is this forever

Queer. Nonbinary. Latinx. Polyamorous. Actor. Improviser. Sketch comedian.

[ashleyjowilliams-deactivated202]

[mielparaoshun]

Feels like paradise

[musinvenusian]

Black people with vaginas who are pregnant I urge you to find a black doula or a midwife to help with delivery. The medical community is extremely racist and contributes to mortality of black infants and those giving birth.

There is legit a medical bias that black people feel way less pain than other races, so our pain is taken way less seriously. We could be in a life or death situation and the yt doctors and nurses will brush off our pain.

It happened to Serena Williams also (look it up).

Medical bias against black and brown people is very much real.

And I would recommend reading the Medical Apartheid it delves deeper into the racist medical community that is still prevalent to today

[chill-aries]

“According to the CDC, black mothers in the U.S. die at three to four times the rate of white mothers, one of the widest of all racial disparities in women’s health. Put another way, a black woman is 22 percent more likely to die from heart disease than a white woman, 71 percent more likely to perish from cervical cancer, but 243 percent more likely to die from pregnancy- or childbirth-related causes. ”

From this article: https://www.npr.org/2017/12/07/568948782/black-mothers-keep-dying-after-giving-birth-shalon-irvings-story-explains-why

Here’s a link to the 1a page on this subject. Has a podcast about it as well as a link to Serena Williams discussing this:

https://the1a.org/shows/2018-05-14/why-u-s-maternal-death-rates-are-so-high-and-what-we-can-do-about-it

[musinvenusian]

^^^Bless for the extra info!

[mermaids-luv]

[funnelcloudd]

GREAT octopus TEN OUT OF TEN shiny

[lioness-alana]

This is a first edition holographic octopus. This is worth a lot of money.

[oriental1st-deactivated20200316]

“Size L” (from Guandong Big Girls Series #3, 1995) by Wang Yunpeng (王云鵬).

[paulsonsdern]

THE GREATEST REVIEW OF OCEAN’S 8 EVER

[astrolocherry]

Aries Attracts people by: Exuberance, capturing and inspiring the inner child, spontaneity, innocent mischief, determination, appetite for life and deep immersion with friends, will to defend at all costs, the philosophy of trying over and over again Loses people by: Antagonism and constant provocation, unpredictable outbursts, intimidation, temper, control, immaturity, treating people like resources

Taurus Attracts people by: Beauty and love, nurturing and open mindedness, creativity and sensibility, social intuition, given respect, wise guidance, consistency and composure, temptation and co-operation  Loses people by: Possession and control, lack of validating or defining state of relationship, lack of engagement in their interests, inflexibility, overly touchy and sensitive behaviour, treating people like resources  

Gemini Attracts people by: Wit, charm, and humour, intrigue, mystique and marvellous quantity of mind, adaptability and captivating conversation, libraries of information, spontaneity, curiosity, innocent mischief, infectious anticipation for the future  Loses people by: Erratic and unpredictable presence and communication, constant debating and provoking, dishonesty, forgetting engagements and important details, playing devil’s advocate

Cancer Attracts people by: Receptivity and ability to sooth disturbance, inclusive embrace, idealistic teachings and knowledge, humour and offbeat eccentricities, tender arms and wise guidance Loses people by: Constant repetition of destructive behaviours, withdrawal, unpredictable and one off outbursts of repressed rage, intrusive behaviour and trying to fix everybody’s problems, overly invested worrying and martyrdom 

Leo Attracts people by: Charisma, magnetism, and heart, playfulness and creativity, leadership, sense of justice, invested blessing in the lives of others, and competence, honour, appetite for life, will to defend at all costs, warm vitality, courage   Loses people by: Ego centrism, controlling behaviour, constantly demanding validation, lack of engagement in their interests, unpredictable outbursts, touchiness and over sensitivity 

Virgo Attracts people by: Wit, mind, sensibility, selfless giving and empathic conscience, wise guidance, stimulating conversation and knowledge, ability to care and nurture, natural proficiency and considerate Loses people by: Intrusive problem solving and fretting, critique, paralysed emotional defences, frequent disengagement, nagging

Libra Attracts people by: Natural appeal and mystique, adaptability and given respect and intrigue, cool charm and social skills, morality and empathy, relatable and sympathetic, and wise counsel, high ideals and opportunistic Loses people by: Being unassertive and allowing it to build into a monumental outburst, imitation or echoing, obsession with relationships and romantic encounters, dependency

Scorpio Attracts people by: Depth and allure, emotional bonding, safeguarding and undying protection, intellect and mystique, loyalty and slowly revealed vulnerability, ability to inspire inner confidence   Loses people by: Antagonism, control and possession, withdrawal and reactivity, emotional coldness and emotional paralysis, self-righteousness, disconnecting privacy, staunch defence of personal ideologies

