naïve

a sideblog about narcissistic and borderline personality disorders I love to talk so message me if you want, I'll always answer :-) everything will be okay someday

[0nde3]

[rottenbutrecovering]

sorry if this sounds weird or doesnt make sense but does anyone else have black and white thinking with certain things and gray areas with others?? like with people im extremely black and white but when it comes to practically anything else im fairly open to gray areas and idk if thats common or if im just faking a symptom?????

This is common! Black and white thinking with BPD is mainly about people, and that’s enough to fit that section of the criteria. Saying that, you may have that kind of thinking in other areas that you may not notice!

[nateswinehart]

You gotta have a plan…

[speakingofabuse]

you don’t have to wait until you crash and burn to start self care

[life-with-bpd-things-blog]

BPD symptoms to stop making fun of and to recognize

needing attention 

outbursts of emotion (especially anger)

not getting out of bed

social withdrawal 

self-destructive behaviors

being clingy 

forgetting things

getting upset about everything

bad self-care

promiscuity 

weird/unusual triggers

needing validation 

note ~ these are not just symptoms of BPD and are present in many other mental disorders 

[npdbpd]

me: gosh i have little to no motivation or energy thanks to mental illnesses

me: *signs up for 6 AP classes, becomes a manager of a sports team, joins several clubs, starts playing on a varsity team*

me: oh boy am neurotypical yet

[npdbpd]

Phone: *makes a noise*

Me: fp? fp? fp? fp? fp?

Computer: *makes a noise*

Me: fp? fp? fp? fp? fp? fp?!

Anything: *makes a noise*

Me: fp? fp? fp? fp? fp?! fp?! fp?!

[npdbpd]

the dilemma that will never be solved

do i have a lot in common with my fp, or did i just copy almost every aspect of their personality ? guess we will never know !

[npdbpd]

plot twist: you are everyone's first choice.

[bpdkageyamatobio]

Me: makes a post detailing my complex emotional feelings and behaviours which are detrimental to my life caused by my borderline personality disorder

*crickets*

Me: makes a post which is just the word suffering over and over in 10 different fonts

*applause, famous men shake my hand as I accept an academy award-*

[softwaring]

me

[bean-pd]

me @ my hell brain after going through the 4737238th mood change in 3 hours: are you quite finished

[treeoflife2011]

i Love My Friends So MUch

i would Die For Them if they’d let me

[icedcoffeebee]

me: i don’t know, man. that’s not a rational reaction at all,

my bpd: 

[there-will-be-violence-deactiva]

[picsthatmakeyougohmm]

[bpd-hellfire]

me: i’m actually feeling okay

bpd: you’re mad now. angry

me: mood over, mood cancelled,