I love to jack off. It’s as simple as that. I think I love jacking off more than anything. I’ve never really had any shame about that, and thought that all guys would at least admit that they like to masturbate. I was wrong. Some guys will talk about it, but only in passing or when making a joke. I think I am the first person to hear the words ‘I love to masturbate’ in my life…and that is because I said it. However, upon discovering that there are actually guys that not only love to jerk off but are proud masturbators/solosexuals/pornosexuals/bators…you get it, right? Anyway, when I first discovered that masturbation was my thing - my fetish - I found positive reinforcements somewhat hidden from society from Harold Litten’s ‘The Joy of Solo Sex’ to a tiny little zine back in the 90s entitled JOX and all the solo porn I could get my hands on. Then came Bate Nation and, finally, Bate World. I had found a community that would understand me and my sexuality. And it is beautiful, however, I still find myself somewhat in the minority.
In the masturbation community, there are edgers, bators, gooners, cum deniers, etc. and at one point I felt overwhelmed. I got over that quick. Bating the penis seems to be the standard along with edging for hours and hours and staying ‘un-cummed’. I’m much more simple than that. I love the masturbation community and the guys who make up it’s population. I love to jack off. There, that’s it. While the words masturbation, masturbating, masturbator, solosexual, et al. do turn me on, I find that I also get off on terms like jacking off, jerking off, beating off as well as words like dick, cock, dong. The word ‘penis’ never really did anything for me. It’s just a word my doctor uses when he’s examining me, or a word used on television or a movie or a story to describe the male sex organ. Most of what I encounter in the ‘bator community’ seems to be mainly focused on bators, edgers, gooners, etc. with a distinction that these masturbators are the REAL masturbators of our community while everyone who doesn’t spend hours edging and gooning and cum denial are secondary masturbators. I don’t really agree with that. Masturbation and jacking off are the same to me. It’s the type of masturbation we indulge in is where our differences form.
Usually, my masturbation sessions involve me playing with myself while watching pics and videos of male masturbation (partnered sex just doesn’t really turn me on, even though I will rarely watch a bit of it…and you can include mutual masturbation with that: I’m not turned on by it). I get hard, I jack and play with myself more. Sometimes I’m verbal, sometimes it’s just words repeating in my head. Sometimes a short video will get me off, sometimes it will be fantasy. I will shoot into my cum rag and enjoy the delicious afterglow of my orgasm. These sessions last between 2 to 2.5 hours. If I have some time or if it’s my day off, I will enjoy another session or two after constantly playing with myself between jack off sessions.
What really turns me on are guys that are into masturbation. I mean, really into it!! It’s especially so with men - regardless of sexual orientation - who would rather jerk off than fuck or suck. I love reading, watching, thinking about male masturbation. However, there doesn’t seem to be much resources for the jack off addict. I know I’m not the only one. I’m sure of it. I feel this way because I found a community of masturbators and felt so welcomed into it. I love sites like Bateworld and other sites, blogs, etc. devoted to male masturbation. But for the jackers out there who might be like me, there is little to read or listen to. And I think that’s why I want to start this blog: to show yet another facet of the solosexual community, to write about my life and to share what gets me off. In addition, maybe I will find someone like me: a jack off addict who can’t stop thinking of his and other guys’ dicks and how we play with them and pleasure ourselves; someone obsessed with male masturbation.
And, there, my fellow masturbators, is my first post.
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