Sagittarius Attracts people by: Playful humour, wisdom and intelligence, natural joy, faith and generosity, laughter, fascinating philosophies, high ideals and opportunistic nature, infectious anticipation for the future  Loses people by: Brutal and cruel honesty, refusing to apologise, diminishing and judging opinions and beliefs, self-righteousness, unpredictable temper, disinterested unless personally involved 

Capricorn Attracts people by: Thoughtful gestures and sensibility, respect and honour, natural grace and competence, loyalty, wise counsel, resilience and unspoken support and reliability, social adaptability   Loses people by: Lack of engagement and attention to their interests, emotional defences and paralysis, authoritarianism, trying to fix everybody’s problems, demand for conformity 

Aquarius Attracts people by: Captivating charm and compassion complexity, humour, loyalty, marvellous mind, eccentricities, and humanitarian conscience, high ideals and inspiring imagination, exaggerated curiosity   Loses people by: Self-righteousness and brutal honesty, emotional defences and paralysis, lack of deep personal engagement, unreasonable arguments and opposition  

Pisces Attracts people by: Wisdom and warmth, innocence and covert power, inspiration and social intuition, responsiveness and mystique, adaptability and spiritual radiance  Loses people by: Constant repetition of destructive behaviours, emotional projection, over dependency, overly invested worrying and fretting, martyrdom 

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[emotionalblkthottie]

“constant repetition of destructive behaviors” big mood

[pissvortex]

“IDK how y'all do this 9-5 shit”

- Karl Marx

[80sanime]

[reidalmighty]

Visit Original Link

[dollribbons]

cute little cow baby in a field of red flowers

[comfortapp]

Comfort: an app that makes you feel better

Hi! I’m a black nb programmer. I’ve been working on this app for about a year and it’s finally released!

Comfort is an app that you can go to whenever if you ever feel anxious, or want to self-harm, or feel suicidal. The app uses cognitive and dialectical behavioral therapy to help you get through a bad day.

The app is named Comfort after the idea of a comfort person, which was inspired by the @comfortperson​ blog. If you’re feeling like you’re being ignored by your comfort person. send the comfort bot the phrase “TextBack” and you’ll get specialized help!

After getting questions about gender identity, I’ve used the F.A.Q. from @transgenderteensurvivalguide to help guide questioning users! For questions about gender identity type “TransAdvice”.

You can also talk to the chatbot about your day or ask the bot what its favorite hobbies are. If you’re bored, if you’re just curious, Comfort is here for you.

You can try Comfort at comfort.launchaco.com. It’s totally free, forever.

[deeplylearning]

I just learned that some websites use cookies to adjust prices. That is, if you visit a certain website a lot the price will increase.

You can tell if that’s the case by checking the same web page on a different browser if you have a different number of stored cookies for that site. I checked something on Chegg and it was $14.95 on Chrome, $19.95 on Firefox, and $16.95 on Safari.

The fix? Clear your cookies for that website.

Reblog, save a wallet.

[justaquickquestion]

Plane tickets almost always do this!

[lmaodies]

PLANE TICKETS DO THIS ALL THE DAMN TIME 

When you’re looking for plane tickets and waiting for prices to drop, ALWAYS clear your cookies beforehand and switch between browsers. A friend of mine was looking for a flight and getting prices that were the CHEAPEST at $800-1000, I sent her a link for a round trip that was like $495, and it read as $900 on her computer because she had been hounding the airline site. 

[mugglesofficial]

alternatively: avoid all this headache by using incognito when shopping for plane tickets, text books, etc

[captocie]

Hotel rooms are notorious for this, as well. Just like, go on incognito mode to look at these sites, saves u a lot of time & hassle.

[gunzonyatmblr]

Bruh I ain’t never know dis thank you man

[kny111]

Another dope year at the annual and ever-growing “It’s my park day” hosted by the new york parks & union square folks. Always a blessing to be able to do our thing there. Here are some shots I was able to nab in between it all. That narwhal this bb asked for tthooo!!

[michaelmilkers]

cishets going to pride in support of their lgbt friends/family:

cishets going to pride to be politically active and do things like register voters:

cishets going to pride because they were invited by an lgbt person:

cishets going to pride because “gay people know how to party”:

cishets going to pride because they treat lgbt culture like a zoo to gawk at:

cishets participating in pride because it gets them good guy points:

[blackgrlsaremagic]

[somespicyshrimp]

me at 14: like maybe im a lil gay but i’m not gonna let that define me im so much more than my sexuality like i can be straight if i try really hard

me now: