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Check boxes for same-sex couples will be offered in the 2020 census in an attempt to fix a long-standing problem of Census Bureau overcounts of these couples. In addition, the census will ask those who check the white or black race boxes to say more about their national origins.

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5 Types of Grief Nobody Told You About

To lose a loved one can impact our entire world. Suddenly, we need to adjust to living without an essential figure; the process of adaptation to the changes imposed by the death of a relative is known as grief.

If you have already experienced this situation, some of the symptoms may sound familiar: hopelessness, disbelief, anxiety and distress, rage, emotional numbness and even physical pain. However, there is a wide range of different situations that can elicit the same feelings. Who has not experienced outrageous pain after their first-love breakup? Or when they realized they aren’t a child anymore? Most surely, you did not feel understood when people commented you were reacting as if ”someone has died”. Psychologically, your reaction was completely normal.

Why you should value all kinds of losses

The truth is losses come in all forms and shapes and as they provoke changes in your daily life, they will include grief. To cope with a meaningful loss requires time and active inner work from the grieving person. Nonetheless, you do not need to panic: only a small percentage of grief processes become pathological as a result of not overcoming that deep emotional hole. If you still feel stuck two years after the loss has happened, this may be a sign to contact a specialist.

In this article, we selected five of the most common significant losses nowadays. Acknowledging the necessity of coping with them is essential to achieve social recognition for other kinds of grief and improve the conditions under which the process takes place. Otherwise, we may face Disenfranchised grief, that is non-socially accepted grieving, more likely to end up producing a pathology.

5 Types of Personal Losses that Also Trigger Grief

1. Migratory Grief

Migrating brings big changes to life, both good and bad. The first stage of a migratory process demands…………

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Scorpio and Pluto in Scorpio (1984-1996) Planets in the 8th House, Pluto in the 1st, 8th Moon-Pluto aspects

once she was an innocent girl, knowing only of picking daisies of love me love me nots, and then she turned into the age maybe she was thirteen or fourteen, and the earth began tearing open beneath her feet, so fearing for her life she reached for the mysterious hand seducing with a pink pomegranate glossed in icing, too delightful to deny, and this is the place she would call home for the remainder of her lives and deaths …because with every mouthful, another pomegranate seed was planted inside her body until she became addicted to something she couldn’t see, an ancient medicine and a venom emptying out slowly, the roots growing into the darkness a darkness, Hades had convinced had belonged to her for eternity, a once sweet girl who now finds herself hanging off the edge of sanity captive and infatuated, making pacts and deals with demons desperate to be returned to the girl in the flower garden who lived in the peace of bliss, the girl who didn’t know anything before this longing to be taken away to a safe place but this is also the exact place she she wants to be, with her veil, her bouquet of black roses that can never die, riding the chariot of the crowned Bride of Hades - Cherry 💋

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thedarkperidot

Signs you grew up lonely

- Chasing people who don’t want you

-Making up lots of stories and worlds

-Overtalking whenever there’s someone to talk to

-Excessive reading

-Daydreaming

-Clinging emotionally to others

-Being the ‘disposable’ friend in the group

-Excessive baths

-Talking to oneself

-Obsessive friendships

-Excessive helpfulness

noirgodd8ss

Welp there's my childhood

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Never go to bed a single night without knowing, even the lowest part of your soul, that no matter what this world thinks of you, you are deeply loved and deeply known by a God who wants you to know Him and love Him back.

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Elizabeth Hurley as The Devil in Bedazzled (2000, dir. Harold Ramis)

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musical faces

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Once my friend Henry was accused of wearing wireless headphones by a substitute so she said for him to hand them over so he took them off and handed them to her. Then later on she asked him a question and he didn’t respond so she said it louder and he still didn’t respond. She asked why he was not responding and he said “I can’t understand you ma'am, you took my hearing aids.”

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HOLY SHIT

mamoru

one time we had a sub that was handing back papers and called my name. I asked if someone could grab it for me and she started mocking me for not even standing up. taunting me asking why I was not walking up to the front to get the paper myself.

my classmates went dead silent and after the sub’s laughter ended someone informed her that the wheelchair parked nearby belonged to me

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I had a sub in English once, on presentation day. And everyone goes up and does their thing, and then its my turn. The whole time im stuttering and mixing up my words, having to stop and re-say my sentences. The rest of the class is used to this and claps. However, by the time its over, the teacher is 100% done.

Starts saying horrible thing about how im going to have to get over my ‘fear of public speaking’ and how she’s heard 8 year olds give better presentations (plus worse things but I don’t really member them). By then im in tears and on the brink of a panic attack, and then she starts telling me off for crying The rest of the class is horrified. Then this boy stands up. He never been my friend and we never really got along, but he’d never bullied me. He told her in a pissed off, cold voice that in freshmen year I got a concussion and that I never really recovered from it, so all that was medical related and I couldn’t help it. Then he starts telling her off and the rest of the class joins him. The teacher is mortified and tries to cover her ass, but the whole class walked out and that boy took me by the shoulders and we all walked to the principles office and told him what had happened. Lets just say she isn’t teaching anymore. Also, turns out that boy had a sister like me, who couldn’t really speak. We’ve been best friends for 8 years and i’ll be his best woman at his wedding next year. The moral is that Teachers, even subs, and adults shouldn’t scold kids before knowing the whole story, because shit like that can fuck up kids self-esteem for the rest of their life.

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When I was thirteen, I had to have spinal surgery. When my doctor said I was allowed to attend school again, he said I had to use a wheelchair when on school grounds. My first day back at school, my special-ed teacher had put up a banner in her classroom that read, “There is no elevator to success. You must take the stairs.” I asked what that meant regarding my wheelchair, and she gave me detention for “disrespecting her authority”. The next week she gave us a homework assignment to design a poster that could potentially be used as a Public Service Advertisement. On the due-date, I handed this in.

My special-ed teacher was fucking OUTRAGED. She wanted me expelled for ridiculing her authority in front of the other students. The principal proclaimed my work to be “a masterpiece of satirical genius” and vetoed the special-ed teacher’s attempt to expel me.

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Reblogging this post yet again, this time for the masterpiece of satirical genius. Hope the teacher got in trouble.

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Who needs Meghan Trainor’s “NO” when there’s this masterpiece?

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I THINK YOU COULD USE A MINT

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this is literally honestly a fucking bop

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Black Women are the gift we don’t deserve, this is truly precious. She did a lot for these boys who will grow up into men. Black Women are the greatest, you are loved also. Don’t forget that ever.

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Just so we’re clear, if I point out that you did something racist, that’s not the same as me thinking you’re irremediably terrible. You did a racist thing.

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You think you don’t do racist things, homophobic things, etc? You do. I caught myself in fat phobic and homophobic lines of thinking/speech just this morning. I’m fucking gay married. Nothing disqualifies you from acting in a way that reflects the society you exist in. We are obliged to fight it. Why not fight it in honesty and with camaraderie?