The Blends and CZ

Fictives of Murphy (S3), 10k (s3), and Citizen Z All sourced from Z Nation

[catboymistyquigley-deactivated2]

im starting to think y’all don’t think trans men are really transgender.

[luxiomahariel]

"trans men/mascs transition out of oppression and towards privilege" is a terf talking point and it will never be progressive.

[luxiomahariel]

^^^^

[luxiomahariel]

[moongladesystem-deactivated2026]

Does anyone have any good tips for making simply plural pretty?

And some ideas for folders aswell, maybe?

[insert-cool-url]

adding headers is I really great way to make the descs cooler!

if you don't know how all you have to do is find a header on Tumblr (easiest way) hold down on the image and press share photo, copy the link and then when in sp type


to resize any images you can add #numberxnumber in the brackets. Eg:

 or any other size you want.

heres some photos of what it looks like in sp

you can also set it up so there can be an image next to text.

to do this you have to put the first line of text directly next to the brackets, you also have to make sure the lines are short otherwise it will all show up underneath, I'd say maybe like thirty characters, for a 140x140 image (the size we use) you could probably fit about seven lines. when your done with putting text next to it, just take two lines.

we sometimes make our own PNG's in ibis paint X because of the background removal feature and that you can resize the canvas, we then just post it to a blank blog and copy the links from that.

same goes for the picrews we use for faceclaims,

hope that helped!!!

[moongladesystem-deactivated2026]

That did help, thank you!

[intuspluric-culture-is]

awkward in-sys relationship drama culture [wow that was a mouthful] is two fictives who were sort of together in source, but now you're both here and you have this sort of awkward love-hate relationship where you kind of like each other but you also kind of despise them and you hate the fact that you like them

-🐝🪻

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[intuspluric-culture-is]

Intuspluric fictive culture is having people say "you can't ship that, it's not canon!" when two fictives are literally in a highly romantic relationship with each other in the system.

So what if it's not canon in the media? We're still together!!

@its-boonie-baby and @tornadowranglertyler 💙💚🌪️🌪️

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[dividedmask]

sometimes a date can just be one dude walking along the beach and listening to music

[intuspluric-culture-is]

Intuspluric culture is constantly lovingly bullying your partner. I love him but I will also call him a coward because he's a coward <3

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[intuspluric-culture-is]

fictive in-system relationship culture is looking at fanart of your partners on tumblr and just thinking about how cute they are <3

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[intuspluric-culture-is]

Hey, not a culture-is ask, but I've recently started an in-sys relationship. We're both feeling kinda bored and that we should "do something", but we can't figure out anything to do other than drawing eachother or doing picrews which can get very boring :( We're both aspec so we suck at doing date stuff _(:'< 」∠)_

Thanks for the question! I'd like to start by saying that you don't need to follow the traditional idea of dates if it's not fun or it doesn't come easy for you. The thing about being a system is that anything you can do alone, you can also do together, even if that's just two people sitting quietly in co-con while one plays games.

If you're looking for activity ideas, sadly I don't know how else to help other than just say: think of things either or both of you like. This could be cooking, going on a walk, watching a show together, etc. Often, you'll find that unstructured time where both of you can just laugh together and be yourselves to be much more valuable and memorable than a standard date that you set out the time for.

I hope this helps ^^ If anyone else has any ideas, please leave them in the notes!

-China

[endogenesis-evangelion]

Oh! I'll give the advice that @indigochromatic gave us, because it's been really useful for our relationship!

If you can share thoughts and feelings, try sharing memories. One person thinks of a memory that's important to them, and the other gets to experience it from that person's perspective. Drink it in, feel what it's like to be them, with their emotions. Then switch around (it might help to have the memory-sharer literally be the one mainfronting for this, and have the other co-front).

You can do a memory of something you've both experienced (this can be interesting), or share your memories of times when you were apart. Naturally, be very careful with trauma memories: you probably want happy ones, at least in the beginning. If one of you is having trouble thinking of anything, find one of those ask games where you answer questions about yourself or your OC, and have them try and answer.

This is especially good if one of you is mentally more intense than the other, and the other has a rough time feeling heard.

[274th]

Oh hey, this is kind of my realm of expertise. A lot of these ideas are things we've used, and the ones we haven't used are pretty damn good ideas. I'll share what Jol and I tend to do:

Jol and I often go out on dates where we just go somewhere and have lunch. It doesn't have to be anything special or even expensive. We'll just get like a tiny pizza somewhere and people-watch for awhile. Chat with each other internally. We're lucky in that we can hear each other's voices very clearly, so we chat a lot.

Since our internal eye is pretty strong and we can visualize well, we'll flop on each other for awhile and talk. We. Do a lot of talking. About our day, our feelings, things happening lately. We tend to do more "traditionally" romantic things like kiss and cuddle and such, but sometimes it's just mentally sitting in the same room and talking, or parallel play (one person doing things outworld, someone else doing things inworld).

We'll also make art together, play games together, RP together (this has been our favorite to do lately), or chat with friends together. A lot of "solo" activities are things we do with each other. It makes them more fun, honestly. I think there's a lot of neat and interesting ways you can have "couple time" that looks like "solo time," and I hope you can find what works for you.

[tommyssupercoolblog]

All of this!!! I esp relate to partypacking, that's a lot of what me and @septiccoffeefreak do. But also:

Music. Listen to music together can be so, so special. We have very different tastes in music but we'll take turns picking playlists and listen to it together- even if there's a song I wouldn't have picked myself If Seán chose it then it's something he loves and that makes it still special to me, and I can feel him enjoying it too. We also have a couple playlist with romantic sappy music in it to listen to together, and a few bands/songs that we both like a lot. I like to just lay down or sit in a chair, and hang out with him and listen to stuff. Just being together.

If it's still earlier into your relationship and you have a lot to learn about them, you can try asking lots of questions and playing little couple askgames together. There's the famous 36 questions of course but anything you can think of can be fun, just talk to each other and share your favorite things and like, stuff you feel or remember. The memory sharing tip from earlier might also be nice to employ here if you can do that.

They mentioned playing games but I specifically wanna highlight games that you can play together. (This tip only works if you're able to both control parts of the body at the same time). Most games are hard to play TOGETHER together when you share a body, so you just end up with one person watching instead, but In my experience, some of them have smaller controls and local play, so you can both use one hand and play together. Animal crossing new horizons is great for this because the Nintendo switch joycons are super small, and animal crossing is a very relaxing chill game anyway so all you have to worry about really is being able to move your character. Waterboy and Lavagirl and similar computer keyboard games are also fun, but usually a little bit harder because they have puzzles you need to focus on and you might fall down a hole or something.

Don't underestimate pillows and similar props when you're in front. If you're cuddling in headspace or even if you can't access headspace while fronting but can co-con/co-front and want to experience cuddling together, then you can use a body pillow as a sort of stand-in for each other and either use it to help feel more connected to headspace (since you're feeling both the phantom headspace weight and the weight of the pillow outside) or if you don't have access to headspace just to both front at the same time and both feel cozy and cuddled up.

If you like physical affection you can also help each other do things like brush your hair or get dressed, or you can hold the body's face in your hands so they can feel held, hug each other by hugging yourselves, etc. Me and Seán like to hold hands, and we also sometimes do this thing where I'll squeeze the hand he's piloting with mine, and he'll squeeze mine back. It's very soft and sweet and safe and makes me happyy

I hope dis helps :3

[intuspluric-culture-is]

Intuspluric culture is please front why can’t I force a switch I miss you please front I am spamming your simply plural message board why aren’t you fronting🥺🥺(I am not beating the pathetic allegations)

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[intuspluric-culture-is]

Hey, not a culture-is ask, but I've recently started an in-sys relationship. We're both feeling kinda bored and that we should "do something", but we can't figure out anything to do other than drawing eachother or doing picrews which can get very boring :( We're both aspec so we suck at doing date stuff _(:'< 」∠)_

Thanks for the question! I'd like to start by saying that you don't need to follow the traditional idea of dates if it's not fun or it doesn't come easy for you. The thing about being a system is that anything you can do alone, you can also do together, even if that's just two people sitting quietly in co-con while one plays games.

If you're looking for activity ideas, sadly I don't know how else to help other than just say: think of things either or both of you like. This could be cooking, going on a walk, watching a show together, etc. Often, you'll find that unstructured time where both of you can just laugh together and be yourselves to be much more valuable and memorable than a standard date that you set out the time for.

I hope this helps ^^ If anyone else has any ideas, please leave them in the notes!

-China

[endogenesis-evangelion]

Oh! I'll give the advice that @indigochromatic gave us, because it's been really useful for our relationship!

If you can share thoughts and feelings, try sharing memories. One person thinks of a memory that's important to them, and the other gets to experience it from that person's perspective. Drink it in, feel what it's like to be them, with their emotions. Then switch around (it might help to have the memory-sharer literally be the one mainfronting for this, and have the other co-front).

