Kale

South Africa | IG: kayleymactavish

[perrfectly]

“It was a privilege to love you, and it was a privilege to let you go. Both helped shape me into the person I have become.”

—

[dreamgirlvibes]

You deserve a love that never gives up. When you’re going through the motions and the misunderstandings and the miscommunications and the insecurities and the arguments, you deserve someone who’s patient, loving, soft, vulnerable, emotionally intelligent and wise; someone who may not even know these things but will be vulnerable and caring enough to learn, to not just push you away or end things based off of “what they deserve” but what YOU BOTH deserve which is to never leave, stay and make things work, talk things out and fix whatever problems may be affecting your relationship, turning them into solutions. You deserve to be heard, seen and appreciated, even if trauma or abuse has engulfed you- to work at a plan and come to terms and agreements of how to withstand things- to envelope you in the most trusting and caring way- to show up and handle things with you- not to just fight and give up and call one bad night or one bad week the end of something you both want and know would never compare to anything else. You deserve to be showered in kisses after disagreements and to be made breakfast and dinner even after fusses, to be held while you’re crying and to feel so expressive in your anger that you feel like even if that person can’t give you no solutions, they’re listening and learning and trying. You deserve to feel safe and not have 25,000 ft walls built up because you can’t say what you want or the egg shells have grown so much that you don’t feel the floor anymore. You deserve to feel comfortable in silences and even if there are bad times, you know they will pass cause the love is too rare and one of you will eventually give in; you deserve to feel genuineness and love and calmness and security knowing that even if you don’t agree or agree to disagree, there will be nothing that can shake you- just different opinions leading to an understanding. You deserve to laugh and understand that little arguments are a joke and be convinced that you will both get through this. You deserve all the good and bad parts of love- but to be focused on the greatness of the unity between you both. A love that always stays and constantly grows and will get through anything because you both believe you are everything.

[deviika]

— William Chapman

[x3nshit]

love is choice. show up. consistently.

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[moderndaymystic]

The purest form of love is consideration. When someone thinks about how things would make you feel. Pays attention to detail. Holds you in regard when making decisions that could affect you. In any bond, how much they care about you can be found in how much they consider you

[dafancyuhinspiration]

[deloveusion]

to have a "come here" after an argument type of person >>>>

[the-inspiring-quotes]

[remanence-of-love]

[yourproblemgod-deactivated20230]

“What’s your love language?”

Bitch all of them I’m soft as fuck

[perfectfeelings]

“The strongest people have a past filled with chaos, heart break and disappointment.”

— r.h. Sin

[c--well]

kinda want to go to a log cabin on a mountain with a nice fireplace and quilts and be peaceful for a while

[egelim]

[000l]

a conversation about how you feel is not supposed to end in an argument

[studentlifeproblems]

[10000001]

tell me you want this as much as i do.

[thepersonalwords]

“Because no matter how tough the world becomes, you must never run out of sweetness.” - Bernardo Kath

(via thepersonalwords)