Hey, I love your blog! I'm a prospective husky but I'm on the fence... I was wondering what are the best and worst parts of northeastern, in your opinion? Thank you!
Howdy there!Thanks for coming here for a little neighbourly over the fence chat. Well, I’m on one side of the fence, I respect you just chilling, sitting on the fence though.I’m getting nowhere with this joke.
Here’s what I think are the best and worst parts about Northeastern (do you want the good news or bad news first? Bad news? Okay.)
WORST: Co-Op and Global Learning
Ha, gotcha. For anyone skimming my blog, I probably just killed all desire they had to come here. But let me explain what I really mean.
Northeastern, as you may know, is known for our co-op program and how we encourage everyone to study abroad. Yes that’s right, even me, an engineering major, is getting to go abroad for a summer. But this is also a weird thing for us where every 6 months of so, a lot of people leave.
For co-op, you are split up randomly and will work for 6 months and go to classes for 6 months (essentially). There is no guarantee you will be on the same cycle as your friends, and you may end up not being in Boston near them. You may go anywhere from New Hampshire to Italy…you just don’t know where life will take you.
In other schools, kids go abroad all the time. At Northeastern, there are plenty of kids who actually *have* to go abroad. One of my good tour guide friends is going to Mexico for the next year and I won’t see her for that long (she’s in International Business). International affairs also has a mandatory study abroad, and then with all the different options for everyone else, its too good of an opportunity to pass up.
This brings a weird social dynamic where the friends you make early on might just…disappear. Heck, I saw a guy from my freshman engineering class the other night and was like, “LONG TIME NO SEE!” and he was like “Well I haven’t been on campus for a year and a half”.
Northeastern makes us grow up faster than normal college students. Not only are we working full time jobs, but we are experiencing an “adult” social life where not all your friends live in your same building or even state. It’s not a shift for everyone, and it can feel scary and overwhelming at times. But then you step back and remember that everyone is going through this too and it becomes a little more manageable.
Tying into that I said above, even leaving for NH for co-op taught me how many amazing friends I had here. I find the whole Northeastern population to be incredible welcoming no matter what.
You leave for 6 months? No one is going to forget you or move on. I mean, granted people may change and move on, but I suppose I should say they have not moved on from you. I honestly am experiencing so much love from my friends back at campus while I’ve been away.
You want to start a super nerdy game club with socially awkward kids? Congrats, you’re actually super cool. I’m partial to this example, and here’s my favorite story about the NEU community. When I went to an unofficial NEU NYC meet up, I was desperate for friends. Everyone seemed so cool and in my head, well, I wasn’t. I saw a guy take something out of his backpack, and in the process I spotted a box of Magic the Gathering cards. Bingo. Found my friend. Well, he is a super nerd but he was also incredible warm and friendly and not incapable of conversations on tons of topics. He’s still one of my good friends and this morning I sent a letter off to him out in California (he’s there on coop, and yes we communicate via snail mail).
I love the type of student that is a Northeastern student. I think we are what makes Northeastern great, and I think should you choose to come here, you’ll find the same.
Once again, these are just my opinions. Feel free to have your own experiences and agree to disagree. But I am also a proponent of making the best out of not the best situations.
And a little bit of extra advice to help you out?
Make a pros and cons list to help you decide what you value. Pros could be as simple has “is in Boston” and cons could be “does not have castle like buildings on campus”. I just find it helps to sort through things when you can write them down on paper
You’re doing an awesome thing by reaching out to me to ask opinions. If you haven’t don’t that with other schools yet, do it! Ask your teachers in school for advice too because they have probably seen students go to these schools you’re considering and can tell you what they have heard and what they know. My teachers knew I was a Northeastern student before *I* knew I was a Northeastern student.
Revisit the campus. I understand if you can’t do that, and perhaps you already have revisited (we did just have a lot of Welcome Days), but I find you might see a school in a second light when you visit upon acceptance.
Trust your gut, but also know it’s okay to be wrong. I used to have a teacher that told us to throw a dart at a board and go to whatever school we hit. I’m not going to tell you to do that, but go with your gut feeling and believe that the rest will follow. And if for some reason it doesn’t? That’s okay, you’re not signing away your soul. Just….just a decent amount of money. Ugh, that got too real.
I hope this helped and feel free to message me or email me if you want to noodle through any more thoughts to help you decide which school is the right fit for you~-D