You can do a memory of something you've both experienced (this can be interesting), or share your memories of times when you were apart. Naturally, be very careful with trauma memories: you probably want happy ones, at least in the beginning. If one of you is having trouble thinking of anything, find one of those ask games where you answer questions about yourself or your OC, and have them try and answer.

This is especially good if one of you is mentally more intense than the other, and the other has a rough time feeling heard.

[274th]

Oh hey, this is kind of my realm of expertise. A lot of these ideas are things we've used, and the ones we haven't used are pretty damn good ideas. I'll share what Jol and I tend to do:

Jol and I often go out on dates where we just go somewhere and have lunch. It doesn't have to be anything special or even expensive. We'll just get like a tiny pizza somewhere and people-watch for awhile. Chat with each other internally. We're lucky in that we can hear each other's voices very clearly, so we chat a lot.

Since our internal eye is pretty strong and we can visualize well, we'll flop on each other for awhile and talk. We. Do a lot of talking. About our day, our feelings, things happening lately. We tend to do more "traditionally" romantic things like kiss and cuddle and such, but sometimes it's just mentally sitting in the same room and talking, or parallel play (one person doing things outworld, someone else doing things inworld).

We'll also make art together, play games together, RP together (this has been our favorite to do lately), or chat with friends together. A lot of "solo" activities are things we do with each other. It makes them more fun, honestly. I think there's a lot of neat and interesting ways you can have "couple time" that looks like "solo time," and I hope you can find what works for you.

[intuspluric-culture-is]

Hey, not a culture-is ask, but I've recently started an in-sys relationship. We're both feeling kinda bored and that we should "do something", but we can't figure out anything to do other than drawing eachother or doing picrews which can get very boring :( We're both aspec so we suck at doing date stuff _(:'< 」∠)_

Thanks for the question! I'd like to start by saying that you don't need to follow the traditional idea of dates if it's not fun or it doesn't come easy for you. The thing about being a system is that anything you can do alone, you can also do together, even if that's just two people sitting quietly in co-con while one plays games.

If you're looking for activity ideas, sadly I don't know how else to help other than just say: think of things either or both of you like. This could be cooking, going on a walk, watching a show together, etc. Often, you'll find that unstructured time where both of you can just laugh together and be yourselves to be much more valuable and memorable than a standard date that you set out the time for.

I hope this helps ^^ If anyone else has any ideas, please leave them in the notes!

-China

[endogenesis-evangelion]

Oh! I'll give the advice that @indigochromatic gave us, because it's been really useful for our relationship!

If you can share thoughts and feelings, try sharing memories. One person thinks of a memory that's important to them, and the other gets to experience it from that person's perspective. Drink it in, feel what it's like to be them, with their emotions. Then switch around (it might help to have the memory-sharer literally be the one mainfronting for this, and have the other co-front).

You can do a memory of something you've both experienced (this can be interesting), or share your memories of times when you were apart. Naturally, be very careful with trauma memories: you probably want happy ones, at least in the beginning. If one of you is having trouble thinking of anything, find one of those ask games where you answer questions about yourself or your OC, and have them try and answer.

This is especially good if one of you is mentally more intense than the other, and the other has a rough time feeling heard.

[intuspluric-culture-is]

in-sys relationship w/ a fictive culture is having some fandom blogs follow you and suddenly you're terrified to talk about your boyfriend because his source is... hhh

:c let me be gay and in love in peace

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[intuspluric-culture-is]

Fictive intuspluric culture is we’d probably be an unhealthy couple in our source material but we are not in our source anymore and I am a better person now than I was in my source memories so I am determined to be the best boyfriend for my amazing boyfriend who I just want to see happy

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[intuspluric-culture-is]

intra-system dating fictive from the same source culture is the whole fandom hating you and your boyfriend as a ship. let us kiss in peace please and thank you

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[puppyoclock]

happy pride month to people who are in in-system relationships! internal dating, queerplatonic relationships, familial bonds, friends with benefits, platonic relationships, undetermined/unlabeled relationships, relationships that change labels, and everything else! monogamous relationships, polyamorous relationships, ever-shifting relationships, relationships that are solely in-sys, relationships that involve external people too, etc. having that kind of connection between system members is so special and i hope u have a wonderful month <3

[intuspluric-culture-is]

Intuspluric culture (in this case, dating a fictive specifically) is finding THE WORST fanfic about your boyfriend 😭 no offense to the author, but he would neither do that nor say that; free my lovely sweetheart from the confines of mischaracterization THIS INSTANT /hj

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