one day you'll be able to safely be openly queer irl!!!!! i'm glad you're alive, stay safe!!!

person after me: no matter what people tell you, no one gets to define your humanity for you. that's something only you can define for yourself, and something only you can say whether you experience it or not

moots!!!!

@sapphiregem01 @agentxnumx @playing-pozzum @pintheflamingo @monkeyoolol @fuckupwithashotgun @koiagain @hekate-offical @toaster-waffle-offical @days-without-ai-ads-offical @apocalyptic-endings @raventhecrispy-offical @null-the-void-monarch-offical @princefable @deductivelogico-offical @horror-movie-offical @itsuwari-no-kibo-offical @auramxnt @international-electromatics @taco-bell-offical @obsesseddemonlord-offical @sunnyponies @11-1366559937 @sophisticated-offical @switchedaccs @silly-lil-arson-frog-mom-offical @bacone-official @perfection-official @the-faction-not-found-deact @cosmic-entity-official @goldenbunny30 @transmasc-offical sorry if any have already been tagged °=w=

[auramxnt]

aight

hello, I’m Lucky! I’m Pan and a cis girl, she/her, uhh struggles are mainly with being religious and having a homophobic mom,

person before: Don’t worry cloudy, just because you’re different from some peers does not make you any less human!

person after(and for anyone before too!): if you ever feel down, remember how boring the world would be if everyone was the same!

@penji0000 @iammentallystable16 @weevilxp @nessspooks @fugu2000 @the-grassy-hill @vampire-with-glitter

[the-grassy-hill]

bet

hi im Mateo! I’m pretty much just aroace for how complicated and little attraction is for me but I’m also Achillian when I do experience it and when I yearn for a boyfriend. I’m transmasc and staticgender (i added an alternative definition!). I use he/him usually but i like they/it sometimes

ummmm I feel lesser than bc of being ace a lot. That and I’m somewhat religious so that’s not fun

person before: don’t forget how loved you are

person after: I love you

@sharkwithpaws @jasethevoid2 @thedamsolangelofan @dogtea-th @dani-seys-so @you-think-it-makes-you-special and open to moots!

[ace-has-decayed]

hello everyone :3

I'm Ace! I'm Transmasc and lesbian, but questioning if I like NB people

he/him

person before: love ya too

person after: life's too short to be normal.

moots!

@aspenindatree @star-crossedloverboy @winterinkspill @dont-let-me-kms @my-raine-storm @221lesbiandconfused @Soda-pop @myblo0dispurple @crims0nr0s3 @calcium-is-screaming2

[calcium-is-screaming2]

hi i’m asher! i’m genderfluid (potentially jst trans ftm?), lesbian, and on the aroace spectrum ()

a struggle I’ve had is feeling like i can’t talk as openly about things out of fear of outing myself

a positive is all the amazing queer friends i’ve made!

person before: you’re super cool :)

person after: remember you’re awesome and to drink water

@stank-bugg @st0rmstruckskyz @juno-the-great @psyche-official @aleks-is-dead + open tags!

[aleks-is-dead]

Hi im Aleks im gay and transgender

A struggle is dysphoria

A positive is that i can pick my own name

Person before: im sometimes scare to interact with you cuz youre cooler than me

Person after me: i love you/p

@ilikeweirdandcoolthings @milo-the-clown @j3nny21xcx @irlorangecat @sillyshinx @doraisawda @komokiri + open tags

[irlorangecat]

Hi I’m Maja

Im an aroace creature

I struggle with not being understood by most of the queer community and outside world

A positive is that in the eyes of my friends and some family members I already seem queer and when I hint at it to my school friends they don’t see me any differently

Message to the person before: You’re really cool dude, people around you are just fucking idiots and can’t see that

Message to the next person: You are valid to just exist as yourself, struggles and all (also you’re really really really damn cool)

@norzyczki @theinterpretingbookworm + open tags

[theinterpretingbookworm]

hello, i’m neela 🌀

honestly, I don’t know what i am. i prefer to just stay unlabelled because I don’t think that I can clearly ‘define’ my sexuality. I used to think that I am on the aroace spectrum but now I’m not so sure anymore 🫣

the same goes for my pronouns. You can she/her me but honestly, I don’t care about being labelled differently. I’m pretty chill regarding that.

I don’t struggle w what I am but I also don’t feel joy about myself. I just… exist I guess. I don’t feel shame . I just am what I am. And I don’t think that I need to stress about it.

