no you/your misia @noyou-rmisia - Tumblr Blog

This is no you/your misia. My name is 小鬼, I use xy/xym/xyr pronouns only. Do not use they/them or you/your. Do not use pinyin for my name, just copy and paste the characters.

I post content about my experiences with no you/your misia, examples of no you/your misia, answer common questions, positivity posts about no you/your users, and other interests like ghost art.

My tone is generally "/neutral" "/explain" "/information" "/genuine" "/general or /not at anyone specific", ask for clarification if needed

Please indicate whether the user is okay with you/your or does not use you/your when sending an ask, commenting, or reblogging

I generally just try not to use you/your for anyone but some people need you/your or prefer you/your so let me know :)

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This no you/your user practices Wu/ism

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digital selfharm is real. do NOT check up on that ex-partner/ex-friend. do NOT reread those old messages/conversations that you know will hurt your feelings all over again or that will otherwise make you feel like shit. do NOT block evade to see if you’re being talked about. inhale. exhale. let it pass and you’ll be better for it.

okay genq. if you are talking to someone who doesnt use you/r, instead of , for example, "tim, do you want to hang out?" would it be "tim, does he want to hang out?" or "does tim want to hang out?" i just want to make sure im doing this right ^^ thanks in advance!!!

Good question!

Some no you/your users are okay with both examples! I personally prefer the second one where tim's name is being used

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This no you/your user loves to try new things

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This no you/your user's favorite animal is a whale shark

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this no you/your user uses a screenreader

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Announcement

Hi everyone :3 I just wanted to say I'm so happy people are finding this blog helpful and informative! I am so happy I get to answer questions in asks and comments!

I have one request for everyone :) if everyone could please indicate whether they use you/your or don't use you/your when sending an ask or commenting, so I can properly address everyone, I would greatly appreciate it!

Basically, if someone would like a response from me please indicate if they use you/your or not, so I can respect everyones pronouns and boundaries ☺️

If it is not indicated I will try to avoid using you/your to be safe!

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I honestly don't blame a lot of people who perpetuate no you/your misia, a lot of them are misinformed. That is why it is vital for us as a species to have more curiosity and imagination about things we don't understand. If we only see black and white we miss the grey and beautiful colors and shades in between. Most things in life rarely have one aspect or reason to them.

We need to find the humanity in humans before judging.

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This no you/your user talks in third person

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Hey! Just wanna say that it's super valid that folks may not like those pronouns. I am very new to this, but I want to be as inclusive to people as possible. :>

Would someone who doesn't like you/yours pronouns know I am talking to them, if I am not using those pronouns? For example, if I wish to talk to owner of this blog, and I would ask a question, would it be interpreted I am talking to the owner of this blog when not using you/yours?

Thanks for the positivity and question!

Yes! Most people who have interacted so far are addressing me or no you/your users in general. No you/your is actually much more clear than you/your in my opinion because you use someone's name or pronouns. Not using you/your challenges one's brain to find new ways to refer to someone- such as using "the owner of this blog" "小鬼" "xy" "noyou-rmisia blog" "this blog/blogger".

This actually ties into a post I would like to make about how language shapes our perspective. All of these are different ways of describing me that depends on how someone views me and this blog! It challenges people to think carefully about how to address someone, what they perceive about a person, how to communicate & find shared language between two individuals, and more! Meaning if a person feels seen and acknowledged by the words using to describe them, the message will be received.

However, much like any pronouns or titles, sometimes communication misses the mark. If the person doesn't know who someone is referring to, there's no harm in asking for clarification, or providing clarification on either person's end!

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