[10212018] Youth Fellowship - Religion and Love
Topic: Religion and Love
Speaker: Ate Lara
Film #1Â - Why I hate RELIGION
Religious people are toxic because they are:
When in fact, they should be the catalyst of Godâs love. They tend to bring up religious stuff only when itâs convenient for them, but they never really apply it to themselves.Â
âPractice what we preach.â âWalk the talk.â
Religion distorts the image of God.
for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God,
-Â Â Â Â Â Â All of us are sinners. Just because you sin different does not make you better. Everyone is messed up, everyone is broken, everyone has their dirty little secret, itâs just that some people are very good at hiding theirs.
When we hit the rock bottom, we see that God is really the ROCK at the bottom. No matter how dirty you are, GOD LOVES YOU.
But God demonstrates His own love toward us, in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us.
Religion doesnât save. Jesus does.
God meets you where you are. Despite the sin and the shame, He forgot all about that, and He just loved you. Where can you find that kind of love?
Religion never gets to the core.
We are all infected and impure with sin. When we display our righteous deeds, they are nothing but filthy rags. Like autumn leaves, we wither and fall, and our sins sweep us away like the wind.
Salvation is not a reward for the good things we have done, so none of us can boast about it.
Salvation is not about the good works, itâs about GRACE.
GOOD WORKS = should be a product of Godâs love and grace.
GRACE = Unmerited, undeserved
We should just accept Godâs love because we cannot save ourselves. God does not look at our past. God sees us as His children. His love is amazing.
Jesusâ life is the only story where the HERO died for the villain (itâs us because we are all dirty). He died the death we should have died so we could live the life we should never have lived. God loves you and me.
Church is the hospital for the broken, not a museum for good and holy people.
We all need love, affirmation, and purpose and GOD could give it to us. Go to Jesus.
Jesus said to him, âI am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through Me.
ONLY JESUS COULD COMPLETE YOU. Not fame, not your career, not your grades, etc.
Itâs not about religion. Itâs about your personal relationship with JESUS.
Religion is man-made. God looks at the heart.
Film #2Â -Â Na-GOYO ka na ba sa Pag-ibig? (Were you cheated in love?)
Have you been cheated, or you were the one who cheated?
Cheating, infidelity, adultery is such a serious matter that it is considered UNIVERSALLY FORBIDDEN. However, a lot of people still do it.
Cheating is a form of betrayal. For those who have been cheated on, replaced, shat on:
The Lord is close to the brokenhearted  and saves those who are crushed in spirit.
Both guys and girls are capable of cheating.
HOW DO WE AVOID BEING CHEATED ON?
-Â Â Â Â Â Â Enter a relationship when youâre ready, not when youâre lonely.
Like when you boil an egg, When you boil it fast, it becomes undercooked.
Donât base on physical appearance.
-Â Â Â Â Â Â Like a cake with icing, that would be the first thing weâll see. What if itâs all icing and no cake? At first, yes, itâs sweet, but as you proceed, youâll get sick of it.
NO to, âthe basis of love is SEXâ
-Â Â Â Â Â Â If that person is constantly demanding sex for this reason (sex=love), that person does not love you. That person loves him/herself.
1.   Lack of attention
3.   Lack of commitment
When youâre expecting the person to complete you when you yourself are empty.
How can empty fill empty?
We all have desire to feel loved, special, needed, validated, and affirmed. Our heart is like a bottomless pit that no fame, money, people could fill and satiate. Whatever we do, we would still feel lacking.
The desire and love that you need could only be found in Christ.
If you want love, get it from ABOVE.
⌠because you canât give what you donât have.
We have a hole that only GOD could seal. And He already did that 2000 years ago on the cross. He died for us, for you.
So, even though others canât see it, you are WORTH it.
Know your worth, donât let yourself get cheated on. Elevate your standards and donât conform to the modern dating culture.
pictures from this session can be found here.