Message to @irlorangecat : just wanted to tell you ; thank you, for always tagging me and I understand your struggle. Lots of care and hope from me to you 🫶🏼

message to @petrichor-mist @coraxoxo @nitasnotes @dancealonexx @deerstuckinheadlightsx : I hope that you always have a window of joy in your lives and it’s okay if u don’t know what you are <3

[nitasnotes]

HAPPY PRIDEEE THANK U FOR TAGGING 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️✨

I’m nita, my pronouns are she/her, and I identify as a cis woman

I identify on the ace spectrum but in general I feel that my sexuality is pretty fluid. I admire pretty boys and beautiful girls and gender nonconforming baddies but sometimes my aceness blurs the lines between my platonic/romantic/sexual attraction. for a while I really tried to figure it out, but eventually I just accepted that I will be attracted to whoever I am attracted to.

having a strong diverse community of queer friends has really helped me grow more confident in my all my intersecting identities (ace, woman, filipino, american, etc). and honestly none of my friends have gone out of their way to come out to me; we just like who we like and it’s no big deal.

while I’m very grateful and lucky to have maintained such a strong, supportive community irl, I gotta give kudos to my online community on ig and tumblr growing up where I was able to learn about identity and interact with people of all different backgrounds.

funny enough I don’t feel gay enough to call myself queer or identify with the lgbtq community, but I definitely do not like to call myself straight. overall, I will always be much more comfortable in queer poc spaces where I can show up as whoever I am, be 100% myself, and be fully accepted without question.

tagging any moots who wanna introduce themselves and talk about their lgbtq+ identity! happy pride 🩷🩷🩷

[nitasnotes]

I’m so tired of seeing wasian meetup discourse but unfortunately I might need to contribute sorry

[yellow-cat]

actually hate that the bodys response to anything is nausea. ate too much? nauseous. ate too little? nauseous. an imaginary threat got you scared? be nauseous. on your period? you guessed it. sawed into your hand and need to go to the emergency room? perhaps throwing up into your open wound will be of help

[cherryswaves]

[nitasnotes]

what I watched and read in april 2026 🌊📘🏝️📖✨💿

watched:

anora (2024) dir. sean baker

the drama (2026) dir. kristoffer borgli

ferris bueller’s day off (1986) dir. john hughes

hamlet (2025) dir. aneil karia

to all the boys I’ve loved before (2018) dir. susan johnson

the room (2003) dir. tommy wiseau

the pitt season 2

xo kitty season 3

beef season 2

read:

the wedding people by alison espach

catching fire by suzanne collins

time is a mother by ocean vuong

currently watching:

nothing! give me tv show recs pls

currently reading:

everything I never told you by celeste ng

what you are looking for is in the library by michiko aoyama

[worldscoolest]

[nitasnotes]

I’m so happy that slutty nerdy glasses are making a comeback YIPPEEEEE

[sophsun1]

The Breakfast Club (1985) dir. John Hughes

JUDD NELSON as John Bender

10 Things I Hate About You (1999) dir. Gil Junger

HEATH LEDGER as Patrick Verona

[satiricaily]

oh its so fucking over for me...

[djotime]

hayley williams ph. by zachary gray

[nitasnotes]

random side quest when I deleted tumblr for 3 weeks: I got really into house plants and bought six of them on facebook marketplace and have been fiending for more cuttings from everyone I know

when they’ve grown and look pretty (and when I clean my space) I’ll post pics and maybe become a plant blogger let’s fucking go #plantsummer

[saturnsdaughtr]

@lostinivyy tagged me in 5 songs i’ve been into recently!! Thank youu 🫶🏾🫶🏾

1. Summer Love by Justin Timberlake

2. Hellbent by Naomi Scott

3. What Goes Around… by Justin Timberlake

4. No Pole by Don Toliver

5. MONACO by Bad Bunny

Tagging: @wishful-dreamings @nitasnotes @starssvng

[nitasnotes]

THANK YOU FOR TAGGING ✨🩷😁

5 songs I’ve been into lately:

all this love by debarge

she by tyler, the creator (feat. frank ocean)

you owe me by malcom todd

gee by girls’ generation

girl like me + kaytranada by pinkpantheress (feat. kaytranada)

I tag @theinterpretingbookworm @palemoonarchive @stargirlslovethesmiths @vamptual @souplah @sleepandblog @upallnightwithmusic + anyone else who wants to share their music!! (I love to see everyone’s music taste hehe) 😛

[crittaslink]

"who said that" is a powerful spell that casts a defensive bubble around your most vulnerable thoughts

[nitasnotes]

sorry I ran out of storage on my phone and had to delete the tumblr app jdnsjdjsj

[hollanderthoughts]

Wait…. 😳 there’s a way out?

[hollanderthoughts]

Fuuuuuuck me. It’s through? And that’s the only way? Fuuuuuuuck dude