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just in case you forgot what I meant, when I say-

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Pleasing my partner turns me on so fucking much

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- Fyodor Dostoyevsky, 'Notes' from The Underground

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seeing a notification from a mutual is just like hi I love you btw

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I have followed you for years, so I know you have had sex, been in relationships so why do you think you are ugly?? Do you think these girls were just wasting their time???

For years? Damn. Thank you.

Honestly for the longest time, yeah. Or imposter syndrome. But the moment I hit 30 years old, I was getting hit on a lot and therapy has kinda been making me want to change that mindset. Some of my exes thought I was ugly and only dated me because they felt safe and enjoyed how I treated them though. So it's weird. I don't know if I'm ugly or not. I have been fucked and called ugly while my cock is in them and been told I'm beautiful and ghosted.

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Like can you imagine, having sex with someone, making them cum. And them looking up at you, a hand on your face, in bliss, and saying you'd be the best partner but you don't look good next to them.

Imagine getting the longest text telling you that you are the best thing that ever happened to them, the most handsome man in the world, a screenshot of your selfie being their phone wallpaper and waking up to being fucking blocked on everything.

How the fuck am I going to have any confidence in my looks? In my heart?

Not to be mean but how can you be insecure or think you are ugly if you have had sex??

Ugly isn't a moral failing or something that prevents people from having sex. It's objective opinion.

But I already answered an ask. I'll reblog.

i wish people would keep their negative thoughts to themselves. obviously people are allowed to be attracted to whoever, but going up to strangers and treating them like garbage for no fucking reason makes them ugly fucking people.

you, however, are sweet and lovely and kind, all in addition to being attractive and having an extra smoochable forehead

Thank you. I appreciate it.

I really wish people could understand what a negative comment does to me. I know it doesn't matter. I have people that think I'm handsome and whatever. But it's like I'm pushed down the stairs of progress.