Why must fanders just..not listen? Why must they just jump to conclusions? Why must they harass you for giving Thomas basic criticism? Why must they be a bunch of prudes? Why must they be a bunch of narcissistic, self entitled, bratty, sensitive, lying fuck nuggets?! You can't even defend yourself without them tearing it apart. You can't even apologize without them pulling that apart too. You can literally slice your wrists open for them and they'd just laugh at you as you die! They take your tiniest mistakes and make them out to be like you sent a bomb threat!
I've been dragged on Fander Twitter for allegations that are lies and blown completely out of proportion. Somethings I have apologized for a million times. Somethings I don't feel like I need to or feel I'm not the one that needs to apologize, but I still apologized. Was it enough?Nope, it's like they want to bleed me fucking dry for everything until I'm dead. I try everything to get them to stop and they still keep firing at me. They won't give me a damn break! I nearly ended my life two days ago because of all this on top of everything else I'm dealing with. But if I said that to them, they'd think "oh that's too far of you, quit playing victim" DO YOU NOT KNOW YOU'RE MAKING SOMEONE NEARLY END THEIR LIFE?! YOU'RE VILLAINIZING SOMEONE WHO'S JUST MADE THE TINIEST OF MISTAKES!
Not all fanders are like this...but all the ones I've had run ins with are the most Regina George/Heather Chandler bitches I've ever met.
Have any of you experienced this? Whether existing fanders or ex-fanders?
Itās been pulled apart because youāre a liar. Youāre the narcissist. Youāve never made a genuine apology. You spoke inappropriately about sexual things to a minor. You death-threatened someone then tried to claim it was a joke.
Stop crying for attention. Itās honestly fucking pathetic at this point. As someone who has genuinely gotten very close to suicide multiple times Iām offended that youād make these bold claims to try to paint yourself as the victim further. If youāve actually come close or actually attempted then Iām very sorry to hear that. Genuinely. Itās not a good place to be in. But screaming at people āYOURE THE REASON IVE ALMOST KILLED MYSELFā is toxic, manipulative, and abusive.
You didnāt give Thomas basic criticisms. You dug at his appearance. Something heās made known heās sensitive about. And youāve done it multiple times. Youāve edited pics because they donāt fit your ideal of him. Your fap fantasies. Because youāve made clear that thatās all he is to you. You donāt care about his art or his music. You care about how horny he does or doesnāt make you.
Fanders calling that out doesnāt make them prudish. Thereās a time and a place for simping and the way you do it is NOT okay. You make assumptions about Thomas on a regular basis. āHe loves the simping he gets!ā You donāt KNOW that. Youāre not his personal friend. You do not have a relationship with him beyond parasociality. Thomas has had to ask you to stop with your comments. But you double down. You keep going.
Iām starting to think that vore isnāt your only kink. Iām starting to think you get off on playing a victim and on public humiliation. Because I cannot fathom why you continue to behave this way.
If MULTIPLE PEOPLE are telling you youāre toxic and awful and need to change. Guess what? You need to fucking change. Grow up. Take some responsibility. Get some help. Work on yourself.
Iām saying this as a person who used to have problems. Someone who used to have multiple people telling me I was toxic and needed to change. So I did. I started working on myself. My life is much better. Iām happier. Iām less exhausted. I have more friends than ever. But if you dig your heels in and stay the way you are nowā¦ I mean thatās your prerogative but youāre always gonna be miserable like this. Itās sad. Do better.
