Gabbi

22 // MN // Girls Choose love. Always.

[72-72-72]

it’s so attractive when someone is all about you and isn’t afraid to show it.

[nowthisisgay98]

girls are everything😍🥵🥺🥰

[bummedbum]

[nowthisisgay98]

Whenever i think someone is beautiful i always wanna message and tell them but at the same time i dont want them to think i only care about the looks because I definitely dont

[nowthisisgay98]

oh since ive taken my break on tumblr yuh girl started her half sleeve🔥🔥🔥

[nowthisisgay98]

ok if youre someone who wants to be in a genuine relationship and is over their ex and doesnt want it to be “just friends” message me because im over this🙄🙄🙄

[nowthisisgay98]

anyone wanna date me and NOT break my heart?? please and thank youuu

[schauwieiichschein]

i‘m so proud of you all

[botanize]

I love my daughter already whoever she is

[grandparentcore]

I will forever love simple, domestic things let’s bake together, go grocery shopping, drive around, just spend time together

[214214214214]

slowly becoming more aware of what’s really worth my energy

[4-12]

I love the “I can talk to you about anything and not feel judged” kind of vibe.

[petalya]

in therapy my therapist and i were talking about my own feelings of self worth in relationships. and she asked me to say qualities about myself that someone else would be attracted to, on a romantic and platonic level. so i named some things like compassionate, empathetic, etc. and she said “you named things that you can give someone. ways you can serve, rather than ways that you are” and y'all..my mind was blown that’s gonna stick with me forever like she then proceed to tell me actual innate qualities about myself that she liked and thought anyone else would like as well and i hadn’t even considered those because like she said i was focused on things i could do outwardly to attract and maintain connections rather than who i was as a person..goddamn!!! thats tea!!!

[petalya]

With this in mind, this also makes me think of the ways people describe us. When people say the reasons that they love/like you or describe you as a person, are they only naming ways that you serve them? Are they equating your worth with how much you do for them?

ex. “You’re such a good listener. You’re so generous, you’re so compassionate. You’re always there for me. You always hold me down. You’re reliable”

vs.

“You’re so funny! You’re very vibrant. You’re creative, passionate, and intelligent. You’re optimistic. You’re so talented at ____” , etc. I think that’s very telling.

[hauntified-deactivated20210730]

This FUCKED relationships up too because once this hit me, I realized people can just be in love with the way you make them feel instead of who you actually are. ALWAYS pay attention to the last little “vs” but there because it IS super telling

[blxckcurrent]

This

[teryworldwanderlust]

[pikachutwo]

[kaliforhnia]

Idk why I keep getting sad over people that don’t give a shit about me.

[backtooblack]