Oh hey Codi, @ohheycodi - Tumblr Blog

Hi I flew to Georgia to spend my birthday weekend with @moudy.jpg. Here's a lil update while I have signal here 🌄 // (swipe for more) (at Alpharetta, Georgia)

It takes a village 👭👭 // so thankful for these ladies and their involvement in my growing up (at Sanford, Florida)

The upside: I finally found a romper that doesn't make me look like a giant awkward baby. The downside: I found it the same day the romper for men was announced. Can I live?? 👱🏼‍♀️ (at Ross Dress for Less)

Happy Mother's Day to my sister. You are an incredible mother, even when you doubt yourself, and I'm so glad I have you to look up to. You are 100% where your son gets his bed hogging from, but also where he gets his humor, kind heart, and sassiness. Love you and I hope you don't kill me for this picture 💁🏻 (at Altamonte Springs, Florida)

me: expects my shit to get itself together on its own

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Reblog if you think black girls are cute

This is in response to a blog on here that claims to have cute girls of all types but seems to only have white and occasionally asian girls

goldnpoc

If I really fuck with you imma start talking to you like I’m your mom

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angrymuslimah

The purpose of a girl’s existence is not so she can belong to a man someday

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aguasdelchavo

trying to sound like a normal interested person in public

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My therapist suggested replacing “is there anything I can do” with “what do you need” when comforting someone as the first kind of assumes you as part of the equation in helping someone which isn’t always helpful. It also kind of pressures the person suffering to kind of come up with something FOR you to do. Like I get so frustrated with that first question as a person who gets it a lot.

The second not only takes the pressure off but also might help the person really consider what their actual needs are like hey I haven’t eaten, maybe that’s a reason I feel crappy. It kinda takes the asker out of the immediate picture so the person struggling can focus on what they actually need, and then if you CAN help, you can offer it.

We’ll see if this works better!